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hausofneptune · 4 months

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aspects/placements i love (and hate!) in my chart pt. 1

[astro notes no. 003]

hey y’all! i felt like going through some of my personal aspects/placements and describing the “positive” and “negative” ways they’ve manifested in my life, so here we are. this ended up being longer than i thought it would, so i'll end up doing a part two since i really enjoyed making this!

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venus conj. neptune in aquarius (1°03’) in the 1H

this is one of my favorite placements. i feel like this + my pisces sun can make me appear to others as “ethereal” at times, but if i’m keeping it a buck, it also makes me extremely evasive. i have a good amount of aquarius influence in my chart as well, so all of this combined definitely makes me feel like i have to put in effort to not come off as too impersonal, especially towards my loved ones.

having neptune in my 1H also makes me feel like people perceive me to be someone that i’m not. like even my close friends and family, i don’t feel like anyone actually understands who i am, and i don’t think i’ve ever had a relationship (platonic, romantic, or familial) where i felt like i was seen for who i actually am, or where i was able to connect to somebody on a deeper, spiritual level. i can also over-romanticize people and situations at times, but i’ve grown out of this habit… for the most part.

i’ve always been an extremely creative/artistic person. i’ve been drawing, painting, writing, and singing since i was a kid, and i even sell my artwork now as an adult. i’m extremely imaginative, but i do have to be careful to not get too in my head and forget to participate in reality, if that makes sense. i’ve also had issues with dissociation and memory loss throughout my life. i feel like my lived experience has more to do with that, but i can see how the Neptunian influence in my chart could play a role in it as well.

venus opposite north node in the 7H (1°40’)

there are some placements that convince me that the universe was tryna be funny when it made my birth chart. this is one of them. i have so many things in my chart that can make it challenging at times to form meaningful, trustful relationships with other people, and it’s interesting to me the fact that my spiritual growth is something that’s supposed to be found… through my relationships with other people. i try not to victimize myself too much and look at things from an objective lens, but i would be lying if i said it didn’t feel like people find it convenient to have me in their lives only when i allow them to view me in a way that makes them feel the most comfortable.

like i mentioned, i can be very avoidant, it’s something i’m working on. but i know that it’s possible for me to have fulfilling connections with other people, and obviously with this placement it’s something i need to work through my aversion to, seeing as my self-development and spiritual growth is something that’s extremely important to me and deep down i do want to want to experience having meaningful, healthy relationships.

sun sextile lilith (within 3.0°) in the 11H / chiron in the 11H

let me tell you, most of the people i’ve been friends with over the years, regardless of gender, hypersexualize the fuck out of me. especially the men i’ve been friends with, majority of them had feelings for me that i never reciprocated. i was actually friends with a girl in high school who’s moon fell in my 8H, and in hindsight she had a very unhinged, borderline obsession with me. she would speak to me, and get mad at me, as if we were in a relationship together, and did not understand any type of boundaries that you’re supposed to have with someone you’re friends with. i don’t hold it against her now as an adult, but we definitely don’t speak to each other anymore.

i’ve also encountered issues in regards to the relationships i've with women, mainly when i was younger though, the women i’m acquainted with now i have healthy, normal friendships with (thank god). but i’ve had friendships with girls where they secretly didn’t like me, they were secretly attracted to me, or both. and i don't mean this in a weird, misogynistic, "pick me i'm different!" type of way at all, this is just a pattern i picked up on with some of the women i've met throughout my life.

in regards to having chiron in my 11H, my sore spot is most definitely my friendships. on top of feeling misunderstood and objectified in the friendships i’ve had, i’ve also experienced trauma at the hands of people i thought were my friends. and i always do my best to exercise being mindful and self-aware, and i’m definitely not on some “i’ve always been the perfect friend and people hurt me regardless, boo-hoo, woe-is-me” type shit, because i’ve definitely hurt people in my lifetime. but in terms of how these placements have manifested, i’ve always encountered difficulty in connecting to others, and i’m just now getting to a point where i feel comfortable enough to even attempt to try making new friends again.

and this is what i mean when i say: astrology is a tool that you can use for shit that is more important than your appearance and future partner! it wasn’t until my 12H profection year when i started studying traditional astrology and learned how to read charts, that i actually began to understand myself on a deeper level and gained the confidence to end friendships that no longer served me and made new ones that actually do.

