#this sounds sooo silly but ive been trying to puzzle out the “am i bisexual or gay or a lesbian” question for going on seven years now

[lilyveselka]

sexuality revelations today... i think what i find most attractive in a person is not strictly relevant to their gender but rather, like. the state of being visibly and openly queer. im not attracted to Men as a category but i am attracted to men who are visibly queer. im not attracted to Women as a category but i am attracted to women who are visibly queer.... its all coming together.

#i am a dyke specifically for other dykes and i am a fag specifically for other fags is the crux of it really. #this sounds sooo silly but ive been trying to puzzle out the “am i bisexual or gay or a lesbian” question for going on seven years now #so this is like sexuality revelations 2 me. retrospectively i think this is GLARINGLY obvious based on everything about me but #it was a mystery. TO ME #i think i am still lesbian in that i only want to *date* women + women adjacent people and i typically read as a woman though. #talkin