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Also some of them

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Fulfilling my fashion game fantasies w the bad kids

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bad kidz cool kidz

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if you see a male character kiss a male character, you assume they are gay.

if you see a female character kiss a female character, you assume they are a lesbian.

if you hear a character say they don't feel like their gender, you assume they are trans.

so why do a-spec characters have to jump through so many loops?

a character saying they've never had a crush or don't want a relationship or that they don't understand romantic love is so often ignored or used as fodder for other queer or autistic headcanons (reinforcing stereotypes that aroace people are secretly gay or always autistic)

why is it that our stories are always "up to interpretation"? why do we have to wait for the words aromantic or asexual to be said to be taken seriously? why is it that even when characters say they don't want relationships, fans will scream and cry about sex/romance favourable aspecs and qprs?

when it comes to gay and trans characters, even the likes of bisexual lighting is often treated as though it canonises their sexuality. for aroace characters, even the most explicit coding possible is swept under the rug in favour of other "interpretations"

i'm so tired of fighting for representation just to have it ignored and minimised by fans. let characters be aroace. please.

#i do think about riz gukgak a little bit here #i remember popping into his tag on ao3 bc i really wanted some gen fics #and no hate to fabriz but it kinda sucked to see my favorite character #who reflected my experience w being aroace in high school #put into so many romantic relationships #and not explore more of his character as an aroace person who just simply Doesn't Want Romance #he loves his best friends #it doesnt have to be more than that #idk #i have complicated feelings abt riz gukgak

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purpose of this poll: basically im wondering if my gran having a pistol was a typical american experience

#yes and i am usamerican #it was my moms boyfriends gun and my best friend pointed it directly at my face (as a joke) (but god it was scary)

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My kink is when someone tells me they want me in their life and they actually mean it.

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a bottom-tier autistic experience is being told throughout your entire childhood that you are just an overthinker when it comes to social situations and later finding out that your friends did, in fact, hate being around you and tried to communicate that through weird little hints

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Kristen’s energy this season is unhinged and I love it

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no one gets the prophet and her knight like i do

💡 kofi link in bio if you’re feeling generous 💡

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At some point in your life, you were taught that being slightly annoying is an unforgivable sin. Maybe it was by your parents or a teacher or a friend or a bully or an older sibling. But someone taught you that being slightly annoying is a crime punishable by death.

You must unlearn this.

You must accept that all people will be annoying at some point or another in their lives, maybe all of their lives, and that this is okay. It is okay for strangers on the bus, it is okay for children in the grocery store, it is okay for people on social media, and it is okay for you.

If you ever want to truly love your fellow humans, if you ever want to truly love yourself, you must have forgiveness for being annoying.

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#I used to shower everyday #during the pandemic it started to be an every other day thing #when I was working 2 jobs it continued to be every other day (except for if something got in my hair or down my clothes) #and now at college it’s closer to every other day if I’m lucky and usually every three days

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I am Moniquill, Goddess of the time I was going to be in the office. Fear me because I was going to be there at work and I didn't want to.

#i am ink god of my life bringer of my heart fear me because of the pain #CHRIST #I’m kinda loving it

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sapphic ship a day for lesbian visibility week!!

carey and killian from the adventure zone balance!!

the first actual play podcast i got crazy invested in i love these wives <333

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It makes me happy when they listen

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they should make an international travel that is free if you're internet friends

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you aren’t a bad person for having “bad” teeth. you’re not less worthy of love or respect because your teeth are cracked/broken/crooked/discolored. ppl with “bad” teeth deserve better