#not extremely unbelievably fortunate; i think it is normal and good not to cut children off as soon as they turn 18 esp while they are in

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#it’s become obvious my roommate feels some type of way about the fact that my parents still contribute to me financially #which it’s a free county #she can think and be however she likes #idk im annoyed that i literally just venmoed her today for the chipotle she used her account to mobile order (and she specifically asked if #we could order together so she can get the points for her account) #and then when i mention me buying us chick fil a thé other day she’s like oh yeah i thought you were just using up the rest of your dining #account money but i can pay you if you want. #like yes it is fortunate my parents still help me (i mean #not extremely unbelievably fortunate; i think it is normal and good not to cut children off as soon as they turn 18 esp while they are in #school preparing for careers and unable to get jobs) #but your parents also give you money #the ten grand they gave you though was for your wedding which is in less than a year #it’s not my fault that you decided to get married which does kind of imply that you should be cut off from your parents and living off your #own income #it isn’t like my family is rolling in money. all our clothes are from goodwill all our groceries are freedoms choice commissary brand lol #my parents specifically chose when they had kids that they didn’t want them to have to work in college like they had and so made plans #early on to do help us with that because it was one of their core values. #and i still had a job in undergrad! they pay for my groceries and my textbooks anything i want that’s fun comes out of the money ive earned #working through undergrad. it really annoys me