#the reason it's unofficial and unlabeled is bc if any Weight was added to our relationship and anything changed abt the way we are

[littlepetbee]

new relationship status: unofficially in a unlabeled platonic partnership with my best friend

#personal #the reason it's unofficial and unlabeled is bc if any Weight was added to our relationship and anything changed abt the way we are #my aro ass would Not be able to handle that lmao #but we've been talking a lot lately about Us and relationships generally and realized that half the reason #neither of us have ever wanted to get married/date/whatever is bc /we/ are each other's People until death do us part #the very thought of anyone coming into our lives that would have to match each other in importance is awful to both of us #she's my number one and i'm hers and nothing has changed about our relationship other than professing our Commitment to each other #that we'll always walk through the world together and any really big decisions will be made collaboratively or with the other in mind #which is a big ol' RELIEF to me bc that's how i've always felt about her but i never thought someone who's not aro would return that #but she was literally the one to bring it up like 'i always feel weird calling what we have a friendship bc i have friends and i have you #and it's not the same thing' #IDK MAN THIS IS PROBABLY OVERSHAREY BUT IT'S A REALLY BIG DEAL TO ME AND I'M REALLY HAPPY #I NEVER THOUGHT I COULD HAVE SOMETHING LIKE THIS #and i love that she's always called me her 'other half' and now that's more than just a turn of phrase <3