creature-wizard

[creature-wizard]

If people were too mean to you when you were growing up, a newborn animal will materialize inside your brain and it’s so so scared and shivering and it will stay there for years. Decades, even. And whenever you say something kind of weird but true to your heart the animal will tell you “Noo! You can’t say that! If you say that, everyone will hate you!”. The animal means well. It’s so so small and everything is so scary for them and it’s just trying to protect you. But listen to me. Listen to me. Whenever this happens, you can’t do what the animal says. You can’t. If you do, you’ll become as scared as the animal. You have to keep saying weird shit. You have to keep doing things the animal wouldn’t approve of. If you do enough things that scare the animal, maybe one day it’ll go to sleep.

#recovery

[creature-wizard]

how is train-wreck not ableist lol

Anon, please explain to me how a statement like "the plot of this movie is a fucking trainwreck" is ableist. Please explain this to me. I'm absolutely fascinated to know how your mind works.

#answered

[creature-wizard]

thoughts on gen alpha vs gen z

Pssssst. Here's the secret: everybody's just people no matter what generation they're from.

#answered

[creature-wizard]

'we transcend petty political tribalisms like left and right' is--not always, but much too often-- a marker that what you're about to read is unfiltered, high-octane, triple-distilled Turbo Fascism

#politics #fascism

[creature-wizard]

A thing Millennials used to do was write pieces on how racist and misogynist Twilight was, unlike the Flawless and Pure Harry Potter Books written by the Perfect Queen JK Rowling.

#millennials #i remember because i was there

[creature-wizard]

Wasn't nepotism an eating disorder, no idea what that word means

surprisingly enough looking up what the word means would have taken you less time than embarrassing yourself in my asks did!

#loooooool #online dictionaries are free

[creature-wizard]

You’re very nice for a millennial. Thank you for being nice.

Well ya know, it helps to retain very vivid memories of Millennial teenagers. Keeps ya humble.

#answered

[creature-wizard]

One of the most absurd things about this whole "subliminals totally work" thing is how it ignores the reality of misheard lyrics. Even if you could hear subliminal messages played at these super low volumes in any real way, it's extremely unlikely that you could even interpret them correctly.

Same kind of thing goes for subliminal messages flashed at high speeds - even if you could process them in any real capacity, you'd be very likely to misread them, just like it's easy to do when you briefly glance at somebody's text message or something.

If subliminals do appear to be working, it's most likely the placebo effect, that's all. Your brain isn't that good at picking out meaningful messages from jumbled noises or images. If it was, mondegreens just wouldn't exist.

#subliminals #subliminal messages #subliminal audio #pseudoscience

[creature-wizard]

Whenever a Millennial starts acting like their generation was better than younger generations, a correct response is "HAWTT SMEXXY YAOI BISHIEEEEEEZZZZ!!!!!!!! lolz im so randomzzz hehehehe"

#juvephobia

[creature-wizard]

The younger generation is not worse than yours. You just forgot and/or never truly experienced what a bunch of dingdongs your generation was.

As a millennial, I roll my eyes every time I see another millennial acting like our generation was so smart and well-mannered as teens. For fuck's sake, our generation believed cartoons from Japan accurately depicted how real Japanese people behaved and thought "imma raep chu hehe" was an appropriate thing to just say to people.

#juvephobia #rape mention

[creature-wizard]

are you gen z

I'm a Millennial.

#answered

[creature-wizard]

I must not mock Gen Alpha. Mocking Gen Alpha is the mind killer. Mocking Gen Alpha is the little-death that brings total generational solidarity obliteration. I will engage with Gen Alpha lovingly. I will permit them to be cringe. And when they grow up I will turn my eye to their accomplishments. Where mocking has gone there will be nothing. Only generational solidarity remains

#gen alpha

[creature-wizard]

The problem is, she says that across all cultures misogyny is part of the unconscious collective, I tried to tell her that the 15 cultures she knows aren't the majority, but she didn't listen. Also she says that the unconscious collective is shared by all human beings, like just one big clump of consciousness. I'm not too familiar with Jung's work but that sounds very far fetched

Okay so I'm gonna preface this with a "transphobes fuck off" because I know one of them is gonna find this post sooner or later.

So, I'd say that whatever form of collective unconscious exists is shared by social networks, in which memetic drift is a very real factor. The only thing you can really count on to be universal is stuff that's informed by universal human experience (for example, "water is wet").

