#calexotics

[loversplayground]

Grab Monday by the n1ps. 

#n1pple #calexotics #fet1sh #tease #clamps #shoploversplayground

[reprehensibletrash]

The pros: just look at it!

The cons: if you have facial piercings, it will mash them against your face. If you have a lip ring, it will press your lip ring almost against your braces, if you have braces. It would *probably* mess up any makeup but that might be a pro, come to think of it? 😉

Since I’m so smart with my big brain in my big ass head, I think I’ll use this as a template to try and reconstruct it and make it slightly bigger. I’d say one size fits most but I’m not most gals. Also the seam might not be ideal down the middle?

I recommend it though.

Now if only I had someone to help me lace the back of the mask and my corset…. 😌

Someday.

#lacemask #lacemasks

#calexotics #lace mask #lace masks

[packersale]

Darker shaded packers/stp + self adhesive sheets

Hi,

nothing wrong with the packers, I just had Phalloplasty, thats why I am selling them.

Worldwide shipping: -Gendercat RM 190 4" 4RLZ Slim - Supersoft- Original Scrotum- Color 3079Y12- Price: 175 USD/€ + Shipping - 2 Gendercat self adhesive sheets - price: 20 USD/€

EU only: - Calexotics Stp. Price: 10 € + Shipping

- Axolom Monsieur Wiggle Super Soft Packer. Price: 30 € + Shipping.

I am in Germany, but willing to ship worldwide at buyer’s expense. US: 26 USD (tracked) GB: 18 GBP (tracked) EU: 10 € (tracked)

E-Mail for pictures: [email protected] 

#submission #selling #Gendercat #Calexotics #Calexotics Stp #Axolom #Axolom Monsieur Wiggle Super Soft Packer

[sugarandspiceadult]

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[lifeofakinkywife]

What's Under the Hood?

Scandal Lace Sensory Deprivation Hood by @CalExotics Product Review done for @naughtybettys #sponsoredpost

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#mmmMondays #bettys #calexotics #lace hood #naughty bettys #product reviews

[dandelyle]

damn I'm hot 🐻🔥😘

#cc.jpg #featuring the calexotics ultra soft

[cultreslut]

this is lowkey tmi but Anyways i was wondering if any packing/stp users have had similar experiences: i current have a 4" stp packer + harness and iv been having a lot of trouble using it for , any of its intended purposes. the cup doesnt align with me so i cannot use it as a stp unless i completely rearrange myself so that i dont spill piss everywhere. however if i keep it in its pissing position and attempt to pack w it that way there is like 0 package . idk if its the harness im using or if i need a better packer or ??

#im using a hollow silicone packer from calexotics and an xs harness from cake bandit #any insight wuld be great :) #sorry its an size S oops #stp packer #stp #trans #ftm #packing

[letmeliedown]

adam & eve is still like the worst possible place you can buy a sex toy. no quality control whatsoever AND their branding is nauseatingly hetero

#adam & eve calexotics & doc johnson #the evil trinity #you are much better off buying a hunk of custom silicone from a furry on etsy #but they all seem to have fled...

[teaboot]

how do you find/buy sex stuff? I'm sure there are websites, but I don't even know where to start. What would be safe and reputable? Do you have any suggestions, or advice on picking something "good"? Also thank you for opening your asks for stuff like this.

okay, so here's the shake:

I personally believe that you can buy decent sex toys anywhere, providing that:

The listing is honest about the product's materials

You know what to look for

Silicone, glass, and metal are the safest materials you can use. They're the least reactive with natural bodily chemicals and are the least likely to give you problems.

SILICONE: Not 'silicon'- silicon is NOT SILICONE. Slicone solids are never 100% transparent and might, MIGHT appear translucent and foggy at the clearest. Silicon might be shiny OR matte, but if it's matte please know that velvet or soft-touch coatings are most often non-silicone materials added after the toy itself is molded. This is usually fine, but if you know your body is sensitive to that, one brand I know has the texture built into the mold is Fun Factory. It's pricy, but it's high quality and comes with a warranty.

