#ironically--perhaps paradoxically--is validating of my/his gender

[trentcrimminallybeautiful]

Sorry. I meant cis ted.  I would never baby girls transman that would be offensive.

???? yeah i mean. i kind of figured you probably meant cis ted, i was saying I got distracted on the topic of feminization kink. also i mean. yeah it CAN be offensive but i was talking about how me, as a trans man, enjoys feminization kink on a trans male/transmasc character (in this case trent, sorry) bc i project a lot😩 and it's fun specifically because of the inherent contradictory na--i mean i did explain this? didn't i? i. sorry??

#please tell me im not about to get a bunch of anon hate for . [checks notes] having a kink #anyway i only like it done a certain way like. im not into misgendering or whatever its more just like. ohhh idk how to explain it rn #Again. Headache #but like. its ABOUT the contradictory nature of it its ABOUT how it #ironically--perhaps paradoxically--is validating of my/his gender #and like i mean. aftercare. praise kink anyone? good boy? love that shit. validation. #like. it's just. a guy can enjoy being feminized. and a trans guy is a guy #with as much wide variety as cis guys #and sometimes hes into that! and not necessarily in the specific Misgendering way but just. in the regular way. like a cis guy might be. yk #sources: I Am Into It And I'm Transmasc #anyway tldr IM babygirling trans trent bc id like to masculine enough to be babygirld. #plus ngl it just plays into my Complicated Gender Feelings #one of my ideal genders (i collect them like a dragon #im fluid i think but i lean very masc but in different shades?) is like #i want to look like a boy in girl's clothing if that makes sense. masculine enough that i could wear a dress and people would think #'guy in a dress' not 'lady' but still like. you know. wearing the dress. #and this plays into that--being masculine enough that you can be feminized and still be recognizably a guy? or know that you are still like #you and your partner still Know and Perceive you're a guy? you know? #the security of that in your own gender + safety/trust in your partner + it's FUN it's just fun #idk how else to explain it man but it's literally me projecting my personal feelings #also idk what emoji that is it wont load for me rip #ANYWAY sorry to derail thats why i did it in the tags. im just like #honestly not as interested in ted getting railed which--again not that it's not valid but it's also like 90 percent of the fan content for #the ship and like. again that's not invalid or Not Canon or something im just more interested in WRITING about trent getting railed #bc i have blorbo disease and my own preferences yknow? #askbox #anonymous #if i get like. Cancelled over this. im going to. like. walk into the sea