#also yes im aware of melon using ignorant language and im not defending the use of racist or harmful language

[fuxling]

I'm already seeing a bunch of posts on my dash about the server, the btd community ect.

I don't think the community quite gets it yet:

Everyone is a fallible person. Adults learn from their mistakes, even with their own personal consequences. At times, the consequences aren't visible, but they're there.

Call out posts hurt people.

There's still a lot of young folks in the community who haven't found the way to be educated on a lot of shit, and while that's unfortunate and can cause issues, it's even more dangerous to just call everyone awful and start slinging insults and starting hunts.

Let an exhausted creator rest and heal.

Let young adults who make stupid mistakes learn from their stupid mistakes. Stop making call out posts, starting drama, making side servers to speculate. Humans learn from their fuck ups, it's apart of being alive, but you don't give them room to change if you're just pushing out posts and posts and posts about how people fuck up.

They don't put your failures in the newspaper. Have some respect and allow others dignity, especially when they are willing to learn from where they tripped. That's how you grow as a person.

You're not responsible for everything on the internet. Folks are gonna grow and learn, it doesn't matter if you post a callout post. That just breeds more misinformation and abuse, and often times damages those who are trying to learn from where they fucked up.

Focus on you. Lay down your urge to clean up other people's messes. Be respectful, patient, and compassionate. Say your part and leave. t's a practice, it doesn't come naturally. Hold others accountable, but allow them room to change and grow.

#i'm so burnt out on how immature and uncompassionate some of this community is #ugh #not tagging this #fux barks #also maybe see creators as people like you and your friends instead of putting them in a pedestal so when they fuck yo you feel betrayed?? #like! Goddamn! glad I didn't stay online during my worst years when I was having issues with meds and was super reactionary cause no one #would have ever had the patience for me!!!! #also yes im aware of melon using ignorant language and im not defending the use of racist or harmful language #I'm not defending the ignorance #It's also good to see creators as people so you can see their flaws and critique them without seeing them as satan suddenly #It's like we all just gave up on not thinking in black and white idk