NEVER ASSUME AN ITEM IS SILICONE UNLESS THE ITEM IS DESCRIBED AS SILICONE.

GLASS: Tempered glass is usually fine. If you notice chips, cracks, or hairline fractures in it, bag it up and throw it out.

Metal: Same story. Chipping, flaking, cracks, oxidization, toss it. Acrylic toys with metallic coatings will degrade in contact with oils, unlike actual metal, so be sure to check materials.

People shit on sites like Adam & Eve and Pinkcherry, and yeah those are cheap stores that dont sell the best stuff, but they still have LOADS of good quality product and do frequent sales and clearouts if you're nervous and not looking to drop a lot of cash right off.

If you can afford it, brands I absolutely recommend are Womanizer, Fun Factory, Hitachi (now owned by Vibratex), Tom of Finland, Sinvention, and We Vibe. They're all high-quality and most have warranties for damage or malfunction.

On the cheaper end, Calexotics, Doc Johnson, Evolved, and Ouch!.

Websites like Bad Dragon, Extreme Restraints, and Sinvention are known to have good customer service and high-quality products.

Websites like Adam and Eve, Pinkcherry, and Lovehoney I've heard good reviews for, you just need to be careful about what you buy.

I've yet to encounter a legit site that isn't discrete, btw. Everything is usually sent out in boxes.

Please avoid AliExpress. You CAN buy there, but I don't trust that shit

#Body health #Reproductive health

[vintageandroid]

Twisted Love Dildos

I reviewed the Twisted Love Ribbed back in January, but I wanted to try the other two in the collection, which is both budget-friendly and beginner-friendly. Betty's Toy Box came through and sent me both!

I, prostateless and lacking in anal fortitude, preferred it vaginally. And how. The Twisted Love Bulb has one purpose in life: it wants to hit the G-Spot. And having set a realistic and achievable goal, it succeeds.

Other features in this post: side-conversation about lube recommendations; dildo cleaning techniques; weird tangents about whether some Disney characters were in a polycule or not...

Interested? Read Review: CalExotics Twisted Love Dildos!

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Aphobes, bi/panphobes, trans/nb-phobes, anti-kink, TERFs & SWERFs DNI

#queer earthling

[loversplayground]

Take a walk on the naughty side tonight and slip this exhilaratingly sexy collar around your neck. Both collar and leash are totally detachable and can easily be attached to cuffs, ties, or other fetish wear to keep your everyday play fresh.

#scandalcollar #leash #calexotics #dominat #couplesfun #shoploversplayground

[dollwrites]

Sex toys seem fun in fics but I've never used them before irl. Honestly I wouldn't even know what to get so I just make do with fingers, but it's a little annoying when I'm reading something that requires both hands. I think this a a design flaw with humans, we needs more arms haha.

Sex toys are fun! I suggest looking into them, especially hands free ones if you like that idea better :3 they have grinder pads that vibrate that you can literally just straddle and rub on my fave is the magic carpet

It’s pricey though 🥹 I’m sure there’s less expensive dupes by cal exotics though!!

Just to browse and see what’s out there and what looks fun to you

#also there’s like a million other hands free toys but the pads are my fave rn

[batmanisagatewaydrug]

hey sex witch, I'm hoping you can lend your opinion regarding safe material for sex toys. I'm considering buying a non-insertable stroker (Packer Gear FTM Stroker by CalExotics, for reference) made of TPR. I've seen mixed assessments on the safety of TPR in sex toys -- some saying it's safe without any details as to why or in what contexts, and others simply grouping it with other porous material without giving any specifics for this particular material. Some sources also suggest that even if TPR is porous, it's still safe for external use, but I don't know if that's accurate. So basically, with the mixed reviews, I'm not sure what to trust or how risky porous material is when not being used for penetration. Do you have any thoughts on how to approach this issue?

hey anon,

broadly speaking I wouldn't recommend it, if only because it's a bad investment. TPR (thermoplastic rubber, for those of you playing along at home) isn't a great material for a sex toy due to being unfortunately porous.

