#invisibility in trans men hasnt been relevant for fucking years now

[onlyfangz]

it's so wild to me that there's really people out there who make up this hypothetical trans man in their heads that swans through life completely stealth. before t youre just seen as a regular woman or young boy and after t youre immediately a big strong man that 100% fits the rigid conformity men have to hit in order to be considered truly "men". fuck gnc people. fuck poc. fuck disabled men. fuck the dudes who just dont pass and never will.

but the REASON this made up trans man is so wild to me is because... i am a trans man that's been harassed about my gender! in public! by complete strangers! i am not on t. and i do not mean i was mistaken for a butch lesbian. i mean i have been clocked by several people, hurling abuse at me specifically because im a trans man. i mean i have been called faggot, tranny, asked incessantly what my gender is, backed into corners, shoved, spat at, had shit thrown at me, again, not because these people thought i was a lesbian or trans woman, but because they knew i was a trans man.

so it's insane to me youve made up this dude in your head that represents all trans men and then just... plug your ears and go LALALALALA when literally everybody in this fucking community tells you that that's not what it's like. but oh, im sorry, i forgot you watched a youtube interview with middle class passing trans male influencers and they said they get paid more, no you're right, they're just like me fr.

#charlie.txt #i have a beard and my voice does not match that #again im not on t this is just my natural body #if you tell me i have male privilege im going to laugh at you bc youre acting like a fucking clown #also! these dudes that theyre talking abt that are supposedly the paragon of trans malehood are always like. doctors. microbiologists. #surgeons. computer programmers. lawyers. #and its like. wow. yeah. youre doing gender theory so good right now buddy. no yeah youre absolutely right this dude making 6 figures SHOULD #be the poster boy that you base all of your thoughts and opinions on. #we live in 2024 not only do people know who tf trans men are but they also know what to look for to clock us #invisibility in trans men hasnt been relevant for fucking years now