#just say you hate women and leave.

[iamdeltas]

I have to say it is wild as shit going from the Supergirl fandom where huge swathes of it insisted that Lena was super totally completely in the right for going full supervillain and trying to kill Kara and also mind-control the entire world because she kept being Supergirl a secret from her, to the MAWS fandom where people are insisting Lois is a total bitch for daring to be a little upset that Clark lied to her about being Superman even though she'd mentioned that she has issues with people, including her dad, lying to her in the past, and Clark keeps disappearing during dangerous situations, making her incredibly worried about him when this whole time, he was Superman.

#it's also wild finding myself on completely opposite sides of this debate each time around! #in the supergirl instance i was totally on kara's side because lena kept being xenophobic towards aliens and also kara is entitled to keep #secrets! and for fuck's sake lena is allowed to be a little mad but going full supervillain is... a slight overreaction i might say?! #while here with maws i'm like lois is kind of right to be mad though? #i mean it makes sense why clark is keeping this secret of course but it also makes sense for lois to be mad! she's not being childish and #she's not overreacting and she's certainly not being a bitch! #just say you hate women and leave. #s says some words #fandom bullshit #maws spoilers

[tabithatwo]

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(this is a pls stop blaming juliette lewis for nat’s arc and death post <3)

#regardless of whether you loved the death or hated it YOU CAN STOP BLAMING JULIETTE NOW OKAY?? #like even people who liked it overall but had qualms the party line is well I’m sure it was juliette leaving early so that’s why xyz #no! it was not! this was the plan <3 and idc if you hate love or nothing it I just think like making these excuses for things is weird #like do I get why some people might have assumed juliette might have left early sure yes but also idk like PEOPLE ARE FALLIBLE #showrunners are fallible! and that’s OKAY! they’re PEOPLE! and you CAN love every choice they make but jumping through hoops #to find *reasons* for the things you didn’t like is so interesting to me cause like…it’s okay!!! they can do a little thing you didn’t love! #you can even SAY you didn’t love it if you want and that’s okay too! or not! but stop blaming juliette lewis for whatever you didn’t like #also the rest of the article is an interesting read! #now I’ll do conjecture and tell you it is CONJECTURE for sure okay disclaimer #but after reading this article I think it is even possible Juliette’s anger with nats arc was partially BECAUSE she knew her death was soon #like maybe! who knows! not us! but I don’t even know how I became this hardcore juliette defender bc honestly I dosagree w her on a lot lol #but like I’ve seen people say oh she’s difficult and she made them do this and she’s a problem and she always does this #HELLO??? stop blaming women for shit baselessly?? #(if you casually wondered if maybe she wanted to leave and didn’t say it like it was fact or use it to pin blame on her for stuff… #…this isn’t directed at you) #but some people got VICIOUS #juliette lewis #natalie scatorccio #yellowjackets

[awkward-but-nice]

obnoxious disney adults are hating on rachel zegler, because she said that they... *checks notes* added other aspects to snow white that doesn't revolve around falling in love and getting saved by the prince...

#sorry that she doesn't think that a female character dying and getting saved by a non consensual kiss is particularly progressive i guess #also the hate is so fucking ironic #'snow white is supposed to be soft and kind!!!' #then go say the most vile shit about a 22 year old actress for expressing herself in a way you don't like #also full offense but being a groundbreaking movie a the time doesn't shield it from criticism #you can love it and still acknowledge that the way it depicts women generally doesn't hold up by today's standards #snow white #rachel zegler #seriously just go watch the original and leave her tf alone

[mwagneto]

The thing is that yes, 13 herself is good, but the show as a whole just wasn't great during her run. Something something there's a baby in this dumpster

yeah like i recognise that most ppl just disliked the show even if they liked her but that's like... almost worse to me? coz i rly love her seasons like i hate the big twist as do most ppl but like it's literally doctor who i'm used to bad decisions. but like the episodes themselves are fine? good even?? i mean there's some i think suck ass like rosa or kerblam but a lot of them are like really good??? and it literally just. makes me really sad that ppl put up with 6 seasons of moffat but literally immediately gave up on 13. like it was actually fucking insane to watch how hyped everyone (EVEN non dw fans) was about her turning into a woman and then the fandom just. disappeared. like idk obviously i cant fault anyone for liking/disliking whatever they want but it makes me so fucking sad.. i like her & her era so much and it seems like 99% of people are only willing to acknowledge it even exists when they wanna make a gender joke abt tennant or when it'd look weird to not include 13 so they include her even tho they know nothing about her or completely misinterpret her as a silly goofy friendly #girlie coz people are chronically incapable of engaging w text if it's a woman