I'm going to just directly quote Dangerous Lilly, sex toy safety critic extraordinaire:

[TPR toys] are non-toxic, but are nearly always porous enough to harbor mold and bacteria. These materials are also softened with mineral oil, and might contain harmful chemicals besides phthalates. The material is highly unstable, and will begin to break down over time (a few months). Sex toys made from these materials should be examined closely before every use for material tears, black spots, foul odors. Sex toys made from these materials should be replaced every 8-10 months. (source)

you can read more about Dangerous Lilly's work with TPR toys and silicone blends here.

so even if you do buy this toy (and god, I get the appeal; it's so cheap!) I'd have to say that best practices would dictate throwing it out in a year at most, since the material is fundamentally impossible to completely sanitize and can harbor all kinds of things that you Do Not Want near your genitalia.

so unfortunately that's gonna be a no from me, and I'd recommend shopping to find something similar in a safer material like pure silicone.

#sex edventures 2023

[gossipgirlcouture]

Kinks and fetishes can feel taboo no matter how much sex positivity exists online. Secretly scouring the internet for a list of kinks to try with your partner can often feel subversive and, frankly, a little uncomfortable. But the thing is, sex is entirely subjective and people often are curious to try things that they think they might enjoy, so there's no shame in familiarizing yourself with what's out there.

For the uninitiated, learning about kinks and fetishes might feel intimidating, so first things first: understanding what a kink is and what constitutes a fetish. A kink is defined as a sexual activity that falls outside of sex that society traditionally considers “acceptable.” This can include everything from role playing to experimenting with bondage or whips. A fetish technically refers to an attraction to an inanimate object, including body parts, such as feet (like a foot fetish). So a fetish is a type of kink.

No matter what you’re into, kinky sex is about consent, communication, and compromise. Before trying any new sex act, obtaining enthusiastic, continuous consent from all parties involved is a must.

1. Role play

Role-playing is one of the most common kinks and involves playing characters outside of your day-to-day lives, usually as part of a sex scene. This can range from tossing on a tie and pretending to be the boss of your partner, channeling your favorite TV character, or even creating a whole character-filled scenario.

2. Objectification

As a kink or fetish, objectification refers to arousal by being dehumanized. For example, they want to be their partner's foot rest, chair, or even toilet.

3. Objectum kink

Not the same thing as objectification, those with objectum fantasies have sexual relationships with or attraction to inanimate objects.

4. Pregnancy fetish

As the name suggests, a pregnancy fetish is having an intense sexual attraction to some or all aspects of pregnancy. For some people, it might be the round belly, whereas for others, it could be the lactation—whether it’s the actual act of breastfeeding or the milk itself, explains sexuality professional and mental health clinician Shanae Adams.

5. Breeding kink

A breeding kink refers to being into sex that could result in pregnancy—i.e. unprotected or fluid-bonded sex, typically involving one partner ejaculating inside the other. While enjoying condomless sex and internal ejaculation isn’t necessarily a kink and in of itself, those with a breeding kink are often turned on specifically by the possibility (and/or risk) of pregnancy associated with the act, even if pregnancy isn’t actually a desired end result. FYI, many folks with a breeding kink do not actually wish to become pregnant, and many also use some form of birth control other than condoms. Rather, this kink is often more about the risk, intimacy, and potentially dominant/submissive aspects of unprotected sex than an actual desire to get pregnant. This can also include the non-primary partner performing the act, or multiple people.

6. Exhibitionism

In a sexual context, “exhibitionism is a sexual kink in which the person feels sexual arousal at the idea or reality of being seen naked or engaged in sexual activities by others,” clinical sexologist Sarah Melancon previously told Cosmopolitan. If you’re into the thought of someone watching you masturbate or change or get it on, this one's for you.

7. Voyeurism

“Voyeurism is getting sexual excitement from watching others when they are naked or engaging in sex acts,” says Jill McDevitt, PhD, CalExotics sexologist. And while the pleasure is most commonly derived from watching others, the fetish could also include hearing others engage in sexual acts or even being told about other people’s sexual experiences.

