#it honestly looks like a lot of yall only look to serve yourselves in your friendships

[sanzuphobe]

also also sometimes people just dont care about what you have to say and yall need to find a way to deal with that. its not immoral for someone to not care about what you have to say

#especially in that post yall are making it painfully clear that you dont care about what these supposed NTs have to say. #sure it may hurt your feelings if someone doesnt care about what you have to say #but its very human and natural to not care about everything everyone has to say. you literally cant care about everything lmao #sometimes you bore people. sometimes you say stuff they dont care about. shit happens. #ive been doing a lot of research about like hair care and stuff like that and when my friend was complaining about her hair #i was ready to info dump for a full 20 minutes and recommend 20 different things and tell her all this stuff about silicones and sulfates #and what the fuck else #but i saw the light in her eyes dying and i was like hey. do you want t know this? if i tell you how to fix it will you do it #or do you just wanna vent and continue on your merry way #and she was like no actually i wont listen. #and thats fine! because when i talk to my friends i want us BOTH to enjoy the experience! #and just to be clear my friends absolutely would and have let me infodump and monologue and speech for half an hour at a time #but they do that to humour me. it doesnt necessarily enrich anything for them. #and when i talk to my friends i want us both to enjoy the conversation #and i feel like thats something aa lot of the ppl in that post are missing #it honestly looks like a lot of yall only look to serve yourselves in your friendships #also when i say yall i mean rhetorical you not anyone that woould actually read thi lol #nf #personal