#vent baby! — ꨄ

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hiiiii sem <3333 hope ur doing great

i need to rant rq/want ur opinion if im being overdramatic but a close friend of mine still keeps contact with a guy who's best friend almost got me preggers last summer bc he had no condoms. (he kinda pressured me into it). for context we were on a girls trip and we met these guys at a bar so likeee it was supposed to be a one night stand and i never talked to that guy again(didn't even cum smh). also the girls told me after that his best friend wanted to walk in on us doing the dirty (terrifying) and i felt so disgusted after. it was kinda traumatizing. i ghosted them both after but my friend keeps talking to them and i ignored it fr a while bc thats her business (even tho its kinda insensitive) but now she tells me she accepted him on her spam acc that has all the videos of us from that trip (personal shit) and he texted her that he had scrolled down and seen them all. :/. like. i confronted her abt it and now she's acting like im overreacting and telling me to "chill". i feel rlly bad and she won't remove him atp even tho ive told her countless times how uncomfortable that makes me idk why she would even do this tbh. like she didn't even f the guy. idk what to do. am i overreacting?

you’re not overreacting at all :( i’m so sorry he didn’t respect your boundaries.

she’s not taking ur privacy seriously or respecting u period. you deserve so much better than that in your friendships! not to scare u, but ur safety is potentially at risk no matter how small that risk is—especially when you’ve already told her that he/their group make you uncomfortable. once should’ve been enough. and the fact that she’s telling you to chill ab it… i’d be losing my foot up her ass. she’s trying to walk all over u & ur privacy for some guy. and his predator friend???? in my eyes, this is more than enough to cut her off for. friends shld always have ur best interest & safety in mind. and she’s a shitty person period.

#vent baby! — ꨄ #coercion tw

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why did some loser ass coworker look at me and say “and she’s always back here stealing shit” to the other guy he was talking to? Im not one to assume but like it’s pretty obvious he was referring to me, right?

like, ignoring the potential racial overtones since they’re both Pale Pathogens, what business is that of yours??? Excuse me for being an ambulance ride away from homelessness and not wanting a fourth of my shitty paycheck to go to food I don’t even get a DISCOUNT for until early December??? And even then it’s only for one time and less than 30%

And it was deadass just butter and milk that I was saving for when I got off the clock 🧍🏽‍♀️ ruined my fucking morning, white people do everything but mind their own goddamn business. Like this the same dickhead that nearly ran me over like three times because he was on his phone while using a big ass cleaning rig that moves around the store.

Not to mention he stays staring at me when I come to the breakroom like??? pay attention to that lil white girlfriend of yours or kys! You’re mad weird!

If I end up fired because of this mf I stg Sem

he’s gonna burn in the last circle of hell. needs to stay out ya business!

how are you doing bubs? i know that was so stressful and frustrating. food is the least that fuck ass company cld give you. i’m sorry they don’t treat you better.

#the racial implications… my eye started twitching #and he probably takes shit ANYWAYS. and if he doesn’t then what a fucking privilege it is to exist like that #vent baby! — ꨄ

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I was talking to my mom about roe v wade today and tbh it just upset me because she kept just blaming women for problems that men also or are the sole problem of.

And she didn't even say "these women" she just kept saying "these bitches"

I pointed out that even if rape or incest isn't a factor things don't always go according to plan and she said "well look at me I haven't gotten pregnant since I started dating again." And like, yeah good for you, not everyone gets that luck??? Then she brought up the 72h pill and how schools teach that you can go get it at the health department and I had to check her and say that, no, they no longer did that. The only reason I knew that was because she taught me, and my knowledge of that saved many of my friends.

I just stopped engaging with her at some point because it felt very defeating hearing her repeat the same shit. I'm really grateful that your blog is a safe space to talk about this whole cluster fuck of a world we live in.

that must be so aggravating omg. this whole thing has been so emotional and frustrating and she’s… 😐☹️

but yes, a lot of people love to pretend that we are in an idealized society. like i’m sure abortion rates might go down if the united states took sex education more seriously. i’m sure abortion rates might go down if men were taught how to properly put on condoms, and how to respect women and trans men as human beings. but we don’t live in that world.

and even if we did have all that, FUCK THEM KIDS!

also, is she referring to plan b? or is this something else? (the 72hr pill)

#vent baby! — ꨄ #abortion rights

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semmie baby i’m back to being left on delivered for 4 days 😭😭 i’m sick literally crying and throwing up men ain’t shit!! i didn’t know i was talking to mf gojo

that man is NAWTTTT gojo.

does he got money like gojo? is he funny like gojo? is he empathetic and loving like gojo? 🤨

but srsly, someone said it before (i don’t know if i posted it) but this hot and cold game he’s playing is on purpose. he’s withdrawing so you feel the need to chase after him. he’s manipulating you, baby. and you don’t deserve to feel unwanted for the sake of his ego/commitment issues.

