#hate crimes md

[faggot-greg-house]

recent moods

#james wilson #house md #hate crimes md

[zitgrimes]

Let's all just take a minute to look at house in his turtleneck sweater

#hes so cute #house md #hate crimes md #gregory house

[notfernintheslighest]

middle is a reference to that one hilson post but i couldn’t find it

#hannibal #hannigram #hannibal lecter #will graham #hannibal nbc #house md #hate crimes md #hatecrimes md #venn diagram #hilson #gregory house #james wilson #community tv #community #jeffbritta

[hunny-mustard104]

I'm sorry???????

#i really hope that no one has posted about this yet #sorry if you have lol #house md #james wilson #gregory house #hilson #hate crimes md

[weird-an]

Others go on cute dates, meanwhile Wilson and House be like:

"Aha! You yawned."

"Aha! You tried to kill me."

#i love this ship #hilson #hate crimes md #house md #james wilson #gregory house

[dragonagitator]

i need House bites to live

#house #house md #greg house #gregory house #hatecrimes md #hate crimes md #hugh laurie

[chase-md]

i can't get over how sincere and raw house sounds in that moment. the pictures can't really convey the feeling. but it's way gayer than it looks

#house md #hilson #gregory house #james wilson #hatecrimes md #hate crimes md #greg house

[danonators]

#remember when i actually used to make good picmixes? yea me neither. here you go #mine #house md #gregory house #james wilson #hilson #hate crimes md #picmix

[greghatecrimes]

Okay. Buckle up babes, it's finally Foreteen time and I wrote an essay.

Foreman and Thirteen are so interesting to me in so many ways. You have Foreman, who thrives off of control, and Thirteen, who refuses to be controlled in almost every aspect of her life. In the sense of them as individual people, they both have a lot of their own issues going on. Hot messes, the two of them. But in the sense of them as a couple, I think Foreman specifically is the only one who has issues with the relationship. (Or rather, Thirteen's issues aren't being projected onto the relationship and causing difficulties at the end of s5/beginning of s6, while Foreman's are.)

Foreman's biggest thing, at least in the latter part of their relationship, is control in regards to emotions. After they found Kutner, he coped with everything by isolating himself. A huge part of me thinks that's because this terrible thing just happened, the floor just fell out from both of them in so many ways, and Foreman feels like he doesn't have a grip on anything anymore. The only thing he can control is himself, and how he reacts. So Thirteen? Even though she's his girlfriend and he's worked with her for two years, her emotions and reactions are fundamentally beyond the scope of his control; she's still a wild card. She's not safe. So instead of letting himself lean on Thirteen, letting them grieve together, letting them comfort each other, for his own stability, Foreman chooses to cope (and thus reject Thirteen when she reaches out for support) by retreating into an environment that he's intimately familiar with. He surrounds himself with only variables that he can confidently predict. It's his gut instinct. It's always worked before, so why wouldn't it work this time? Why would it have any reason to cause problems?

In season four and the first half of season five, Thirteen was very much the same way. When things became too overwhelming for her, she repeatedly dealt with them by running, by hiding; by trying to isolate herself from the people who care about her and want to help her. The same base principle drives them both at this point: "what's out of my control is dangerous in some way or another. The only one who's safe to be around is myself, because I am the only person that I can control." But by mid season five, Thirteen has come a long way from that. Slowly she's becoming much more of a "recovering control freak". She's starting to be okay with the fact that she's not always going to have the amount of control that she has right now. She knows that all of it is something she has to come to terms with, and slowly she's getting to a point where she's accepting her diagnosis and working on all the baggage that comes with it.

Thinking about that– the fact that, by mid season five, Thirteen is approaching a point in her life of letting go, of learning to 'go with the flow'; while Foreman is very much still on the side of "I thrive and keep myself safe by controlling every aspect of my life possible"– makes them fundamentally incompatible as a couple from the get-go, even with all of the chemistry they had. Because the moment they get together (the Christmas party in 5x10 "Joy to the World") is right after Thirteen's decided that she doesn't want to die; when she's just starting to process her diagnosis instead of running from it.

Do I think there was/is love there? Yes. They absolutely care about each other, both during and after the relationship.

Do I think they would have worked out long term? The simple answer is "no".

