#shit singlets say

[sysmedsaresexist]

#not syscourse #shit singlets say #shit pastors say #ptsd #ocd #adhd #hey fuck this guy

[chemicalcarousel]

Friend, who knows we have DID: "i made a dnd character who has a secret other personality that they don't know about"

Us: *light nervous sweating*

Friend: "i made their name a play on 'schizophrenia', because i thought that would a cool touch"

Us:

#LIKE THEY KNOW WHAT DID IS #PRETTY SURE THEY KNOW WHAT SCHIZOPHRENIA IS TOO #IM SO CONFUSED #shit singlets say #actuallydid #actuallycdd #levi here #ours

[owlgotchii]

Dude today my friend told me this bitch was going around telling my friends that I’m “faking” DID because I was apparently “not showing signs” and I barely don’t even know this kid and we haven’t talked since, like, August? Seriously, what should I have done, basically told a fucking stranger: “heyy, I’ve been showing signs of a serious dissociative disorder for years but can’t get a proper diagnosis because of my unstable family situation?” Isn’t that the shit attention seekers do? Someone has to talk some sense into this girl. /srs

#dissasociative identity disorder #shit singlets say

[cappuccinosyscourse]

random ass comment I found. "I'm a singlet" so why ya speaking over systems buddy?

#bababooey #shitcourse #syscourse #tw syscourse #shit singlets say

[neon-vocalist]

Singlets when they receive Simply Plural notifications:

#If one more fucking singlet friend acts surprised when the Simply Plural front is accurate because they just #Saw it and assumed it was incorrect? Because they wanted it to be a different alter? #I’m not making any sense I’ll just say it #If one more of Evie’s cute little fucking friends. Sees that Asa has logged a switch. #And then IGNORES IT. Because none of Evie’s friends like Asa. Because they’re HOPING THAT IT’S EVIE. #So they proceed to treat Asa like Evie. And then get mad at HIM for being upset about it. #If one more of Evie’s stupid fucking singlets tries to pull that shit on Asaki I swear to God #I’m ready to kill #👑Rin

[2bu]

singlets have the fucking nerve to constantly suspect us even if we accommodate their petty/useless "rules" of socialization (ie letting them know who is fronting) as if they'll be more understanding or forgiving when mistakes are made lmfao. like no, you musty bitch, i will not tell you which of my alters are fronting. it's no one's business who is fronting. I've had people abuse that information and coerce alters to front, and yet I'm still discriminated against no matter how forthcoming I am or honest about who is fronting lmfao. Like I lose no matter what. Why is it your business if I'm a system to begin with. I don't wanna talk about it after what I've endured with such a burdensome identity.

#singlets don't touch don't say shit I don't care what you have to say #ducky.txt

[justanothersyscourse]

Hot take

I love when pro/endos get made about singlets in syscourse, and then in the next breath, scream about how anyone can be plural

It's because they're not mad about singlets in syscourse, they're just mad about that singlet's opinion, because guaranteed, if the singlet agreed with them, they wouldn't care

Singlets DO have a place in syscourse-- not in all discussions, but they do have a time and a place to engage in constructive, positive conversations

#syscourse #anti endo #anti endogenic #shit endos say #singlet partners belong in syscourse #singlets that thought they were systems but found out they weren't belong in syscourse #singlets with similar disorders belong in syscourse #SINGLETS THAT READ LITERATURE AND HAVE AN OPINION ARE ALLOWED IN SYSCOURSE #they may not treated very nice by EITHER side #but they are allowed to have opinions and learn and discuss

[moogghost]

my ass just saw the most ridiculous shit and i'm complaining about it on main instead of my plural blog i'm only a little sorry

anyways you can't just fucking go "pls ask before being a fictive of one of my ocs thanks" FICTIVES DON'T FUCKING WORK LIKE THAT NORMALLY. MOST SYSTEMS CAN'T FUCKING CONTROL WHO GETS INTROJECTED SHUT THE EVER LIVING FUCK UP

you can ask not to know about it or be told but you can't just fucking go "oh well you have to ask me first before you form or decide-" LIKE FUCKING HUH???? DO YOU UNDERSTAND HOW NONSENSICAL YOU SOUND. DO YOU KNOW HOW LITTLE CONTROL THERE IS OVER NEW HEADMATES FORMING. DO YOU KNOW.

