#do fucking better

[bloomingdarkgarden]

If you are an artist doodling or being commissioned or just drawing ACOTAR characters out of passion, I don't give a damn about ships, THANK YOU for giving to this fandom and for sharing your heart's vision of these characters for us.

That is a gift that can and will be taken away by creatives when entitled fans become abusive, which is happening as we speak.

Artists: you are seen, and heard, and respected by many of us without the loudest voices.

Boycotting this fandom for a week for solidarity ✊ nobody deserves to be harassed over imaginary fairies.

#acotar fandom #do fucking better #respect your creators or this place will become a graveyard #and only those who enjoy arguing will be left behind #acotar

[lavender-teardroplettes]

I’ve seen Saint’s post in the 14DWY blog and would like to just make one thing clear-

Not one of us who defended Winndy doxxed Saint and greatly discourage any of the harassment we faced being thrown back at her.

NO ONE should be harassed for what happened. Saint, even with the falling out and me not agreeing you- I NEVER wished this bullshit on you. I don’t wish this bullshit on ANYONE. I hope you’re able to trace ips or whatever you need to do to handle this legally and protect your safety.

Doxxing is a SERIOUS CRIME that can lead to so many scary things- this is on your shoulders if Saint gets hurt in any way because of it.

#si speaks #do fucking better

[razegoddess]

#submisive sissy #girlblogging #callum turner #hot as fuck #do fucking better #yummy yum yum #gay men

[justanotherdrfan]

FUCK YOU SKY SPORT FOR LAUGHING AT HIM FOR HAVING HIS HANDS ON THE WHEEL!

Please tell me that as you turn a blind corner and then have to make the split decision to either hit/t-bone another driver or sharply turn into a wall to avoid.

You literally looked at the footage ONCE and moved on like it’s was “just an incident”.

Here’s the facts you so quickly brushed off until after FP2:

He swore immediately over the radio in pain

You could hear him panting in pain over the radio

He quite literally said he hurt his hands

He could only get out with one hand while he clutched his injured arm to his chest

The marshal called out injury as he approached him

He had to go to the medical centre

Then immediately go to the hospital in a sling

And then finally rewatch the footage and then Karun and Damon who laughed previously changed their tune.

I’m just flabbergasted at the fact they didn’t give a shit and laughed at him even after knowing he went to hospital.

#f1 #formula 1 #formula one #daniel ricciardo #dr3 #danny ric #the bias is outrageous #sky sports f1 #laughing at an injury caused by a crash #do fucking better

[annabellelupin]

A lesson that the marauders fandom can't seem to fucking learn:

it's good to be diverse and have diverse headcanons but you need to fucking listen to the group of people that the representation is supposed to be representing when they point out when things are harmful and they're not comfortable with it

I mean this happens all the time in this fandom!

just to list a few examples:

- plenty of aroace people like myself have pointed out that peter isn't exaclty the best rep (with him becoming an antagonist and ntm the fat phobia behind it) and have asked for better rep and no one wants to listen (people only want to hc the unattractive people as aroace right cause if they're pretty they gotta be making out with someone for some reason haha /neg)

- quite a few poc members of the fandom have pointed out that they're not comfortable with des like Evan being headcanoned as black but people don't want to listen to them either

- now this one's more of a personal complaint but im not a huge fan of how people are making des and other antagonists queer for "diversity" (aka people just want to see men kiss for some reason). ik there's certainly quite a few people out there that agree with that

- similarly to the first one trans people like myself keep asking for more mainstream representation other than just regulus (who it seems less and less people are hcing as trans now too) bc while it may not be particularly harmful, its just about the only rep we get. and would ya look at that, hasn't happened yet has it

what in hell is even the point of headcanons for "representation" if no one even listens to the groups of people they're representing like seriously unless you're apart of that group you shouldn't get a say in what's good rep or whether it's not harmful and such

why do people not understand this????

#gotta a little repetitive there oops #but seriously #do fucking better #not that hard #when a group of people say some rep is harmful just listen to them #unless it applies to you you shouldn't get a say in whats good and bad rep #harrypotter #remus lupin #sirius black #james potter #maraudersheadcanons #lily evans #marauders era #regulus black #peter pettigrew #aroace peter pettigrew #harry potter marauders #the marauders #mary mcdonald #the marauders era #marauders

[jerzwriter]

You are so fucking disgusting Elsa. Using your bland ass straight white bitch MC to be the MC of the Month for Pride Month.

You’ve gone really low

Good morning, Nonny.

I'd like to say hope you're having a good day, but clearly, you're not.

I was 50/50 on putting this in my "delete because Nonny is a bitter troll who doesn't deserve the attention/exposure they desperately crave" file. But this anon goes beyond the usual "I'm a pathetic human who hates someone on the internet who has zero impact on my life so much because of (insert stupid/insane reason here), so I'm going to be a vile bully and send them anonymous hate because - IDK - I can't find a good therapist? I'm off my meds? I'm just a vile piece of shit?" See, I no longer waste my time or energy on those.

