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can someone let boymoms know that these are normal baby things that pretty much all babies do regardless of sex

#this is so uncomfortableeeeee

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alien cats 💚‼️

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When there’s a new lesbian in town

#going through my faves tag lmaoooo

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when you’re a gay lion and you accidentally tried to introduce your lesbian lioness friend to one of her own exes at a gay bar and she goes into the bathroom and bitches you out for not being able to tell her endlessly rotating cast of girlfriends apart which isn’t really fair because first of all they all keep dyeing their hair different colors and second of all she keeps getting back together with different ones at different times and meanwhile you’ve been “single” for like 8 months but are spending a lot of time with one specific guy who works at your old co-op and were going to excitedly tell her about it tonight but now you’ve ruined the whole subject of dating by trying to introduce her to her own ex at a gay bar (which is a watering hole. because you’re lions.) 

#fave

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#STOP

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Rose Da Silva (Radha Mitchell) and Cybil Bennett (Laurie Holden)

Silent Hill (2006)

#oh?

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i mean sure man whatever. the stationary store has fucking pronouns

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if we are mutuals we will be reborn into the same cicada horde

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every time I see a post about taylor lyrics I can't help think that she's being funny on purpose but ppl don't think women can't be funny. like tortured poets department is a funny name like that could be a douglas adams bit and ppl keep taking these "cringe" lyrics out of context and saying how dumb she is to think she's a tortured poet. I don't think she thinks that I think maybe she is funny on purpose...

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people talk about reddit like it's the wild west as if women aren't out here on tumblr everyday saying things that get you instabanned on reddit. male mediocrity. they will never have what we have

#and yet they still allow porn #interesting priorities!

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Not to sound like a boomer here but I feel like I see so many people isolating themselves and spending HOURS and HOURS glued to social media like tiktok and just really rotting away. My friends will send me the most hyper niche TikToks like “how to align your spirit with your intentions” and I just shake them and be like “by getting off your phone and touching grass”. And I’ve done it too! Spent 8+ hours watching short clips of bullshit and ads and it’s draining and depressing. Being outside and disconnected for even short periods has been tremendously helpful for my mental health.

We were not meant to consume meaninglessly like this for hours on end day after day. We are social creatures and we need social interactions. Our brains literally degrade faster in isolation. An isolated person that is glued to their phone is the perfect consumer and it’s almost criminal at this point just how much it’s robbing us. Our social lives, our grasps to reality, our communities, and our physical and mental health.

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You wouldn’t last an hour in the asylum where they raised me

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Thinking about Maria MacLachlan's (PeakTrans) latest video and how she excellently described the process of a feminist left-wing women (like JK Rowling) becoming critical of the trans movement.

At first, you are basically in what she called a 'blissful ignorance'. Your opinion of the trans movement is "live and let others live". Then you start to notice little things that are just plain wrong, like men stealing trophies from women and lesbians being told they are not allowed to tell on a dating app that they are into females only.

So you decide to voice your opinion. You say something like, "I have nothing against trans people who just want to live their lives, but i find this [particular thing] harmful and unfair". You are assuming and fully expecting in your blissful ignorance, nothing more from it. Maybe a bit of debate, but mostly understanding since all these points you made are good points after all, and this is the self-proclaimed feminist LGB+ "be kind" brigade so the rights of women and gay people should matter, right?

Instead, you receive abuse. Not just any abuse, but misogynistic abuse, threats, doxxing, lies, twisting your words, and attempts to make you lose your lifelihood.

First, you are shocked, but then you start to feel angry. Angry and betrayed. You start to wonder how many others like you have been shut out and silenced by trans activists. You may start by looking up "that one woman" who you think was not entirely treated fairly, but you had earlier decided to accept the trans activists' version that she is just "a bigot".

You find out that despite trans activists vehemently claiming some things never happen, they do happen. They just willfully ignore them. You find out people criticising trans movement are feminists, LGB people, concerned parents, medical experts, and even trans people themselves. Trans activists just lie when they claim they are far-righters and conservatives. You find out they do not want trans people dead. It is the trans activists who send them death threats and show up to their events to "punch terfs".

And you become angrier, so you decide you will not be silenced. You decide to talk more and raise more awareness. The more you criticise and the more you share, the more abuse trans activists send to you. And the angrier you become.

Then the useful idiots see your anger and are convinced you are just a hater that should not be listened to. Why else would you be so angry?

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You're right, sorry

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I'm not well!

#called out from work because I was having such a bad mental health day but my dumb ass forgot that that only ever makes me feel worse!! #now I'm feeling guilty about calling out on top of everything else