chiron in my 11H also makes me feel inclined to take on a “therapist” role in my friendships, something that can be good or bad depending on whether the boundaries are there or not. i tend to attract people who like to trauma dump on me (that’s my moon in the 8H influence too), and i have to actively put boundaries in place and make sure people around me understand that i have to be in the right mindset to hold space for them. there aren’t a lot of pisces sun stereotypes that i can relate to, but being an emotional sponge is definitely one that i can. unfortunately.

moon and ceres in virgo in the 8H

LMAOOO this one might be a little heavy. i apologize in advance. feel free to skip this one if you don’t want to hear about parental/maternal loss or my mommy issues <3

my relationship with my mom is without a doubt where a lot of my emotional avoidance comes from. that plus my moon being in the 8H makes me very guarded when it comes to emotional vulnerability, even with the people i’m closest to. without telling a bunch of strangers on the internet too much of my business, here are the sparknotes:

my home life growing up (and to this day lowkey) never felt stable

it never felt like i could feel my emotions without them “consuming” me, this was mainly an issue in my youth, i was around 12-years-old when i started going to therapy and taking antidepressants

my mom battled a chronic disease her entire life and passed away when i was a teenager

i’ve always craved to have deep, spiritual connections with people, and ever since i was a kid i’ve been extremely intuitive and had the ability to read a room and everyone in it without anyone having to speak, but i typically attract people who are either emotionally unavailable, or emotionally unstable in some way, probably because i come off as “closed off” on the surface.

in terms of my relationship with my mom, i love her but i could never be vulnerable with her about a damn thing, like i never really felt “heard” by her. she was a taurus sun, scorpio moon, with an aries stellium, as soon as she had her mind made up about something it didn’t really matter how i felt (pluto also falls in my 10H, and i definitely viewed her as an “authority figure” more than a mother at times). y’all remember this scene from lady bird where her mom tells her she wants her to “be the best version of herself she can be” and she asks “what if this is the best version?” - it was very much so that.

and i don’t want to give the impression that my mom didn’t love me because she definitely did. i think it was just a matter of what a lot of us eventually come to understand about our parents; that they’re products of the environments and the people they were raised by. and in my mom’s case, she did her best with the cards she was dealt and showed up the best way she could. it doesn’t make my feelings any less important, but it helps to maintain the balance between recognizing her humanity, and also validating my own frustration and trauma regarding our relationship.

venus conjunct ascendant in aquarius (2°40’)

i didn't wanna end this post on a depressing ass note so i'm adding this last aspect lmfao. honestly i struggle with some of the venusian energy in my chart because i honestly never really felt "pretty" growing up. it might be neptune in my 1H that effects my self image, because it wasn't until my 20s that i actually started to genuinely recognize my beauty. i feel like growing up i only viewed my beauty through the lens of the "male gaze" (it didn't help that i felt objectified from the boys around me), or through the lens of euro-centric/white beauty standards, and in adulthood i'm finally approaching the way that i view myself from my perspective.

i do notice that i attract people very easily, both in a friendly and romantic way. i know this aspect has to do a lot with love and romance, but honestly, i'm not too concerned about being in a relationship at this point in my life (with the way the economy is set up i think we all got bigger fish to fry rn but that's neither here nor there-), but like i mentioned i've always been an artist at heart and the art that i create plays a really big role in my identity. i've always found it easier to express myself through my paintings or my writing rather than my words.

aesthetics and comfortability are pretty big for me too, more so now in my 20s. this aspect has a lot to do with sociability and being inclined to uplift and help others, and i can relate to the latter but when it comes to other aspects in my chart i do struggle with being "outgoing" and coming across friendly, but we'll get to that in part two.

as always, if y'all have any of the aspects/placements mentioned in this post let me know how they manifest in your life and personality, and if you have any insight or questions in general feel free to reach out!

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seafoamreadings · 6 months

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venus on south node (opposite north node)

twin flame proclivities flare up. i kind of hate the toxic aura around the pop concept of twin flames these days but with an aspect like this it's hard not to use the term. so just try to avoid that kind of toxicity in your situation. you don't have to carry the past with you into the future. you choose your future karmas in this moment.

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astroaid · 12 days

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Astro Observations 2

Accuracy dependent on ENTIRE natal chart. Take this as entertainment. Theories not facts.

🪻 The planets you have in your first house can drastically change other people’s perception of your beauty. This can change your direction & outlook on life.

- Bella Hadid has Venus & Moon in her first house. These planets create a soft & feminine energy. She has a huge female following. She makes people comfortable and at ease. She appears as the definition of a girl’s girl. To other women, she is not someone to be intimated by. Instead, she is someone to look up to like a big sister.