sincerely. a system who did not fucking ask for aubrey omori to be the one primarily helping me keep my shit together at work but here we are

(also adding my awesome disclaimer that there are always exceptions to this bc no system is exactly the same however in most cases systems don't have complete control over what kinds of headmates form so this is such a. bold thing to say to say the least lmfao)

#ghost whispers #tw caps #plural tag #this has gotta be like. the most nonsensical shit i've seen in dnis (esp on th) god bless lmfao #like thank you for outing yourself by revealing you inherently Do Not get how headmates typically form! lemme just block you real quick #you can't just ask someone to 'not be a fictive' of something. you can ask to not be told but you can't say 'u don't exist until i approve' #if you're like. a singlet either actually learn how this shit works or don't bring it up at all in your dnis. it's not that fucking hard #edit this actually kinda applies to fictkin too now that i think about it but y'all aren't ready for that convo

[krismoss-dreemurr]

Hey so I think we need to stop pretending our favorite characters in media are completely innocent and could never do anything wrong or fucked up. And also I think we shouldn’t have this mindset that what a character does in the past defines them now despite any personal growth

Maybe instead we need to try to understand why our favorite characters do the things they do or why they did certain things in the past and like. Chill out a little bit

#yes this is about the kris and Susie thing and yes I’m biased because I’m a Susie fictive #but can we also come at this from Kris’s perspective and acknowledge that kris was never afraid of Susie and they never seemed to hold what #she said against her. it’s so clear in both chapters 1 and 2 that they’re besties. we’re besties like no hard feelings about any of that #and it’s something that can be expanded on and worked through in the future #please let’s just trust Toby for the time being. I’m not saying you can’t feel a certain way about it or that you can’t analyze it #but let’s not freak out about it or let it completely change the way we see their current dynamic #personally I thought that it was a really interesting moment for both characters and it actually showed some growth for Susie because she #never was THAT terrible to kris after whatever kris said. I think when you’re a teen and you’re hurting you say and do horrible shit and you #might not even realize it until after the fact or don’t understand exactly how your words can affect other people. kris wasn’t reacting abd #when they did she thought they were laughing at her and given she was already taking out her feelings on them it probably felt Not Great #neither of them are good at effective communication or really being emotionally vulnerable #anyways yeah there’s my take #wrote this mainly in 3rd person because if any singlets see this I don’t want it to be too confusing #Susie talks #kris dreemurr #Susie deltarune #deltarune #safeutdr

[sysmedsaresexist]

The goalpost is getting further and farther away ):

#syscourse #shit singlets say

[jaqdawks]

Might need to clarify

Just in case

Because someone said something on IG that might be unrelated but I figured it’s good to just disclose

I’ve only got ADHD and ASD, when I reblog about stuff related to DID, Cluster B disorders, or any disorder really, it’s more so for support and not personal, medical resonation

#someone on my IG asked under a post of some headshot refs #if they were my alters #and I was like oh huh lol I suppose they could be seen that way #they’re some spooky little guys #but they’re not and I’m definitely a singlet #so I told them I was #and then I was like ‘hmm now how did they come to that conclusion?’ and remembered I’d reblogged a lot of stuff #about DID fakeclaiming and DID in general #and I thought ‘oh shit maybe they follow my tumblr and got the wrong idea’ #so I wanted to just say this here and now #I’ve got ADHD and ASD but beyond that im just advocating for others as I hope others would for me #im very against the stigmatization of disorders and also fakeclaiming because like #literally you cannot know if someone is or isn’t faking something from the internet alone #like not even if you’re a doctor or if you have the disorder you think someone is faking #it’s a very rare situation where we can say for certain #ultimately whatever community is struggling with whatever #even if I have a very limited grasp on how it works and can do nothing to truly understand #especially as someone with low empathy as part of my ASD #i wanna try to support everyone #it’s like the golden rule and shit #I’m sorta rambling sorryyyyy

[nonbinarychaoticstupid]

some of you need to like. attend courses on how to treat introjects like people bc what the fuck

#sep texxt #- theo #sometimes i will see a singlet say the most insane shit #it's always the 'omg you're a fictive of my comfort character! let's be friends!' ones as well #like. i don't know you go away

[transmascnaotoshirogane]

i think maybe singlets shouldn't be telling people not to hc characters as systems “because it's harmful”. i just think maybe you guys should shut up.