#like again i cant. like. fault ppl for not liking it coz like ppl are gonna like what they like you cant force it #but it makes me so fucking sadddd she's everything to me.... #we had a long ass convo abt this exact topic last night/this morning w 2 separate ppl so funny timing #but like tldr yeah i get that ppl dont like the episodes it just makes me really sad💔 #especially since ppl are always willing to suffer through moffat but somehow not 13 ?? even ppl who hate the moffat era #and like at this point I'd rather ppl leave 13 out of things and say they hate women than see another one of #those character memes where op sorts every doctor into categories and somehow for some mysterious reason always #puts 13 as the fucking idiot dumbass who knows nothing #like it's just painful to me that's my girl and ppl are either unwilling to watch her or misinterpret her so much it becomes misogynistic #i got mail! #doctor who #13th doctor

[durn3h]

One of the most interesting things about religion to me is that so many people don’t even see the mental gymnastics they are doing to try and shape the biblical texts into a framework that is acceptable in the modern day and it comes out looking like something that none of the authors would have approved of.

#not to mention that they were written by authors at different times and for different purposes #so they say lots of different things #which makes it easy to pick and choose the interpretation that best matches what you want #like the ‘one man one woman’ definition of marriage that doesn’t exist literally anywhere in the Bible #women were property and men could have as many as they wanted #but then once the Greeks influenced them a bit in the New Testament it says leaders of the church should have one wife #so that means the Bible is against polygamy even though every man in the Bible had multiple wives #or the people that say the Bible is against slavery #even though there is literal chattel slavery described in the Old Testament with commands on how to do it #and in the new testament slaves are told to obey their masters #then they say that they aren’t slaves just servants #which is completely false #it reminds me of how so many Protestants are vehemently against alcohol #so whenever the Bible refers to wine in a good context they say it’s juice #and whenever it’s bad it is wine #even though several different words are used that basically all refer to fermented alcoholic wine #they translate them all differently as needed #like how Jesus said sell all your belongings and give them to the poor #then the Bible tells how literally all of the early Christians sold all their possessions and donated the money #and now people say that just means to be generous #and then don’t even leave a tip at a restaurant because they hate handouts

[moidhaterxxx]

I fucking hate ovarit. It's full of so called "radfems" who are in relationships with moids bleating about not all men. I wrote a comment on how males are all obviously sexist and then got argued against it. It's fucking pathetic. You're all toothless cowards who can't even agree with base truths. Forget men even women are sexist.

#Anti ovarit #Fuck u conservative women moonlighting as radfems #You wouldn't survive a day in my fucking country #Just say u hate trans ppl and leave #Misandry

[rewh0re]

honestly why do men

rant in tags

#hana.rambles #it'll be a rant #god so i was talking to this guy and #he goes like women in our society are so privileged and have so much more advantages than men #whatever could you guys complain for excepting like 1% the rest of y'all r living the best life #my guy #WE BELONG TO A CLEARLY PATRIARCHAL SOCIETY #where men are viewed on a much higher pedestal than women are #where we are scared to even go out alone at night #where our parents are scared to leave us alone at night because they dont know what might happen #you think women in this part of the country are safe and living the best life free of any harm #god it just goes to show how fucking delusional you are and how you live in a bubble #you think being a man is the hardest thing in the planet and that we women are lucky #YOU MY GUY don't know all the things you have that we are deprived of #look this in no way is me hating on men #im just saying that you dont have tp say shit like being a woman is the easiest shit in the world #cuz it isn't it never was #like it really baffles me how one guy can be so idk indifferent to the difficulties women have to face #and I'm not saying men dont have any #sure they do but YOU think that its only the men who go through difficulties #while we live the best life #educate yourself a bit on social matters #you're almost in uni #god i just hate it when ppl do this #anyways sorry for the rant guys #i just needed to vent

[josephquinncurl]

Eddie Munson is a loser dramatic metalhead outcast judged for dressing a certain way and liking d&d. He is sweet and loud and a bit clumsy and a flirt and a hero. And I love all parts of him. His past and his persistence in graduating, the way he stayed true to himself through it all, how he sacrificed himself for Dustin cause he wanted his sheep's to be save and how much he cared about hellfire and corroded coffin. All of that is why I love the character. Him being so open sincere and safe with Chrissy despite what everyone thought of him was so important for the character for us to see him be flirty vulnerable and sweet like that. I have never and will never care about ships. And him being straight or bi is the least important part to me about his story. If you want to relate to him through that side then I get it but to me canon Eddie is and always will be perfect. And for the writers and Joseph Eddie likes girls that's as much as we know. And if this book is about him finding another person like him who he can relate to and that happens go be a women then that's great. I think some of you need to understand that what you want from a character is not what the writers and actors have in mind. And dont be upset when that doesn't reach the expectations you have over fanfics and headcanons.