But I decided to answer this because a) you're wrong, and b) you're engaging in bi-erasure - something that happens in the fandom and in real life every day, and I'm not going to pass up a chance to educate your ignorance and address your bigotry.

Casey was picked at random - the same way all MCOTMs and WOTMs are. I grappled with the decision to highlight her bisexuality... because of people like you. In the end, I decided to be true to the character. I've been dealing with people like you my entire life - in my personal life - never mind fandom. So let's educate.

Bisexuality is real - people.

Your ignorance in understanding it doesn't make it any less real. I am proudly bi, but trust me, it feels like a pretty shitty thing to be at times. You're never queer enough for many in the queer community, but you're too queer for those who aren't. There is no real safe space outside of a precious few who get it. And I mean few.

Your straight friends talk shit about you "doing this" to be "cool/get attention" or whatever... and they're "relieved" when you're in a hetero-presenting relationship. Your queer friends are happiest when you're with a same-sex partner, and if you're not, they accuse you of lying about who you are or "hiding." It's awesome. You know, instead of just having friends that are fucking happy if you're happy. People CAN BE and ARE attracted to more than one gender and the feelings/love we have toward both are real, valid and do not have to be explained to anyone.

Anyone who follows my MC (and I don't believe Nonny has) knows that Casey has been presented as bisexual from the day I entered this fandom. If some choose to ignore that, that's on them, not me. The fact that she is half of a pairing that is hetero-presenting does not make her any less bisexual. How ignorant are you?

Her profile clearly states she's bi. I've written about her being an activist for LGBTQ rights and about her reluctance about coming out to her parents (because she doesn't believe she should have to "come out," why is straight the default?). I've introduced her ex-girlfriend, Jessica, in fics and text fics, and discussed Casey's identity at length in numerous asks over the years.

So, yes, her current partner is a man, and he ends up being the love of her life. GUESS WHAT! THAT HAPPENS TO BI PEOPLE! And, TRUST, we know the privilege that comes with being in a hetero-presenting relationship. I've never once had someone throw something at me or hurl slurs when I've held a male partner's hand in public, but I've had it happen when my partner is a woman. But no one bi is "suddenly straight" because of it! And asking us to parade as hetero just because we're with an opposite-sex partner is pushing us into a closet - and I'm sorry, but fuck you - because no one belongs there.

Last June, I deliberately avoided all pride-related events in the fandom (NOT in real life). I did so because I was coping with the guilt that is tantamount to being bisexual. The "Should I put it out there. I mean, there are others who are more queer, right? I have no right to do this? Their characters are more important than mine, right?" And yeah, I've felt that way in real life, too. THIS is what it's like being bi. I'm out for decades, I'm comfortable and proud of who I am, I counsel younger people in the community that they are valid - and I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes right now because with all of that, THIS SHIT STILL CREEPS IN - largely because of s-bags like this Nonny.

So you know what, I'm not grappling with it anymore. It's pride month, and in real life, I'm celebrating to the fucking max. And you know what - I'm doing it in the fandom too. Casey is going to be as out and fucking proud as I want her to be, and if it makes your ass uncomfortable, well, that's not my fucking problem.

Re-read your ask, Nonny. The only disgusting person in this exchange is you. Do fucking better.

#playchoices #choices fandom #bisexuality awareness #bi erasure #hate anons #open heart choices #do fucking better #your ignorance is showing #pride

[tragic-obsession]

I don’t care what justification you come up with; Don’t mock the rituals of another culture.

“Look at them and their silly dance, let’s mock their dance because they do funny movements and make funny faces.”

How about no. “But it’s just a dance…” No. “I didn’t know it was offensive,” use your fuxking brain. “I just wanted to try it out,” sure, by laughing and joking with your friends on a video for your fans, totally trying it in good faith [sarcasm].

This rant brought to you by ignorant Spanish and Dutch footballers mocking the Haka; ahead of the FIFA Women’s World Cup; being held in Aotearoa; the home nation of Māori; whose ritual they think is a joke.

#new zealand #aotearoa #Spain and Netherland teams #do fucking better #you’re coming here #fucking respect Māori #buddy talks

[sga-owns-my-soul]

rodney mckay is the gordon ramsay of science

#like if you're a beginner? don't know what you're doing? #so sweet and caring and patient #if you claim to be the best at what you do and then turn around and make basic fucking mistakes?? #yeah you're gonna get verbally destroyed #like sorry but you deserve it??????? #who claims to be the best chef and then undercooks chicken #who claims to be top of their field and then turns on random machines without checking what they do??? #like. yeah no shit you're getting yelled at #do fucking better #rodney mckay #gordon ramsay #sga #stargate atlantis

[epickiya722]

You know what, some of you might not like what about to say in a few...