8. Temperature play

This one is pretty much what it sounds like: sexual activity that involves elements of temperature. “Temperature play is an erotic form of consensual sensation play that's often carried out by people who engage in BDSM play or kink,” sex and relationship expert Shamyra Howard, LCSW, previously told Cosmopolitan. “The goal of temperature play is to use the elements of heat and cold to heighten the senses.”

9. Foot fetish

This is one of the most common fetishes out there, especially for heterosexual men. Someone with a foot fetish is literally turned on by feet—thinking about them, touching them, seeing them—and could potentially get off on everything feet. They often want to engage in foot worship, in which they treat their partner’s foot like a holy object: kissing, caressing, and massaging it. So even if you don’t have a foot fetish, having a partner with one can be extremely enjoyable as it means there could be foot massages galore in store for you. But like all kinks, foot fetishes exist on a spectrum. Humiliation can also play a strong role in a foot fetish: The fetishist may want feet shoved in their face and mouth, or to have their partner walk all over them, touting how filthy their feet are and how pathetic the fetishist is to enjoy such an activity. Other foot fetish activities include giving pedicures and smelling the feet or shoes that said feet reside in throughout the day.

10. Nylon fetish

Going hand-in-hand with foot fetishes, a nylon kink or fetish involves sexual attraction to, you guessed it, nylons. This could mean you like the look and feel of them or enjoy touching someone's legs in nylon stockings (or like to wear them yourself). As with many fetishes, this could also be a kink if it's something you don't need to get off. Either way, get thee some stockings and get to playing.

11. Breath play

Okay, so breath play refers to the BDSM practice of having your breathing restricted during sexual activity—but it's not exactly safe (for obvious reasons). A potentially safer alternative for those who aren’t interested in full-on edge play: Holding your own breath. The excitement of the action, plus the excitement of the power exchange, is a great alternative, suggests Good Vibrations sexologist Carol Queen, PhD.

12. BDSM

"BDSM is a catch-all acronym for several different aspects of the kink community," Powell explains. "The B and D are for bondage and discipline, the D and S are for domination and submission, and the S and M are for sadism and masochism." All BDSM involves a consensual power exchange, which means a submissive partner consents to letting the dominant power take control through various scenes.

13. Scene or scene play

A "scene" is a term for the time period in which the kinky play goes down. While you might refer to a night of sex as a hookup, those within the kink community often refer to kinky sex sessions with partners as "scenes."

14. Dominant and submissive

A dominant is someone who enjoys dominating their partner through various kinky activities. These can be physical—like choking—or mental—like calling someone names. The submissive partner enjoys being dominated, and being the one who is consensually tied up, slapped, humiliated, etc.

Usually when we hear people use terms like ‘dominant’ or ‘submissive' to describe themselves, these are more identity-based than action-based," Cameron Glover, sex educator and Sex Ed in Color podcast host, explains. "But these don't have to be set in stone—there are people that use these terms interchangeably."

15. Switch

A switch is someone who, as Glover explains, "switches" between dominant and submissive roles.

16. Sadism and masochism

A sadist is someone who (consensually) derives sexual pleasure out of inflicting physical pain or psychological humiliation on their partner. Someone who identifies as a masochist derives sexual pleasure from receiving pain or humiliation. If this feels similar to the dominant and submissive dynamic, that’s because it is. But not all dominants identify as sadists, and the same goes for submissives and masochists.

17. Age play

Like many (but not all!) kinks, age play is what it sounds like—a role-play scenario in which one (or both) partners act out being a different age than they are, often with a significant age gap in mind. If you’ve ever had a thing for calling a partner “Daddy” or “Baby” in bed, chances are you’ve already played out a form (albeit a potentially light one) of this kink. In more involved scenarios, age play can take the form of the Dom Daddy/little girl (often abbreviated as “DD/lg”) dynamic, in which an older partner takes on the role of caregiver to their “little.”

18. Praise kink

A praise kink is when you or a partner get off on being, well, praised. Ever thrilled to the feeling of being called a “good girl” by someone you’re having sex with? That’s a praise kink at its finest—or at least most fundamental.