#joseph quinn #joe quinn #eddie munson #stranger things #stranger things eddie #stranger things 4 #eddie munson stranger things #hellfire club #last thing ill say about this #twitter is crazy #like it's not that serious #some comments i saw you seem very anti women in any way #there is nothing wrong with him being straight or bi #let the writers do their job #they you van decide if you like and consume that piece of media #no one is forcing you #just stop hating on canon eddie #casue thats why we wre here to begin with and who we fell for #eddie is perfect as it is #leave my baby alone

[kittlyns]

I had yet another long, strenuous day yesterday and didn't finish work until super late and then I couldn't fall asleep until well past 2am cuz I was in so much pain from standing literally all day

#what made it worse was the client I spent most of my day with was a brand new client. and she booked super last minute #so I wasnt mentally prepared for doing a 5 hour color. and her natural hair was already pretty light so I had to foil foil foil. go back. #pull out first couple foils. foil foil foil. go back. pull out the next few. #over and over and over. #and her hair was so fucking long. and so fucking thick. #and after the first hour she wouldn't talk. like I like my silence so I don't fight it much #but every now and then I would try to engage with her. I'd say something and she would straight up ignore me. no acknowledgment. #which makes me feel anxious cuz it's like jesus... does she hate me?? did I piss her off somehow? #even when I finished her hair (it looked fucking amazing no lie. one of my best highlights yet.) she had next to no reaction to it #she was like 'it looks fine. I mean good. it's good.' completely deadpan #I laughed it off and was like yeah it's been a long day girl! but it looks amazinggg on you!! #no response. deep inhale. alright. #whatever tho. #when I did finally get off work I stopped @ bojangles cuz I was lightheaded and hadn't eaten since morning #and when I tell you I almost broke down into tears cuz there were so many people crowding the goddamn pickup area. #and so many bizarre conversations going on. genuinely felt like I was in some form of hell #like my feet hurt. my back hurts. I'm tired. I didn't get the validation I like to have over a 5 hour transformative color. #I'm hungry and there are two elderly women blocking the pickup counter. one is hard of hearing so she keeps yelling HUH??? #and the other only speaks in soft baby whispers. that goes as well as you can imagine. #there's a man behind me grilling an employee abt whether or not he goes to church. he starts witnessing to him #and the employee says 'I've never thought about it like that before' no less than 4 times. #there's a child in front of me playing tiktoks @ full volume. and this is all happening simultaneously. #I really considered just leaving without my food but I knew I needed to eat and didnt have anything at home so I stuck it out #was it worth it? no. bojangles honestly sucks these days but what's a girl gonna do. #got home and tried to pass out but nope. tossed and turned all night. #put on hot n cold patches to try to soothe the pain a little. didn't work cuz one pain would be eased a bit and another pain would take over #blahhhhhh #and now. I get to do it all over again! yippeeeeeee!!!!!!!!

[bunnyb34r]

I wonder if Formally Good Manager will return from war... wherever the fuck he is.... now that BaldBastard is out of here lmao

My facial blindness will NOT be able to handle it 😭 Bootleg FGM is his doppelganger and I already have trouble remembering that that's NOT FGM

Also we got news that Old BossMan got fired from whatever job he "left" our store for lmaoooo bitch it's only been a year and a half?? and you've been fired TWICE???

#marquilla #work talk #we dont know why he was fired but we know he did which is so so funny like hey... your old job here opened up... too bad you're #blacklisted from working here now lmaoo id die if they somehow rehired him AGGSGSGS Can you imagine?? BossMan 2 Electric Boogaloo #it's not gonna happen bc he got super super fired uh i mean he CHOSE to leave after an incident where his employee threatened another #with a gun at work shdggdgd so yknow... but god that would be so fucking funny #anyway anyways FGM kept signing up for military leave so he wouldnt have to give up his job but wouldnt have to be HERE with BaldBastard #which like ... i get it but also id just quit but thats me sgdggdgdgd we dont know where he is/when he's coming back but he was SUPPOSED #To be back in october and then just signed up right away for another tour 😭 imagine your employee hating you that much #funniest thing is FGM was BaldBastard's favorite lmaooo it was NOT mutual but then his lady friend manager from PA moved here to work #with him and she was legit CRYING at work when he told her he was quitting like again imagine uprooting your life for this and he just #LEAVES less than 6 months of you moving here 😭 i don't think she was into him but idk maybe she's bi i just know she likes women at least #she could do so much better than this white megamind looking fucker sgdgdggdgd #the best part ab having a job is the drama you get to absorb by proxy and the glee of watching shitheads get their just deserts #schlaundefraud or whatever the spelling is of that work sound it out you know which one im trying to say

