#yes its my fault fpr letting him borrow so much

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me worried about exposing my family on here and then realising i literally know none of u guys irl so it doesnt matter ????

#kat talks #kats personal #anyways my cousin - over the last 3 years - has horrowed a GREAT GREAT sum of money from me #and maybe its great to me bc im young and making super bare minimum #but like also. 10k is a lot of money #anyways hes promised multiple times to pay it back and he finally stopped borrowing money last nov #(he promised to pay back and continued to borrow. an endless cycle) #anywahs now hes not even replying to my msgs and its been two months 🙃 #yes its my fault fpr letting him borrow so much #and i shouldnt hsve trusted him that much #but also mans is like. six years older tban me and was an older brother figure #until recent years anyways #so its kinda like 🙃🙃 idk i thought i could trust you 🙃🙃🙃🙃 #needless to say #half the family (cousins) strongly dislikes him for the same reason and then finding out he borrowed that much from me and is ghodting me #ANYWAYS any tips n tricks to grt money back from someone ghostig u would be <3 #+ i thought i could manage and give him time to pay me back but that was this time last year #and o tpld him there might be instances where i need it back ASAP #and he was like yeah he knows and he'll be able to do it #and now bc of whats happening at home and also my own health/medical stuff im like 🫠 horrible time for u to do this to me #also yeah why did i let him borrow that much when i know i wasnt making that much??? #it was a few hundred every few days and weeks with promises of repaying the following week #and i was able to work extra over the holidays but i couldnt the last month #so 🙃 #ARGHHJHZ yes i fucked up but also yes its on him and i know hes being a bad person rn #but also im too scared to further ruin our relationship by speaking up about it/be more aggressive ib my approach to him LOL #literally feel so played rn #like he was very obviously trying to build our relationship and knew exactly how to make me feel closer w him #and i always (and still am ngl) giving him the benefit of the doubt bc yknow. hes family and he wasnt always like this ????