#the rainbow twinks #rainbow ramblings #thanatos + vio + blue + legend #what is up with the m//h fandom and having singlets say this shit goddamn

[justanothersyscourse]

what do you think about the claim that endogenic systems face ableism from anti endos because plurality is a neurodiverse experience and therefore all endogenic systems are neurodivergent/capable of being the targets of ableism?

#'nuff said #like #if you really want to get into reasons #i think it's kind of obvious which side has the shittier end of the stick #and who has a right to be talking about ablism in regards to systemhood #there IS a hierarchy #singlets #them #us #(using those tags to keep out of other tags) #learn your place in it #syscourse #anti endo #shit endos say

[solitarydoomsday]

just a tip for any endo advocates, uh. maybe DON’T be a prick to random teenagers that were not taught proper critical thinking skills? and maybe don’t do it over fucking endo system discourse??????

like, yeah, i fucking get it. it gets pretty fucking infuritating after a while, listening to person after person recite the same shit over and over and pushing your words away and shit, but some of us! maybe!! got told by fellow traumagenic systems!! that endos were just kinda monsters who COMPLETELY DISREGAURD OUR TRAUMA!!!

i’m SO fucking sorry that some fucking teenager made you pissed because they’re a system against endos and i’m SO sorry it made you think that they’re such a goddamn bigot over it, but how about this? GROW UP AND ACTUALLY BE A DECENT PERSON ABOUT EDUCATING THIS SHIT IF YOU WANT YOUR FUCKING POINT ACROSS.

because, get this, people MAYBE aren’t gonna listen to you if you call them an abelist, fucked in the brain, bigot RIGHT off the bat, without having any prior fucking knowlegde on this person and saying they’re an asshole IMMEDIETLY without considering the other side’s argument and considering WHY they may be mad in the first place? especially when people on the other side of the argument (WHO ARE SYSTEMS) have expressed why they don’t like endos LOUD AND FUCKING CLEAR?? just a fucking thought.

i know i haven’t even gotten this much shit about it, but if others are saying this shit gets pretty bad, i’m just gonna delete the stupid autism creature post and remake it. i never wanted this shit to flare up on my blog like this over a stupid dni banner, i just really didn’t want someone calling the autism creatures in my post a fucking terf, and honestly im going to delete anything i said about stance against endos to the best of my ability. i don’t know what my stance is anymore and frankly i don’t wanna even get into it. i just wanna exist with my stupid homestuck blog in peace.

and to any of my followers: from this point foward, NO ONE ASK ME ABOUT ENDOS *OR* MY STANCE ON THEM. I WILL NOT EXPLAIN. DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH.  this will be going in my pinned post.

#syscourse #actually #the first person i got into this shit with fucking vaugeposted about me lmao #saying how 'syscourse is so stupid' #when they literally wouldnt even say TO MY FACE that i was wrong #and yet went on a rant about how its abelist if im anti-endo if i was a singlet #in my notes #to somebody else. #tldr endo advocates like this can suck my dick

[piplupod]

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#singlets stop being weird abt moon knight challenge #''marc created steven'' no. shut up. thats not how that works #''marc is the original'' again. shut up. not how it works. #''shipping marc and steven together is selfcest and its so gross'' i am going to shove you into a tar pit!!! - #-it might be a little weird to ship the two of them bc their dynamic is... not really shippable imo but it is NOT selfcest holy shit #also stop tagging moon knight posts with DID lmao ur clogging up that tag w fandom stuff #if its not actually ABOUT DID then don't tag it w that #okay im done now sorry dbfhdkl just fucking tired of ppl being shitty abt osddid #had sister's bf say something awful to me abt moon knight a few hours ago and im just. reeling a bit lol