[bittwitchy]

see the reality is i post on my rps usually when nobodys been there a bit and nobody is probably online, but the mental illness in me keeps saying its bc everyone secretly hates me and i dont deserve love, and when i tell a gov doctor that, they basically just say ‘take your antidepressant’s and shut up’ which is also funny when said gov doctor wont refill my fucking antidepressants in the first place

#what i need is smthn for my anxiety and PROBABLY the obviously worsening ocd #but anxiety meds and antidepressants dont mix well #just like adhd meds and anything else dont mix well #which is why i just have a redbull if i need to focus bx it works for a few hours and then i pass out #which isnt healthy but its better than going through the diagnosis process AGAIN bc they dont have my info anymore #its early sad times rn w brina who hasnt gotten an ounce of treatment at all hi #see the other thing is #if i talk about my mental health at all #people will either hate me for being annoying which is what my brain will pinpoint #or feel sorry for me which i also dont want #all i rly wanna do is vent but thats never really an option at all #like yes i know its not normal to want to have a breakdown and cry bc your fucking pillow isnt the correct fluff and wont dluff #i know its not normal to feel like you should die because something wasnt in fhe spot you put it in and was moved slightly #im aware. and the reality is nobody who can do anything about it cares #i have to get an authorization to see a therapist or get meds at all even tho the card claims i dont have to #and the doc tbey gave me wont give me one #they dont allow email so i cant leave a paper trail when bitching at them and my calls go ignored #im losing my mind steadily #and thats not even onto the physical problems #but also the sheer fucking audacity of the website being all ‘oh just go to ERs and UC snd we’ll cover it’ vs hospitals specifically saying #‘we will refuse you if you have Gov Ins unless you have the money to pay out of pocket #if youre on gov insurance you dont have fucking money thats the entire fucking point. you creedy fucknuts go shove tour nepotism in your #fucking eyes and die if anyone doesnt deserve to fuck its you fuckfaces #sometimes i just want to scream esp when this doesnt seem to be most other ppls issues #but then i talk to other women and it is #it just doesnt make sense and i hate it #but i never rly got help on private insurance either so #tbd #depression cw

[bonesrbleaching]

had the most braindead repetitive conversation/argument with my parents. buzz cuts are too masculine but if you dye a design on it it become effeminate which is bad because then you look weak and if youre weak then society falls apart (all societies ever that have fallen apart for any reason are actually because of feminine men) and we start sacrificing babies. and also all mental illness is invented because only 4 people had anxiety in the 90s and covid was made up so that we would all become gay and trans and then the government can control us better and be joe biden's little sex slaves. and also i need to keep my hair long because my father finds it attractive. what

#lolaa.txt #what do i even tag this with . my mother wouldn't let me leave and i kept asking for sources and she kept saying 'i'm your mother!!!' #'i wouldnt lie to you!' #okay. say that to someone maybe who doesnt know you lie to them all the time. #its tiring going around in circles with her.my father is better because at least he admits when he doesnt have a reason for feeling some wa #also what got me. she said 'do you own research if you want!! but im right!!!' #yeahh not seeing anything about anything you just said. i think you made that up. #i have a theory that my mother secretly hates herself because she believes all women are weak and must serve strong men #and my father has so so much trauma and anxiety that he cant be that strong man #so now she feels like shes betraying her very biology when she has to step up. #and also because i am stronger than her now and my hair is long and far far denser than hers and i have a younger face #that she feels that im wasting my precious femininity that she could be using. does that make sense. #shes so miserable trapped in her idea of what makes a man and a woman what they are. once you stop caring about what makes someone somethin #you dont have to worry about anyone else. #im queer because i dont really feel that connection to biological and social ideas of gender that my parents seem to #never really have #im not gonna theorize 'ohh shed be happier nonbinary' or stuff like that because it is up to you and you alone to define who you are #if you spend your whole life trying to fit a box for the sake of fitting the box #then when would you have any space for self discovery #youve invented personality traits to go along with your box. now you can never ever change or grow as a person. congrats #and you know what? one day she will die. and that will be the end of that. #and i will live and i will probably shave my head a thousand times. and come up with new names #and new ways to be a better person that makes me feel happy #and i will dress like a boy because its all made up anyways. who cares. #and if you care? that much about what im wearing or how i look? #then thats your problem and i wont be responsible to maintain your happiness. #SORRY RANT OVER. #im just so flabbergasted. what a sad life someone can lead poisoned by jealously and reactive rhetoric. #tw homophobia #tw transphobes