The more complicated answer is that if they had been able to avoid the fiasco of Foreman running the department and then firing Thirteen after House quit, I think they could have made it work. But it would have been rocky, and it would have been especially rough for Foreman. Extremely so if it were to reach a point where they've stayed together for years and years, and Foreman is with Thirteen when she really starts to decline with her Huntington's.

Foreman is Thirteen's friend; he's also seen people slowly wither away from degenerative disease (his mother, with Alzheimer's), and he's a neurologist (and so he knows exactly how she'll decline, down to every last detail). All of those things give him greater emotional stakes in her Huntington's diagnosis beyond what's typical. But specifically in the situation of them facing this as a couple, you have this level of involvement where Foreman– someone who needs a high amount of control to function on a fairly basic level– is in an incredibly intimate relationship with Thirteen, whose entire life is inevitably and actively slipping out of her control. And in that scenario... I think that when the decline does start happening, it would absolutely terrify Foreman. To be the one that's by her side as a partner– seeing all of it firsthand, the pain and grief and sickness? And as her significant other, being the one that would potentially become a medical proxy when she's too sick to advocate for herself, faced with the possibility of making life or death decisions (like whether or not to euthanize the woman he loves)? I think that would have the potential to utterly destroy him.

As a friend, though? ("Ex-partners who have gotten back to a shaky friendship after the breakup, and still care about each other deeply", but "friends" for short.) The entire situation completely changes. I firmly believe that post-canon, if Foreman knows House offered to kill Thirteen before he "died", he would offer to kill her in House's stead in a heartbeat (just like I think Chase does). THAT sort of involvement with Thirteen's decline and care is far less terrifying, because now this is not the decline of someone that he's based his entire future on. This is not someone he's given half of his heart to; this is not someone he's built an entire life with and entwined himself so thoroughly with.

With the way things work out in canon, they're still friends, and they still care about each other; but at the end of the day, they're two separate people with two separate lives, two separate futures. And so Foreman doesn't lose a single ounce of his control as Thirteen's is slowly taken from her, bit by bit. Witnessing that is still a pain that is unimaginable. But for him, it's survivable. And that's the key difference (and why I ship Foreteen during season five and season six, but not post canon).

#this has been sitting as a bunch of voice memos in me and Bee's discord convos for MONTHS and i'm so happy to finally write it out #doomed yuri vibes and i can make another post to elaborate on that at some point #i love them a lot even when they hurt me #house md #hate crimes md #hatecrimes md #remy thirteen hadley #eric foreman #remy hadley #foreteen #my meta #meta

[cryptidcircusco]

maybe house and wilson never fucked because they’d rather die than try to moan the names Gregory and James

#hate crimes md #hilson

[picklesinabottle]

drawing house without his flame cane is like cutting off an angels wings or whatever

#they make him look like hes going fast!!! #house md #hate crimes md #hatecrimes md

[faggot-greg-house]

ppl are too mean to house: a thesis

i saw a post the other day about how house ruins everyone that interacts with him and i went into full on protection mode. so lets talk about this.

yes, house is an asshole! thats a major part of his character. but he's not JUST an asshole, and he isn't a bad person. house cares so so much about his friends and his patients and the life he lives. he cares so much about the people around him, even though it's hard for him to show it! i've talked abt my house abuse thoughts here before but he grew up constantly moving around and never being able to make friends, and he also grew up being abused. it is not at all surprising that he is afraid of connection, of intimacy.

the thing is though - house shows again and again how much he cares. he cares so much about the people around him. he offers to kill thirteen when she can't handle it anymore. he's in love with wilson, even if you only want to see it platonically. he cares about patients. he cares so fucking much, and yet people, in the show ajd in the fandom, constantly try to describe him as someone who doesn't care at all. he doesn't just hurt people for fun.

the reality of the situation is that house has trauma and doesnt have an easy time showing it, and throughout the fandom and the show he is treated as some sort of monster. he deserves better across the board

#house md #hate crimes md #gregory house #james wilson #autistic greg house

[what-thisiscrazzzy]

Look I googled it so I know that Stacy is Houses ex but this is so funny when I didn’t know the context bc it reads so differently

“Of course, why should I trust someone who lies about what he’s doing Friday night. Question is what are you really doing Friday night. More to the point, what could possibly be more important than monster trucks?

