#you're not Better than transphobes when you tell transmascs it's a phase to not want to be feminine or associated with fem gender roles

[vampire-nyx]

Honestly I’m really happy for people (transmascs in mind but everyone applicable is included) that really hated pink as a kid and then grew to love it as an adult because they embraced their idea of femininity and actually really liked the color, just avoided it due to it’s societal connotations

however, I do find it a little weird and offputting that among certain people, this narrative is growing of “haha, transmascs will always come back to loving pink and being fem” even including the implication that if you don’t, it’s Solely internalized misogyny and you must be still going through a phase. That logic just seems.. familiar to me if you see what I mean

#like idk #obviously not everyone saying the first part is also doing the latter #but enough are that I'm picking up on this pattern in posts about it #like my favorite colors are still purple and blue and black #I still really dislike pink #and yellow which is another color people seem to have this mindset about #I think they're both ugly colors I'd never wear or use for decoration #there's no morality or gender involved I just think they're ugly #and it feels gross to feel like people are getting comfortable pressuring people like me into liking pink #because its the cool fun progressive thing to do #you're not Better than transphobes when you tell transmascs it's a phase to not want to be feminine or associated with fem gender roles #sunny speaks