#simply some of you in fandoms think so fucking backwards it's fucking ridiculous #do fucking better #just kiya's thoughts

[emotopunkpipeline]

GOD I just wish people were normal about multi gendered folks so I could tell if "men dni" inherently includes me or not. Y'all'll say "no TERFs" but then keep that shit on every post. I would really just like to enjoy being a lesbian without having to disown the rest of my gender experience.

#multigender #men dni #I'm bothered #just tell me you're transphobic or find something better to say #this isn't even about any one person #I'm just tired of it being so hard to conceptualize for people that trans and multigender people exist #do fucking better #TERFs not welcome

[lucadrawss]

Despite there being even more acceptance around mental health, theres still a massive misunderstanding of it

I posted something to do with trauma on youtube because my channel is a safe space for people and I want them to know that they're not alone, but so so SO many people called me weak and told me what happened never happened or I didn't remember it and was being a baby about it, just because I had stated that the first traumatic experience I had was when I was 3 and I got called an attention seeker because I am open about what happened because I want to help others and it's my way of coping.

I want to make something clear

People suffering from mental health issues or are suffering from trauma are NOT weak

Just because something happened years ago doesn't mean that the person is being a baby about it or they don't remember it

I CLEARLY remember what happened to me, I may have only been 3 but its a memory that will forever haunt me and has caused me to have issues later in life and developed ptsd, there are other things as well which caused me to develop other mental issues and lead me to sh (which I am seeking help for)

Just because someone has a mental disorder or has trauma doesn't mean that they are weak or an attention seeker

Most of the time you don't know them, you won't know what they're going through or how it affects them

Do better

Just know for anyone who needs it, everything will be OK, I'm proud of you and I'm open if you need to talk

#mental health #tw: sh #do fucking better #we're not weak #youre not alone #im proud of you #keep going #it'll be okay #youre doing great #you arent weak

[mcdreary]

911 fandom come the fuck at me about henrietta wilson that is my WIFE and I’ll KILL FOR HER

#911 fox #911 sneak peek #yall need to get a fucking grip #any REASONABLE friend would respond the way she did #do fucking better #your racism/tokenism is showing #anyway thank u hen #chimney deserves u #ur doing amazing sweetie

[razegoddess]

#submisive sissy #humiliated sissy #gay #do fucking better #i want to be slave #sissy slot #humble #sissi slave #girlblogging

[4izawas]

ion know abt y’all but some of u ppl acting like minors aren’t susceptible to being badly influenced by media created for adults r literally fucking psychotic

#like what the fuck. r u braindead like #how the fuck is this the conclusion you came to #no adult with good fucking intentions towards minors fucking thinks this way. none #if you ARE an adult and your mindset works like this? fucking reflect on that shit bc god r u fucked up #do fucking better #cas vents !!

[arcticmonkeysjunglepenguins]

When I was a child, I had a reoccurring nightmare.

I was at the beach in the water. It was night but the sky was bright. Not from the moon but the flames that burnt on hills in front of us down to the shoreline. The water was filled with people trying to swim away from the heat but trying to stay afloat.

I think this nightmare was inspired by a TV show of children during Pompeii.

I'm grown now. And I keep seeing this nightmare. But it is no longer in my dreams. I see it on the coast of Australia in 2020. And this week in Maui. It still fills me with terror as it did as child.

In Pompeii they didn't know. They had no warning they could look to. I comforted myself. IF something that bad was to come again, we're be warned before the disaster.

So why didn't we listen.

#climate change #climate crisis #short story #text post #pompeii #bushfire #sadness #angry #do fucking better #prime minister #mr president #do your job to spend less on rebuilding #and to make sure your constituents are there tomorrow #screaming

[chxsn1]

laying in bed, can't sleep because im thinking about how all of my trauma leads back to cishet men. all of my mothers trauma and my aunts and every womxn in my life has trauma caused by cishet men. and it enrages me. here we are claiming equality but i don't remember a man ever blushing in embarrassment for saying 'bitch'. i don't recall a man ever being instantaneously ashamed for uttering the slur 'female'. white people out here reading and listening. when's a man ever studied the injustice his gender has caused? there's a reason they don't walk on eggshells afraid to offend womxn. they don't think they have anything to apologize for.

#some* whites people #and yeah. not all men. but i don't know a single one trying to rectify #i know a gang of white people SENSITIVE af to the issues #but my aunt was caught between two men last week and now SHE is apologizing. for what? looking feminine and beautiful? for being in a public #place? i had three #men put their hands on me and we DONT KKOW EACH OTHER #do fucking better #i will spend #the rest of my life healing the damage other men have caused. because i LOVE womxn. in all forms and sexualities and races and abilities etc #womxn out here healing womxn. always doing the most #rant #top 3