I swear to god, I need to give myself the right to complain, HEAVY EMPHASIS ON THIS TIKTOK THAT I GOT ON MY FYP A WEEK AGO, everytime my partner starts a new relationship, I LOSE MY FUCKING MARBLES
We just discovered that me, them and another friend all wanted to go to the first comic con happening in the country I live in, so we started planning a bit through text, I said it'd be easier to plan in call, they said no they're in call with they're gf and doing "important stuff" not sure as to what that refers to but I'm like, ok it's understandable that they don't want talk to me about certain things, I respect that.
I ask when we could call, I get ghosted...
My need for strict schedules and routines as an autistic person is not helping my frustration in this situation, I need to be planning weeks ahead otherwise I WILL forget...
romantic allos confuse me so much, like you wouldn't cuddle your friend and eat nachos with them during movie time??? you wouldn't drop everything to go help them? you wouldn't hold their hand and swing it up and down? like what, why not?
Guys remember, no one gets to dictate how you headcannon your characters...
Except me.
my take on shipping aromantic characters is that if you're aro you get to do whatever you want and if you're not you have to write me a three page essay 12 pt font times new roman double spaced explaining in detail why you believe entering a romantic relationship would be an interesting and worthwhile storyline for the character and how you believe their aromanticism would affect the way they experience said relationship
“It was something adults said all the time. “You'll change your mind when you're older. You never know what might happen. You'll feel differently one day.” As if we teenagers knew so little about ourselves that we could wake up one day a completely different person. As if the person we are right now doesn't matter at all.”