#if you had very distinct facial hair when we first met then ill probably remember you that way forever

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I just noticed that I no longer perceive things like facial hair or deep voices as being gendered. Which is honestly pog. The world is way more beautiful this way

#slowly rewiring my brain by being around exclusively gender queer people 😎 #i actually dont normally notice facial hair at all though for some reason?? like idk it depends #if you had very distinct facial hair when we first met then ill probably remember you that way forever #but if you shave semi frequently i literally wont notice you have facial hair at all ever #its like regular hair im not gonna notice your hair growing an inch or you cutting it an inch because its hair and thats just what it does #the voices thing is different i think. i still associate speech patterns with gender kind of #but like for funsies if that makes sense? like i will change my speech pattern instantly based on wether im being perceived female or not