#this is about being told bi isnt real because EVERYONE ends up monogamous so you have to choose eventually

[sooptea]

I still think about the fact that I got a lot of harassment for IDing as bisexual when I was younger. I feel like it's either not really an issue anymore or I have just miraculously avoided seeing any biphobia the last few years.

Like yeah, there probably are people who hate bi people, it wouldn't surprise me, and it wouldn't surprise me if the only reason why I don't see it anymore is just because I'm in the United States and our queer conversation at the moment is more focused on gender identity than sexual identity.

Idk maybe it's why I think it's fucking stupid people rag on binary trans and nonbinary trans people. Like in 60 years transphobia is gonna be seen as old and stupid. What have we learned the last 10, 60, 1000+ years? Nothing.

People are gonna rehash the same bullshit excuse every time just a different enemy

#imagine being forced to sit at a cafeteria people with a bunch of people you know but arent friends with and they purposely #start talking about how being bi is sinful and youd burn in hell. and you cant walk away bc of stupid school rules and what not and it's 7am #i had complete random strangers dming me in middle school saying that because i was bisexual i was absolutely horrible and gross and i #was going to burn #I HADNT EVEN KISSED ANYONE LIKE DAMN YALL HATED ME FOR JUST BREATHING #also dont clown bc this post is not about 🍳 or omni folk and the minority of biphobia that comes from there #this is specifically about how i had gay people tell me theyd never date a bisexual because they ALWAYS cheat or leave them for het couples #this is about straight people telling me i CANT be bi i can ONLY be gay or straight #this is about being told bi isnt real because EVERYONE ends up monogamous so you have to choose eventually #this is about being told i shouldnt kiss anyone same sex because what if I wanted to be het later and nobody would want to date me #this is about having people using asking me out as a joke because the idea of dating me was laughable