19. Interacial/BBC

Finding someone of a different race attractive and/or "better" than their own. While there are many examples, this predominantly involves white women falling for black men. Whether it due to enjoying the skin color contrast during sex, the undeniable BBC's (Big Black Cocks) that makes sex more pleasurable, their dominant sexual nature, or celebrating the demise of elitist "white purity" in a progressive manner by being bred and having mixed children.

20. Service oriented submission

For those who enjoy submission through chores, tasks, or pamper sessions. This may mean the submissive washes the dominants clothes, sees to their personal grooming, or even works as their personal bathroom assistant by cleaning/wiping their dominant after relieving themselves.

21. Spectrophilia

Whether or not you believe ghosts exist, trust that attraction to them is very real. Spectrophilia refers to sexual attraction to—or even experiences/relationships with—ghosts or otherworldly figures.

22. Tentacle stuff

Best believe that sexual attraction to aliens/octopi/anything with tentacles is very real. So real, in fact, that there’s an entire genre of porn devoted to this fantasy. And if that’s not enough, there are also literal tentacle-shaped dildos and sex toys meant to cater specifically to this fantasy. So yeah, it’s a thing.

23. Sploshing

If you’re turned on by mess, then this might be the kink for you. Sploshing is a kink that involves a sexual response/attraction to being surrounded by or immersed in wet substances. These are often food-based—think: cake-sitting, jello tubs, pudding, etc.—but might also involve non-food substances, like shaving cream or anything that, well, has the potential to pack a splosh.

24. Robot fetish

Yep, you can be horny for robots. This includes hyper-realistic sex dolls, cyborgs, and even just reading fan-fiction about sex with robotic/otherwise not-quite-human-but-definitely-human-made beings/products.

25. Quirofilia

Attraction to hands! Someone with this kink might be attracted to hands/fingers themselves, hands/fingers doing certain things, or a specific kind of manicure. As is the case with all kinks or fetishes, how it plays out/is experienced depends on a kinkster’s individual taste. Generally speaking, however, quirofilia means you’re into hands/fingers/nails in some regard.

26. Harem

When a man has multiple women or girlfriends, often, but not always they are in a submissive role.

27. Trichophilia

Attraction to hair. Of course, we all love a good head of hair, but trichophilia refers to a specifically erotic response to hair be it of the armpit, chest, pubic, or head variety.

28. Golden showers and piss play

Golden showers are a form of piss play (which, yes, is any play involving urine). Golden showers specifically refer to peeing on a partner."Beyond golden showers, piss play (also called 'urophilia') can include peeing on or in different body parts, clothes wetting, or making a partner hold in their pee as part of the scene play," Glover says.

29. Edge play

"Edge play in kink is any kind of activity that is further out there and considered more dangerous," Powell says. What qualifies as edge play is different for everyone. Some common forms include blood play, breath play, knife play, and needle play. As you may have guessed, edge play is usually pretty risky, and should only be practiced by informed and consenting partners who understand the risks associated with a particular sex act and how to minimize those risks. (See here for more info on how to explore edge play safely.)

30. Blood kink/fetish

People with a blood kink are into, uh, blood. Blood play is a form of edge play and might include knife play, i.e. cutting yourself or a partner, incorporating menstrual blood into your play, or otherwise intentionally introducing blood into the bedroom. For obvious reasons, blood play can be risky, but there are ways to mitigate that risk and enjoy this kink if that's your thing.

31. Wax play

Another one that’s pretty much what it sounds like, wax play involves dripping hot candle wax onto a sexual partner. While it’s often part of BDSM play (and is sometimes considered a form of edge play) it isn’t always. “Hot wax can be a frightening and high-sensation element in play, and BDSM often eroticizes that kind of experience,” Queen previously told Cosmopolitan.

32. Katoptronophilia

Mirror sex, baby! If you’re turned on by watching yourself masturbate or have sex in front of a mirror, this one’s for you.

33. Gagging

A gagging kink can run the gamut from enjoying the feeling or sound of a partner choking (especially on the receiving partner’s penis) to getting turned on by that sound/feeling as the giver, to even vomiting or being vomited on as a result of gag-inducing sexual play.

