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Being a femme fatale isn’t healthy for wounded femmes, as it’ll put you in a loop of constantly seeking external validation and feeling worthless without it. Heal yourself first.

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A blessed girl, a grateful girl

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👆🏽 tell me you're white and trust the state monopoly on violence while disavowing people like Malcolm X without telling me

#cold takes tbh

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"You've got to invest in the world, you've got to read, you've got to go to art galleries, you've got to find out the names of plants. You've got to start to love the world and know about the whole genius of the human race. We're amazing people." - Vivienne Westwood

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Don't sabotage your identity trying to name it. Let it be undefined, permeable, mixed, peculiar, unapologetically authentic. Be in peace with being unprecedented, with not fitting anywhere, with being adrift. Before flight, there's a free fall.

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#fashion

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embracing your dark feminine energy is basically saying fuck being obedient. feminines have been taught for so long to hide away, cover up, be silent, banish witchcraft, ignore your intuition, stop creating, be less selfish, be thoughtless.

but the dark feminine energy is about embracing the forbidden and not giving a fuck about being ‘good’ in the eyes of others.

it’s embracing your naked body. it’s indulging in your pleasures without guilt. its speaking your mind with boldness. it’s trusting and following your gut, even when others may think you’re dumb. it’s saying no. it’s setting clear boundaries. it’s protecting your energy from manipulation and harm.

the dark feminine energy is a force that is cunning, unpredictable, wild, magnetic, intuitive, pleasure seeking and limitless. it is both a creator and a destroyer. it is god.

don’t be afraid of your dark feminine power or influence because others are intimidated by it. ignore those who deem you ‘bad’ and continue to own your divine power.

follow @succulentsiren for more dark feminine energy posts♠️

#dark feminine

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ONLUXE 👠✨

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𝑀𝓊𝓈𝑒𝓊𝓂 𝒟𝒶𝓉𝑒𝓈, 𝐹𝒶𝓃𝒸𝓎 𝒫𝓁𝒶𝓉𝑒𝓈, 𝐻𝒾𝑔𝒽 𝑅𝒾𝓈𝑒 𝒮𝓊𝒾𝓉𝑒𝓈, 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝐸𝓁𝑒𝑔𝒶𝓃𝓉 𝒯𝓇𝑒𝒶𝓉𝓈✨

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#fashion

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A happier life in 2023

Health

Nourish your body properly, drink enough water, eat your greens, and take vitamins.

Don't punish yourself if you're having a bad day, are upset, or had something negative happen in your life, dont take it out on your body by depriving yourself of your daily needs.

Aim to become the healthiest version of yourself. Exercise and eat to feel your best, focus on your education, read, and be social.

Try therapy. Talking to someone helps you organize your thoughts, especially if you struggle with overthinking or anxiety. It's 2023; there is no shame in asking for help!! <3

80/20 rule. Find balance in your diet and lifestyle.

Mindset

Treat yourself with care and love. You deserve to feel good; start by appreciating yourself more and aim to feel comfortable within yourself.

Stop comparing yourself, your life and your accomplishments to others. Everyone has a different back story, don't compare your beginning to someone else's middle.

Ignoring negativity. Maybe delusion truly is the key to happiness. Remember the brightest moments, write them down and keep them close to your heart. :)

Smile at people. If you start sending good vibes, they will eventually come back to you.

Be kind. Small acts of kindness can truly mean the world. <3

Lifestyle

Spent more time in the sun. Try reading, studying, or exercising outside when it's sunny!

Be organized. Buy a planner, try notion, start using your calendar more. Staying organized is a great way to reduce stress in your day-to-day life!

Small daily comforts, a nice perfume, your favourite tea or coffee... simple small things that you can look forward to every day <3

Establish routines. Getting up earlier, open your curtains, some simple stretches, having daily routines can be so relaxing and fun!

Save money not just for emergencies but also to treat yourself! Set yourself saving goals for things that you've been wishing for :)

As always, Please feel free to add more suggestions in the comments!

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

#notes #pretty much all my goals for 2023

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I've been thinking about how, when you're little, you're surrounded by adults who adore you, who you're never going to remember.

I don't mean like your parents and stuff, but like — I work in after school care, and I'm forever meeting five and six year olds who seem like the most incredible people on earth. Kids who painstakingly explain the rules of handball, kids who ask me to help them colour in, kids who feel really deeply wounded by a classmate's behaviour, just an endless stream of them.

Or like my friends' kids who I've babysat once or twice. A kid who played with me in a creek, a kid whose mannerisms are etched in my mind. Cousins' babies who I held for a while. Even just stranger's babies in shops who stare at me the way babies do.

One of my best friends has an online friend who's recently had a baby, and he tells me - someone who doesn't know the friend's name even - about that baby having their first bath. Because that's the kind of love and excitement that little children inspire.

None of these children will remember me.

I literally don't have a greater point here, it's just blowing my mind to think about how much love is directed towards people who can't remember any of us. They can maybe, I guess, if everything goes well, remember the feeling of safety that ought to go with that love.

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in order to love who you are, you cannot hate the experience that shaped you

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Well travelled ✨