#edit2: and im not like weh these people are so baby! we should never hold them accountable! its more like. this is literally set up to abuse

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i like. can barely read this. barely any mention of why these disorders develop, how they actually work internally (when that was mentioned in other chapters)

literally multiple times like 'these specific ones are super problematic' (literally used the term problematic.

and some of it is just plain wrong. or works off of a philosophy that not everyone subscribes to. like... ugh. its just.

they talk about personality disorders like if you met someone with one you woudl know immediately and like you shoukd never talk to them or theyll ruin your life.

like theyre describing bpd like these people are like monster time bombs or people with ASPD like they dont have an internal world at all.

like i just dont think 'meanness' or 'lying' should be the basis of any diagnosis. I understand why they are included but so much of behavior is influenced by circumstance.

theres also like, I just noticed this (and the next chap is on therapy so maybe theyll talk about it there) but theres like literally no mention of medications or therapy for ANY of these disorders.

it just makes me so fucking. like.

#i probably sound fucking stupid here but #just AAAASSAGGGGGHHHHHHH #strangle strangle kill kill kill cry kill kill eat flesh and burn #edit: when i say any disorders i mean stuff out sode if the personality disorders as well #i know theres not a ton of treatment available for personality disoerderd but treating comorbities (also not mentioned AT ALL) #and talk therapy can help if the person like #wants to or has the mindset that they can manage symptoms #like not everyone with a personality disorder wants too and that like their own deal #but. a big part of that is definitely how people talk and treat personality disorders. and how often people are miss diagnosed #either not diagnosed at all or shoved into a box because their cercumstances fit #like you cant be diagnosed with a lit of disorders untill 18 but so so so many psychologists will still essentially do so #because they think the person is somehow beyond help or like something like that #when the whole point is like they probably still live i whatever houshold caused them the catalyst trauma #and like. im not a fucking expert and a lot of this is probably wrong or nieve #but i just. #idk #edit2: and im not like weh these people are so baby! we should never hold them accountable! its more like. this is literally set up to abuse #like this system is made in a way that the people i power can abuse it easily and no body will say or do anything #and i just dont think it should be set up like that.