34. Figging

“Figging is a sexual activity that involves putting ginger root in the anus or vagina to create a deliberate and intense burning sensation,” Julieta Chiara, a kink instructor and sex expert, previously told Cosmo. This kink is often part of BDSM play, so, as with other kinky sex acts with which you may be more familiar—spanking, flogging, etc.—the pain is all part of the game.

35. Needle play

Needle play, sometimes called piercing play, is a form of S/M play in which one temporarily pierces the skin of a consenting partner with sterile needles to produce a heightened state of sexual arousal.

36. Consensual non-consent

While it may sound like a total oxymoron, consensual non-consent (often abbreviated CNC) is a form of role play in which partners simulate a forced (often but not always sexual) experience. Rape fantasies, for example, are a form of CNC. The key word here, of course, is “consensual.” While consensual non-consent simulates forced sex, enthusiastic consent and clear communication are integral to any CNC play.

37. Hypnokink

Hypnokink, aka erotic hypnosis, refers to the practice of incorporating hypnotism into sex. While it’s not always part of a kink or fetish (some use erotic hypnosis to work through sexual trauma, or feel more connected to a partner during sex), it certainly can be, and sometimes falls under the BDSM umbrella.

38. RACK

RACK is not a kink, even though it sounds like one. It stands for "risk aware consensual kink," and is the most common guideline kinksters live by to make sure all parties are safe. The idea of RACK is not that you find a way to eliminate all risks, but that you ensure all parties involved in a particular sex act are aware of the risks involved and give their informed consent to engage.

39. Erotic humiliation

Like most kinks, erotic humiliation exists on a spectrum. It can mean a dominant partner consensually calling their submissive partner names like "slut", or "slave" during sex. It can also be as extreme as someone being consensually "forced" to watch their partner have sex with someone else in front of them.

40. Cuckolding

Cuckolding is a form of the aforementioned erotic humiliation of watching your partner have sex with someone else. And yes, it’s where the term "cuck" came from. A cuck is a submissive who gets off on their partner having sex with someone else.

41. Aftercare

Aftercare isn’t technically a kink, but it’s another word that anyone engaging in kinky play needs to know. It’s basically a fancy word for checking in with one another after a scene to make sure all parties feel happy and comfortable with what happened. "It can include cleaning up the space you were in, putting away any toys that were used, and checking in on each other’s mental space," Powell says. If anything about the scene felt off or unenjoyable, this is your time to discuss and figure out what you need to improve the experience in the future.

42. CBT

Most people hear "CBT" and think of cognitive behavioral therapy, a form of therapy that focuses on regulating emotional responses and developing helpful coping mechanisms. But in the world of kink, CBT refers to cock and ball torture. It’s fairly self-explanatory, and usually involves a dominatrix inflicting consensual pain on a submissive’s genitals: think stepping on testicles while wearing heels, punching and slapping the penis, or "forcing" penis-having submissives to wear an uncomfortable chastity device.

43. Impact play

Usually done by a dominant to a submissive, impact play refers to hitting or spanking a partner’s body. Spanking is a common form of impact play, and others enjoy using toys like crops, paddles, or whips. To keep impact play safe and comfortable, most partners decide on a safe word, agree to only hit fatty areas (like the butt or thighs) to lessen pain, agree to be communicative about any discomfort or unwanted pain, and communicate during the scene to make sure the submissive is okay with the pain level.

44. 24/7

While people may generally identify as a submissive or dominant, some partners take it to the next level and enter a 24/7 arrangement, meaning that the consensual power exchange occurs full time, often while living together. The dominant and submissive roles are not only taken on for a scene, which may last just a few hours, but literally full time, on a 24/7 basis.

45. Rope bondage

Rope bondage is when a partner (usually the "top" or dominant partner) restrains another (typically the submissive) using rope. It can be as simple as using rope to tie a partner’s arms together, or as intricate as shibari, which is a form of Japanese rope tying that involves intricate knots and patterns and is considered an art.