Misogyny unfortunately exists in many places for many reasons, one of which being being the universal human capacity of devaluing, caricaturing, and objectifying people whose existences and experiences we don't fully understand. This is one of those problems that can be exacerbated by certain labor expectations, and it's easy to pigeonhole the people who are theoretically capable of bearing children (most of whom are women) into roles associated with childbearing and childrearing. Add in the fact that what's intrinsic nature vs. social construct is often far from intuitive, and you get people thinking that if somebody can theoretically bear children, then doing so is their "natural" role in society, and deviating from it is weird and wrong.

This of course is very very basic and there's zillions of other factors in play, too. Which brings us to another thing - misogyny exists in many places, but it doesn't always take the same form, because it's building off of different experiences and different worldviews. For example, within modern western capitalism, where people are explicitly or implicitly taught that life is all about maximizing those profits, misogyny can take the form of assuming that people theoretically capable of bearing children all subconsciously want to maximize the amount of children they can have. From here, people who are critically out of touch with actual human minds and hearts begin interpreting all kinds of behaviors as existing to maximize the amount of children born, and suddenly it's "oh my god, she's showing her ankles, she must want to fuck me and bear my spawn... but she will leave me as soon as she sees a Better Mate who can provide her with More Money To Optimally Raise Her Spawn and also Better Spawn In The Future."

(Now just to be clear, capitalism gives people mindworms in the other direction, too, with assumptions that anyone who can theoretically impregnate other people wants to cause as many pregnancies as possible. "Trans women are actually men trying to sneak into women's spaces to sexually assault them!" is ultimately an extension of this thinking. If you want to see a real example of a movement started by men who legitimately want to cause as many pregnancies as possible, go look at the Quiverfull movement.)

So yeah, misogyny is a very real problem in many different places, but to act like it's all a monolith is both incorrect and unhelpful. Misogyny has to be understood in the context of each culture it appears in, not just lumped together as if it's all some singular mass. Jung's collective unconscious is really just a terrible framework for this.

#answered #misogyny #collective unconscious #carl jung

[creature-wizard]

Cults are not just a white people thing. Especially in the US, predatory high control groups actively target disenfranchised people, especially immigrant populations who don't have the best grasp of English, and entered the country with a head full of American exceptionality propaganda.

#cults #high control groups

[creature-wizard]

A surprisingly helpful bit of social maneuvering I've figured out from trial and error: Throughout your life, you are going to need things from people. Often, it's going to be on a deadline. And when that deadline passes, you generally want to know what's going on. So, you need to ask them.

There are two kinds of people, broadly, in this situation. The Shameless will tell you what the holdup is, with absolutely no regard for if the reason is "good enough". This is actually very helpful, because you get the real reason immediately, and can start working on a solution.

The Ashamed is trickier. People who are Ashamed are people who were often told they were giving excuses when they were trying to explain, and they'll often avoid you until they solve the problem on their own. This causes them and you a lot of stress, and often takes a lot longer to solve.

Long term, the strategy for dealing with people who are Ashamed is to provide a supportive environment where they're comfortable sharing any problems they're having with getting things done. But, there's a way to at least partially short-circuit that:

Provide an explanation for them.

One example might be "Hey Susan, I noticed that I don't have your report yet. Are you busy with other projects?" The readymade explanation signals that you're willing to accept an explanation, which is the big anxiety point.

Sometimes, you still won't get an honest answer- especially if the honest answer isn't "good enough" by the standards of the person who traumatized them. But, I've found that it often at least gets you a lie that lets you give them some slack or work around the problem.

Let's say that Susan has actually completely forgotten that she needed to do the report. She's horrified at herself, and completely unwilling to admit the real problem. But, she can now safely reply with "Sorry Jennifer, I've been swamped, and it got lost in the mix. I can have it to you in two days. Does that work?"

From there, so long as Susan gave an estimate for when she can actually do it, she and Jennifer can hash out a solution.

It's not a perfect solution, but it works astonishingly well for how small of a change it is.

#social skills #shame

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Sorry, I meant his work about the unconscious collective (I think that's how you say it in English?)

As I *currently* understand it, Jung's ideas about the collective unconscious weren't even all that far out there? It wasn't like some mystical psychic cloud; it was all those things we all know about because even if we don't focus on them, they're part of our cultural background radiation and we can't help but internalize them to an extent. I *think* it was other people who started treating it like the Akashic Records or something.

#answered #carl jung #collective unconscious

[creature-wizard]

I'm trying to prove to my sister that Jung's work is a load of bullshit but I'm not articulate enough for this argument. Send help

You gotta be more specific than that? The guy had a lot of ideas and it wasn't like he was completely wrong about everything. Also there's what Jung actually said vs. what his fans say.

#answered #jung #carl jung