#too busy dealing with deep self loathing for being horny. no bandwidth for worrying about not experiencing teenage romance

[idololivine]

aroallo olivine...

#my posts #kisses him gently. nonromantically #I like the idea that as a teen he never even noticed his lack of romantic attraction bc. he has so much other shit going on #too busy dealing with deep self loathing for being horny. no bandwidth for worrying about not experiencing teenage romance #and then he joins the clan and sees how head over heels half of them are for everyone else #and he's like. my god. am I doing relationships wrong. are my emotions broken. am I broken... #and he's not! he's a lovequeer aro he loves everyone and everything so deeply #loves them the way worshippers love god the way god loves his creations the way people love their friends and family and soulmates #(not that love is a requirement for being human. just that olivine loves deeply.) #doesn't matter if he doesn't love romantically. the label doesn't matter if the connections and kindness and intimacy are there #aroallo olivine...