46. Fisting

The act of inserting an entire hand, or fist, into a bodily orifice—like the vagina or rectum—is called fisting. Please use a lot of lube.

47. Orgasm control

Orgasm control involves a usually submissive partner allowing a dominant partner to, well, control their orgasm. This could include edging, orgasm denial, forced orgasms, or ruined orgasms.

48. Gang bang

A gang bang is a sexual activity in which one person is the central focus of the sexual activity of several people, usually more than three, sequentially or simultaneously. This can often include aspects of consensual non-concsent, as well as Interacial/BBC.

49. Clean-up duties

A husband or boyfriend who likes giving his wife or girlfriend one last orgasm orally after already having sex with a different partner. This is typically a ritual performed by the "lowest in the relationship pecking order".

50. Muscle Worship

Muscle worship is a form of body worship in which one participant, the worshiper, touches, kisses, and otherwise admires the muscles of another participant, the dominant, in a sexually arousing manner. They prefer displays of strength from the dominant. This may be a form of Size Kink when the emphasis is on the contrast between the bodies of a muscled character and a less-muscled character.

[gin-and-hypertonic]

Vibrating Dilators: A Breakthrough for Pelvic Pain? 😮

✨ Hey folks with vaginismus/vulvodynia/hypertonic pelvic floor, I just discovered a product that might change things for you completely! I saw this suggestion in an article (I can’t find it now). I’ve been battling with vaginismus for YEARS, and it seems like this has changed the game for me. I’ve made the most progress EVER. It’s SO ENCOURAGING. 💖

Before, I just had the Intimate Rose set, and while it’s basically industry gold standard… it’s been no where near as helpful in removing pain and replacing it with pleasure as the vibrating dilator set. I rarely actually felt pleasure with the Intimate Rose set because there was usually pain… especially when moving up a size, I could just feel the prickly sharp sensations of stretching, so any hint of pleasure was overpowered by that pain! 😬

With a vibrating dilator, you don’t even have time to notice any pain because it’s just buzzin’ in there & feels great. It does the work for you, I don’t even know how to even explain it! While using it, I was thinking “Woah, is this what it feels like to have a normally functioning vagina? This is amazing!” haha! 😂

I never considered vibrators before because they are usually quite large and not designed for people with vaginismus, but these are PERFECT. 😍

I feel silly for not thinking of this earlier! The first couple of times it might be a bit intimidating and strange as you get used to the feeling, but then it’s great (at least in my experience). ✨

Some considerations:

🌸You may need to be able to insert Intimate Rose #2 or an equivalent product in order to use it, because the smallest end of the smaller dilator is about the same size as that.

🌼Make sure to use lubrication. My PT told me to use coconut oil instead of usual lubrication for dilators so that’s what I do, personally!

❗️Please ask a gynaecologist or pelvic floor physical therapist if you have any concerns about whether this is right for you! I’m not qualified to give medical advice- this is just what is helping me! ❗️

💕Here is the link to the set I have: 💕

CalExotics Inspire 3 Piece Silicone Waterproof Vibrating Dilator Kit with Removable Wireless Stimulator, Pink https://a.co/d/10wzWPR

#sorry my first post on this account is basically an ad but im being completely honest #im just amazed #vaginismus #vulvodynia #hypertonic pelvic floor #pelvic floor dysfunction #dilators #just my personal experience #this is not medical advice #please check with your doctor/PT before use #I didnt though tbh lol #vibrating dilators

[big-boy-rex]

11. What’s your favourite sex toy that you already own? :3c

My Bad Dragon Nox, size small!

We don't love BD as a company for many reasons, but this bad boy Does hit all the right spots every time. Perfect size for me with a very nice prominent ridge on the head.

Honorable mentioned to my CalExotics Love Rider Strapless Strap-on, which I haven't gotten to use with a partner yet but is actually Very nice to masturbate with, since it's basically a G-spot toy with very long handle, and it's nice on the gender to jerk it off :)

#rex speaks #ask game #peachy-boo #rex answers #it used to be a little perfect 5 inch jelly toy with a massive corona on the head but that toy has unfortunately passed away #as jelly toys do