Or are we breaking up.”

“Stacy is coming into town this weekends we’re having dinner. Catching up”

“I definitely had pants here… wait a second is that Stacy the stripper? I heard she playing Atlantic city”

“No, Stacy the constitutional lawyer”

“You thought I couldn’t handle this news”

*Wilson awkward look*

“You talk to her a lot?”

“No. It’s been a long time. If you don’t want me to see her-“

“What is this eight grade. I’m fine”

“It’s fine if you’re upset”

“NO. I have no right to be upset. You two are friends. You should see her”

“So you’re okay”

#gregory house #house md #minty watches house #james wilson #hilson #hatecrimes md #hate crimes md #house season 1 #house md season 1

[ironvampire]

just rewatched s2 ep5 the one about the father and son and the radioactive keychain, also the one where house's parents are shown for the first time. lots of thoughts. two different father-son relationships are shown, one father that lies out of love and one father who says the 'truth' no matter who it hurts. house tells cuddy that he hates his father, last thing the patient says is that he loves his father. house has a very rare moment of vulnerability with cameron only for cameron to later ask wilson "his father tells the truth, so what?" house also says to cameron "they seem like perfectly pleasant people don't they?" house's father was canonically abusive, i bet the only person he's ever admitted this to was the patient in one day, one room. probably kept it secret for fear of the exact reaction that cameron had, being brushed off or told that his father seems like a pleasant person. even wilson has more sympathy for house's parents than for his best friend when he says it must be hard for house's parents to see him being miserable.

#house md #doctor house #greg house #gregory house #hate crimes md #hugh laurie #james wilson #allison cameron #robert sean leonard #jennifer morrison

[baconpncakes]

I will never forgive House MD or Ted Lasso for making a protagonist who has an incredibly complex perception of his mother, especially due to the trauma he endured from his father, and failing to explore that relationship beyond the surface He's Mad At Her But Lives With It Anyway Bc She's His Mom And He Loves Her

But then not even that? Like? It doesn't even show us he loves her? Just that he feels obligated to her? WHICH IS AN INTERESTING THING TO EXPLORE AND THEY DON'T

When Dr. Fieldstone said "He took a lot away from you." And Ted replied "And my mom." When House found out his mom cheated and said "My mom hated him too."

When Ted said "Fuck you for not working on yourself or seeking help after we lost dad. And for not talking to me about it either." When House said his mom hates confrontation and it's only after his father dies that she says to him "The war is over, Greg."

When Ted said " I love meeting people's moms. It's like reading an instruction manual as to why they're nuts.” When House said "Are you kidding? I can't lie to my mom!" and "My mom's a human polygraph."

When Dottie asked Beard if Ted is still putting everyone above himself, but changes the subject when he asks how she's doing. When Blythe told House "You're absolutely perfect just the way you are." in response to him saying he doesn't need any help.

The fact that Ted and his mom have the same idiosyncrasies and senses of humor. The fact that House and Blythe both fake cancer to get what they want.

When Ted assured his mom that being in therapy doesn't mean blaming everything on her. When House called his mom to wish her a merry Christmas before he overdoses.

#i will never forgive them!!!! #house md #ted lasso #hate crimes md #my post

[wonder-womans-ex]

thinking about how chase is all the worst parts of house and all the worst parts of cameron and all the worst parts of foreman. about how he is cameron's guilt, cameron's blame, her white-knuckled grip on the past, her need to believe things are her fault, but none of her care, none of her sympathy, none of her bone deep kindness. about how he is house's disdain, house's offhandedness and indifference, house's resent, but none of his drive, none of his anger, none of his kicking and screaming stubbornness. about how he is foreman's rationality, foreman's skepticism, foreman's need to prove house wrong, but none of foreman's objectivity, none of his calm, none of his knowing when to egg house on and when to put his foot down. about how chase isn't a good doctor, but he's a yes-man and he's a devil's advocate and his moral compass swings wildly in every direction and he's a shit disturber and he's a snitch and he's an asshole and he's a doormat. he has no good qualities, he just has whatever bad ones house can exploit at whatever given moment.

#robert chase #house md #hate crimes md #gregory house #allison cameron #eric forman #dr chase #god. jesus even.