#vent baby! — ꨄ

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Sem I had the most weird interaction with a coworker/friend

so like we’ve all been WFH the past few months and in my job i was hired during this time. We started a hydbrid system like last week right?

And since we were all WFH everything was on google meets (we basically had to be in a meeting at all times with our team in case we needed help/to build connections etc) and this one dude (not in my team, we’ll call him Al) would jump in my team if his team was off (part timers basically had set hours where full timers wouldn’t and me and him had same part time shifts) and we lowkey became work friends bc we’d always be on at the same time right?

So Al is like 40 or smth (i didn’t know this bc he didn’t have a photo on our work comms app and he never had his camera on) and so i had no idea what this dude looked like but he knew what i looked like (cause i had photos + sometimes in meetings if a few people had their camera on, i would too).

Anyway, i met him in office for the first time yesterday and he kept messaging me like “i see you” and like mentioning what i was doing and stuff and it was funny at first but then lowkey weird bc i’d look around and couldn’t see anyone right? and idk what he looks like so i didn’t even know who i was LOOKING FOR

Then my work ‘bestie’ came in to start his shift (his nickname is Tits - i will not elaborate) and me and Tits are actually really close friends bc we highkey bonded over our shared traumas lmao and have hung out before. And Tits comes up to me, gives me a hug and sits down. all the usual shit.

Suddenly i feel someone legit cover my eyes and go “guess whoo” and i knew it was Al cause i immediately recognised his voice. Turned around to say hello properly and get swooped into mfing bear hug and he goes on about how he’s SO happy to finally meet me and how he’s been waiting for this day FOREVER. My ass finally manages to step back to actually look at this dude and i’m like whatever the hug is cool but a little unexpected but i like hugs so i’m fine.

and Tits is like “yo who this” and Al introduces himself as “this lil girls hot older friend” and fucking WINKS. and then turns to me and is like “i gotta get back to my team but it was great finally meeting you, gorgeous!” and this old man pulls me into another hug and kisses my head before skipping off. I legit stood there for a solid minute like 🧍🏽‍♀️

Tits just looked at me and was like “that was… weird. you good?” and idk?? like a part of me was all maybe he’s super friendly and that’s ok but also??? we aren’t even close like that- we’re friends at BEST and i was thrown off that he was like in his 40s too bc idk why but age never came up?? ever? I only found out about his age yesterday when i asked lmao and at first he was all “does it matter?” idk sir you’re like 20 years older than me and a bit too touchy feely for work friend

idk if i’m overreacting and he’s just nice and very touchy or it was weird? I told one of my friends of this and they pointed out that Al and me started our shift at the same time but he didn’t reveal himself until another dude hugged me like 5hrs later

you’re not overreacting. it made you uncomfortable, and that’s enough. he cannot overstep your boundaries, no matter how long you’ve known each other or how close he thinks the two of you are.

you should tell him that you didn’t like his behavior—just so he can know not to repeat that fuck shit again. and if it persists (hopefully it doesn’t) take him straight to HR. i’d say let someone in HR know now just so it’s on file.

are you okay? :( do something sweet for yourself because that’s a very unpleasant feeling to sit with, baby.

#vent baby! — ꨄ

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sem its the birthday anon again and its probably the last time i bother you with this im sorry but this bitch rlly said she’s gonna celebrate her bday twice. “ill do it with them and then with you on our trip🥺” bitch we’re taking that trip on MY birthday. and its rlly important to us cus we’re also going to a concert. i honestly never believed she would pull this shit ever and only TWO WEEKS before the trip as well. i feel awful cus i wanna cut her off so bad rn but we have to go :( but she really ruined it for me. really really hurt me with this and ur the only person ive told tbh cus im embarrassed to even say it out loud to anyone😭😭 why are people always so shitty to me. the funny thing is she doesn’t even realize that she’s wrong, i just left her on delivered

this cunt 😭 somebody would have to be there to pick up the pieces bc i’d have to rip her apart. there’s no way.

“i can’t bring you around my other friends but we can celebrate my birthday during your birthday celebration! that’s my gift to you 🥰!”

babe please you just gotta laugh at the buffoonery and save your money. buy yourself a gift instead. adulthood is too strenuous for you to be investing good energy into people who don’t actually like you. i’m so glad you have other ppl in your life babes bc this kinda shit is devastating.

#vent baby! — ꨄ

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i have a final today. im fearing for my life 😭

#vent baby! — ꨄ

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she drank so much, now she throwin it up 😜

#no but seriously someone help me #this is the second time my liver probably hates me #i’m sipping on some water tho so maybe she’ll take it easy 🙁 #and my stomach 😕 #gonna eat something soon ugh #vent baby! — ꨄ

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Some people can handle negative emotions so they’ll try to switch the vibe when you are expressing yourself. It truly pisses me off too. I have a friend like that, anytime I’m sad or expressing myself she’ll like talk over me, make a strained joke, or talk to me aggressively. Just not at all comforting or even trying to be. Almost as if it makes her upset that you are upset cause it’s not how she expects you to act? I get it.