[averagelonelypotato]

I think of a party in the shogun’s palace where katsura snuck into, gintoki got invited to as a plus one from kagura, takasugi is just there smoking in the corner, nobume is guarding (eating the food) and oboro is there on tendoshu orders as a guest. Just all of them at a the party pretending like they all aren’t enemies or not on speaking terms while trying to avoid each other but failing because people are dragging them into conversations together and they have to be civil with each other because none of them can afford to cause a scene at the party with this many people present due to their plans on the line

#i have been thinking about this for weeks #like either in canon or an au where they all grew up with each other it works #its just them insulting each other while smiling around others #i imagine the party as a fancy ball too #i also imagine oboro smoking on the balcony and takasugi just joins them and the exchange kiseru's to try each others weed #lmao imagine people making gintoki and oboro have a convo saying they look similar and must be brothers #oh they would both hate it #like imagine the guy you fought a month ago who's not dead like you thought is right next to you pretending to be nice to you while stranger #strangers say you look similar #not to mention random ladies and men trying to get all of them on the dance floor with them #like nobume's trying to eat the snacks and people want to dance with her so she just pulls out her blade #takasugi would just stare at you to leave him alone unless you were the reason he was there for information #katsura would dance with anyone #gintoki no unless they are pretty or handsome #or flirt with him ig #oboro would have to do it since he's on a mission for the tendosu so he'd dance with the men and women who ask him for the sake of appearanc #appearances * #lmao imagine after the party they all try to stop each other's plan and fist fight in the parking lot #utsuro is waiting for oboro when he comes back to the base and cracks a joke like obro won't cry jk

[ickypuppi3]

the way people speak about liv and dacre is genuinely so similar to how people speak about grace and joe

like just say you don’t like women around the men you have a weird parasocial relationship with and go

#just say you hate women and you’re jealous idk #ive seen it so many times too #leave them alone my god #people will act like this and then swear down they love the celebrity they’re talking about #they literally wouldn’t like you but ok

[96percentdone]

being a transmasc is sure fucking exhausting because you go outside and you deal with transphobia and abuse, some of which is unique to your experiences as a transmasc, and it sucks, and then you go online and there's still the transphobia and the abuse, but now sometimes you run into 'activism' that says your abuse is some shit you made up for funsies and clout and out of spite against trans women you're personally responsible for the the ongoing trans genocide and the death of feminism because you just need to be the center of attention and cant let women have anything. yeah. yeah. i love this guys. i really love this. i feel extremely privileged for this. i definitely think you guys are right and we are absolutely just pulling shit out of our asses to feel special and the most important ever.

#despair.txt #does the world have to be this black and white #can the world not be shitty and horrifically abusive to women as a collective without making trans mascs you punching bag #leave us alone #i hate the misogynist hell world we live in also #thats why i do what i can to fight it #i just dont actually see why so many of you are convinced this requires treating trans mascs like shit and pretending its activism #and we have to be put in our place #we could never possibly know anything about our own experiences #we could only be saying anything about them out of spite against you #also dont fucking bother bringing up shitty trans men #or any privileges trans mascs can have #of course there are shitty misogynistic trans men #of course there are privileges afforded to transmasc esp if they pass are abled and white #thats not what im fucking saying and you know it

[vigilantesyd]

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#i know no one wants to hear this but i need to put it somewhere #i'd like to say that i love taylor #love her so much #she has been such an intrinsic part of my life and my coming of age #and her music got me through and continues to get me through all my highs and lows #i believe that she is a good person and that she has good intentions #even now #i want to believe that so badly #but i am having a hard time!!! #like she seems.... proud of the fact that she is a billionaire #and like yes we joke about her being a capitalist #and of course i know she is also running a business #but it just feels incredibly out of touch the way she spoke about her money #and i know the argument would be well you just hate women being successful #and actually no thats not it at all and i wont be elaborating! #and the silence on palestine is literally SOOO loud #genocide is not political #i dont know i dont know i dont know #ive never struggled like this with her #its really been leaving a bad taste in my mouth the last few weeks though #i want nothing more than to celebrate the time piece because i truly am so proud of her #but everything feels kinda wrong rn