#they're SO cute they're making my brain go weeeeee

[deweyduck]

"That’s why I loved our vacations here. You and me, we were different together."

Draculaura & Heath in Monster High | 02x06a "Fangs for the Memories"

#monster high #draculaura #heath burns #monster high g3 #monsterhighedit #mhedit #tuserkit #userjessica #tuserhallie #usercreate #usersource #nickelodeon #nickelodeonedit #monsterhighsource #witchesnet #animationsdaily #dailyanimatedgifs #draculaura x heath #heath x draculaura #*edits #i haven't stopped thinking about this episode since i watched it #they're SO cute they're making my brain go weeeeee #what ship name are we gonna go with bc i need to know what to tag them as #ugh the last gif where they're having a tea party 😭🥺 #the first gif where he has to help her reach the phone bc they're so tiny 😭🥺😭🥺

[dervampireprince]

My neurodivergent brain just went "WEEEEEE" and I've been happily stimming for the past 30 minutes because of your answer- so thank you for sharing your experience and thoughts ! I've never really talked about gender things with people so hearing you went/goes through similar experiences as me is trully reassuring ! 🌸 (also the 'Them Fatal' pin ?? I need one-)

It is really easy to believe "oh I must have lied before" or "oh I must have been in denial so far" when you're so unsure of what's going on.. The gender umbrella is just so big and different for everyone it is hard to find yourself in it, but in the end of the day it is still you.

I do tend to forget nonbinary exist despite knowing about it and having nonbinary friends- and it is true there are lots of labels, I know I look too hard at them and it's not good for me because I'm searching for the 'perfect one' for me but it doesn't exist, if it did then everyone would have their very own label but it's not the case. Like you said gender is a feeling.

I know people almost exclusely see me as a girl because I only wear dresses and wear make up-but I do that mostly because dresses are the only clothes I am comfortable in (physically wise, not gender wise-) and I end up playing dress up with myself so if I have to look fem I better look good in it so I add make up to feel 'sexy'. But there are days where I hate it. Which doesn't make sense because as I said I LOVE boys in dresses, it makes me go wild and men DO wear make up too ! It's nothing new, they're still men, I find them handsome. My brain just goes "yeah they can but not you, you're the exception"

And I am oversharing again flfjdkld my bad, I hope it doesn't make you uncomfortable that I am complaining about my brain like that- thank you again 🌸

Anyway- I'd love to help you gain more confidence in wearing skirts or anything else- I'd probably die on the spot too because it really is a weakness of mine, I find boys so pretty and cute in them I just want to cuddle them and pepper their body with kisses, starting by their tighs then their tummy before reaching their face and sweetly kiss them in adoration 🌸🌸🌸

yeah i'm someone who is desperate to have the perfect label because of a need to fit in, i think it's cool when other people are unlabeled or don't care, but i do because i like having words for things so i can articulate better and if there's a word for a thing then it means at least one other person is the same as me.

oh i feel that. i'm very much yeah i'd tell someone they were still a boy if they dressed like x but you don't understand it's different when its me. which i know it bullshit.

you're not oversharing dw! i do have some old photos of me in skirts i took possibly before i even started this blog, or possibly right near the beginning. maybe i'll post them. but oh 😳😳 okay yeah see it's already working ohoh 😭

ps.

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