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Thanks for the follow back! My problem with Hiddles is that he invades every nook and cranny of my life and refuses to leave, so I never do anything productive anymore. ;]

Ha! If only he really did invade every nook and cranny of my life - I think I would quite enjoy that. ;-)

Seriously though, I know what you mean. He seems to get inside your head and then just stay there. And whenever you think you might be getting over him, you see a new picture or a gif or an interview and he's done it again!  

I wonder if the only way to get over him is to go and live in a cave somewhere for a year...

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Hi! Thanks for following me :-) I found your tumblr when I was searching for some answers about that IRC's issues on Tom's fainmail. Now I know what to do. And thanks for the help with this. You are very kind responding our doubts with Hiddles issues ;-) I sent my letter to him and hope to have a reply soon!

Thanks for your lovely words! I do hope that people who write to him get something back, if only a signed photo.

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Meow.

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Just followed your lovely blog a few minutes ago. ♥ And I already read some of the posts. If I'm honest I'm a little fascinated of your smartness, you really know what to answer. Big compliment and respect! Well, what I wanted to say is just how much I love seeing photos and videos of Mr.Hiddleston, and listen to the wonderful music he recommends on Twitter. He's so charming and sometimes I just feel better after listening to his laugh. OK, bye! I have to be productive now after a long time!

Indeed. I think a lot of people discovered Tom by first seeing him in a movie and then checking out interviews and pictures. He certainly comes across as an incredibly fun individual!  I hope he stays that way and doesn't turn too much to the dark side of Hollywood.

#rosenmacarons

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My problem with Hiddles is a silly one. I know he's a big boy and he has plenty of people who love and support him, but I hate not being able to call him up and wish him a safe flight, a good day, a Merry Christmas, etc. I have so much love and concern for his day-to-day well-being and no proper outlet for my feelings. He's helped me so much in my life and I can't even say thank you.

I know exactly what you mean. Many other fans on Tumblr have made it clear that while the whole meeting Tom/falling in love/getting married fantasy is lovely, more than anything - they would just love to be his friend.

He seems like he would be a great friend and would really look out for you.  And there's nothing like being a part of someone's daily life and routine - just checking what they're up to and if they're OK.  

The other thing I would say - Tom may have been the inspiration to help you in your life, but give yourself the credit that you took his words/behaviour and changed as a result. That's hard work and effort that YOU should be proud of - because ultimately, while other people can be the catalysts, the only people who can ever change us, are ourselves. :)

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Welcome back :) Missed ya already!

What a sweetheart - that has warmed my heart. I am just sorry I haven't been around much lately!

#luffyforpresident

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He makes me blush.. I don't know why but he makes me blush..

Maybe you are embarrassed that you keep staring at him so much? ;-)

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I'm an idealist to begin with. And by no means am I trying to sound vain, but I know that Tom and I would be compatible -- if we were to meet, that is. Evidently, chances are slim. But I'm beginning to envision a future with Tom that will never come to fruition due to obvious factors (distance, his status, unlikeliness of meeting, etc.) And the moments in which I step off Cloud 9 and back to reality, I feel dangerously depressed, as if my life has no purpose. Mind offering any advice?

I've been here. When you're in the middle of your dreams with Tom, and you're imagining all sorts of little scenarios - how you might meet, what you'd say to each other, where you'd go on your first date, sleeping together for the first time; it's incredibly easy to get wrapped up in it all.

And who could blame us?  Real life well and truly sucks at times and I think each and every one of us has some form of escapism - whether that is movie, or role play or video games or whatever else we fancy doing.  If it makes us happy for a while, then that has to be a good thing. 

As you say though, the moment you bring yourself out of that dream fantasy, the reality can be brutal and depressing.  The trick is to find the balance, so that you are able to take yourself off into fantasy land a bit of the time, but remind yourself it is quite unlikely to ever happen (harsh, but sadly true).  In a way, that can be a positive because you can allow yourself only to think of the positives about Tom, rather than experiencing the negatives (which he WILL have, despite people thinking he is perfect).

I don't know if that helps at all - I understand how he makes you feel, but the only time you will feel depressed is if you are sat at home alone with all your thoughts.  Wherever possible, try and make sure you have an active social life, go out with your friends and enjoy other things so you are not tempted to wander off into fantasy land so much.  

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Hello! I cannot get enough of that beautiful man on your blog and I have decided to write him a fan letter! On this fan mail website I visited there were two addresses for Tom, one for where he is shooting Thor 2 and it said that he will be there until December 31st, or it just gives the regular fan mail address. Do I take a chance and mail it to the shooting sight, or just mail it to the regular address? If I mail to the first one I fear it might get lost if it doesn't arrive to him in time!

There is probably still some time to submit to the Thor 2 address, though remember that the postal service will already be getting busy with all the Christmas deliveries - I'd send something in the next few days to guarantee a chance of it getting there.

You could always send another letter to the regular fan mail address just to be on the safe side?

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Sorry for the hiatus, lovely people!

I'm not really sure what to say, but I've been so utterly busy with life and stuff that I haven't even come onto Tumblr in probably a couple of weeks. The biggest break I've ever had since I first joined earlier this year.  

Thanks to everyone who has stayed faithful and not unfollowed, and hello to all the new followers!

Have some Tom. 

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I'm finally listening to "The Red Necklace." I absolutely love it! Tom's voice is so warm and soothing, and I like all the different voices he uses for the characters, especially his Count Kalliovski one... *shivers*

I confess I have only read *that* one bit of the Red Necklace that gets me hotter than hot. Is the rest of it definitely worth listening to?

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Even if he does not respond back, I would be perfectly content with having Tom sign a picture and read the letter I write for him. I'll also have a drawing of him for him to keep. He's a very busy man, and I understand if there is a long wait and if his autographs are not personalized. I'll just be happy that he reads what I have to say, and receives my encouragement and praise. He probably gets a lot, and I'm sure he appreciates all of it.

I think you're right. Even though he probably no longer has the time to reply personally, he has promised he reads everything that reaches him - so anyone who sends him something can be assured he has seen it at some point. :)

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