#n ik obv u don’t have to have similar interests to get on a someone

[boyghcst]

lit feel like I can’t have a convo w someone unless there’s a common interests there otherwise it just feels forced and boring

#n ik obv u don’t have to have similar interests to get on a someone #*with #but like i just can’t seem to hold good meaningful convos w ppl unless it’s a topic of interest #idk maybe thts just normal tbh but i do feel kinda self centred sometimes #cos all i can talk abt is like the things i like n if the other person doesn’t share tht common interest n we struggle to find any interest #i just feel like it’s not a productive or meaningful relationship #i mean idk unless someone’s personality is so bubbly and bounces off mine then the interests don’t matter tht much #cos there’s not this awkwardness #but idk i do rlly struggle w talking to ppl im not the best at coming up w convos or feeling comfy enough to open up etc #unless it’s abt specific things cos i do like being able to talk to ppl abt certain things tht we can both talk abt #it’s just hard to find tht w ppl #at the same time tho if someone talks to me abt something I’m rlly not interested in and it’s their interest #i do feel bad i just don’t wanna listen to it like contiojnsly cos I have nothing to add n it feels like they’re talking at me #idk socialising etc is just hard :/ #journal