It makes me feel some people will always try to push you into a bubble of what makes them comfortable. It’s a selfish habit, but truly goes to show how small their emotional capacity is. It’s definitely not you. I would have replied to their boasting by telling them that their emotional capacity was shit and then stopped responding but that’s just me. If you don’t? It’s okay but maybe make space from them and find someone who you can really talk to, who values and listens to you. But I get it. You aren’t being pissy. You’re being entirely justified.

i didn’t even wanna be mean bc i’m 9/10 sure that he probably didn’t even read my messages and went straight into talking ab himself. but that is also a garbage move.

but your friend… i would have lost it by now i’m so sorry she’s like that. you should definitely talked to her ab it on the side! don’t let the resentment build like i do, baby 😭😭😭😭

#vent baby! — ꨄ

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Birthday is a week away and the guy who seemed to be pretty into me just ghosted me.. not feeling hot this summer :/

happy birthday baby!! i’m so sorry, u don’t deserve that :(

life is more than just some guy and whether or not he texts you back. you’re surrounded by love, immersed in it. your birthday is yours and yours alone and it’s much too important to let this lil setback ruin the whole thing!

also, he may just be dealing w some personal stuff! but still, he could just tell you that, too.

regardless, you better turn up or ima come 👋🏽💥 that ass 🤨

#vent baby! — ꨄ

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hi semmie🥰🥰 hope ur okay❤️ little rant-

my best friend in the whole world won’t invite me to her birthday party😍😍how cool is that!! and she doesn’t think she’s made a mistake at all bc another friend is throwing it fr her🥺🥺 tbh i didn’t say anything bc its her birthday and we have a trip coming up where we’re supposed to celebrate my birthday and i didn’t want to cause a huge fight right before it but yikes. and here i was trying to find the perfect gift for her all these weeks!!😍😍😍how great. amazing truly. im so tired of people being assholes. seriously ain’t no way im being dramatic bc this is unfair. she doesn’t bother inviting me anywhere while i always invite her when im hanging out w my friends and they’re always super nice to her unlike HER friends who tbh treat me like shit and she does NOTHING when that happens🥰🥰 never gave a shit enough to even ask a simple ‘u okay’ when i was goin thru hell with my family,,, its all my fault fr caring more than other ppl do tbh but i just wanted an opinion cus yk what maybe im in the wrong here idk

i actually just had a similar situation happen to me! abt two years ago, my friend’s girlfriend didn’t wanna invite us to his birthday (even though his parents were throwing the party) and he ended up not inviting us! we haven’t talked since.

if she lets other ppl treat you like shit, then she is not your friend, baby :( you deserve better than that. especially since they’re her friends. it’s disrespectful and neglectful of you. i know it hurts but honestly? i’m voting 4 u to kick her to the curb.

if you’ve expressed your hurt and the most she can say is “well it’s not my problem bc yatta yatta yatta” then she’s not your problem either. fuck her and that gift. she’s not even trying to receive you emotionally.

i’m so sorry, my love. i know you must be so frustrated and hurt. but you have other people in your life that genuinely care ab your well-being and safety.

i don’t know her so i can’t really tell you but my mother always warns me ab friends who ain’t really your friends. ppl i know have been jumped by their supposed “friends.” situations like this can get so dangerous so quickly. keep an eye out for yourself :(

#vent baby! — ꨄ

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u ever have a mutual where you know the two of you would be absolutely brilliant together but ur too scared to talk to them 💔💔💔

#oomf is so fucking funny we’d be GOLD!!! #am i gonna tell them that? hell naw 😭 #vent baby—ꨄ

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the bitter taste that fills ur mouth when you’re only invited to things so u can help pay for them 😐

#maybe i won’t go #vent baby! — ꨄ

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semmie i'm having a bad day. just found out my bf cheated on me with the best friends and paid them to keep quiet. on top of that we got into a fight because he said it was my fault and that he was only dating me because i have big tits :(

that man is sick and he needs his ass whooped. praying he gets curbstomped today.

something like this could never be your fault. you’re so much more than your body and the fact that he told you that??? it’s giving he has a porn addiction and can’t recognize women as human beings. let him die, baby.

#vent baby! — ꨄ

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Is it bad that I can smell my pussy even after a whole day of showering …

a lot can be going on in there, baby! it could be the kind of underwear u use, how often you wear underwear, your diet—a whole lot of things. but just remember that smelling a little weird down there doesn’t make you a bad person. it’s natural. and men don’t even wipe their tips after they pee, so. feminism 🤷🏽‍♀️

#if you’re really worried don’t be afraid to get checked out at the doctor’s #it’s embarrassing but it’s for your health! #vent baby! — ꨄ #pussy talk <3

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i think the worst thing is being friends w people who don’t speak or understand your love language. it’s lonely. it’s icky. what’s important to you isn’t important to them.

and then it’s like, shld u follow this precedent of not feeling important 60% of the time bc u feel good for that 40%? i don’t want it :/

#vent baby! — ꨄ