- Megan Fox has Mars conjunct ASC. This kind of beauty isn’t soft, girl-next-door. It’s bold, hot & striking. Fox’s appearance can bring out insecurity & jealously. And if you remember early on in her career, she received a lot of unnecessary bullying. She was judged harshly by women and objectified by men. This can lead to an isolating experience which can make one take on the negative traits of Mars (being competitive, selfish, arrogant and aggressive). However, I am not claiming she is. I do not know her but I do remember the hate she got in the early 2010s.

- Another example would be Sidney Sweeney who is believed to have Mars conjunct ASC. Just recently an older female producer insulted Sweeny for “not being pretty” and claiming she “can’t act”. However, Sweeney’s ascendant sign is not confirmed by a good source. So this hate may be due to other placements or transits.

Having malefic planets in the first house can be terrible for this reason. You could not say a word to a person but your appearance can trigger a nasty reaction from them.

🌻 Ketu in 1st/Rahu in 7th people can marry a foreigner or marry on foreign land. These people may encounter cheaters in their relationships. When single they tend to become very frustrated. Almost angry. They may be obsessed with ex partners, friends or business partners. It is likely these people have to go to court several times through their lives. Generally, I see they often “win” in court.

🌺 Virgo Moons can hate expressing emotion. They don’t want others to know how they feel. Being vulnerable is extremely uncomfortable for them. Depending on the entire chart, they may not be good at hiding their emotions.

🍀 Gemini energy is prone to mimic. This is very sub conscious.

Ex: Gemini Risings may quickly begin to mimic slang and accents of foreign places they visit.

Ex2.: I know someone with a gemini stellium in their 7th. They are an extreme version of this. They began to copy the fashion style, humour and hairstyle. They didn’t even realize they were doing it until they were called out.

🌸 Jupiter in 10th without affliction can indicate the father being a mentor in your career. You may go into the same career as him. Or pick a career you know will make your father proud. These people often reach very high status in their career.

🪻 Mercury opposite mercury is the worst aspect to have in synastry imo. When the communication style is so different, these people can unintentionally be hurting the other with their words. Even when they agree and share similar values, they can still struggle to see eye to eye. One person can become so frustrated with the other that they give up on trying to communicate with the other. This can result in ghosting or getting ghosted.

🌺 Aries energy is so physical. It’s such a generic example but a lot of aries sun I see are constantly play fighting. The men even share the same habit of starting to shadow box for no reason lol. Whenever I notice this behaviour in someone, I always guess they have prominent aries placements and so far always correct.

🍀 If a guy is athletic, not necessarily an athlete, and loves dying their hair + trying new hairstyles. He might be a sag rising. I’ve made this assumption twice and once I got their birth time, I was proven right. ofc this won’t always be true though. Other planets & aspects that go into play for appearance. Like planets in the first, where the first house ruler is, etc.

- This might work for women as well but imo the sag rising women I’ve encountered are not into physical recreational activities. However, they had a phase for a few years where they constantly tried out new hair colours.

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malachiteclouds · 7 months

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🌟natal astrology observations part 2 🌟

thank you guys for being patient! if y'all wanna follow me on insta @eudaimonia.o i don't post astro stuff but i'd love to make some friends :)

jupiter conjunct mars people can have extremely inflated egos. they are very argumentative and can't stand being wrong

moon opposite pluto have such intense feelings but they feel so far removed from them. they have a really difficult time processing their own emotions. they can repress feelings, then revisit the topic and not even realize they felt so strongly about it

1H pluto/conjunct asc love masks. they're spectacular at hiding and going unseen. they are masters at stealth and reservation which is why they intrigue people because they have complete control over who gets to see what and how much

aries rising/moon x being called "hot headed" all the time. they can physically get red in the face a lot/while mad or have really bad headaches/migraines

pisces placements have a specific look and are easy to spot. it's in their teeth , i can't explain it

7H saturn most loyal placement ever. they are devoted to understanding you and themselves through you. they can see their partners blind spots really well and they tend to be very genuine in their attempts to better themselves as an individual and the relationship as a whole. when they decide to commit, they will stick by your side through whatever it is you're going through

mercury chiron aspects, you guys NEED to write and/or speak. i know you feel its your weakness but really it is your superpower

women with lilith conjunct/opposite/square venus can have a habit of competing with other women. they can also put blame on women and think women are constantly jealous of them. they can have an itch for male validation that they really need to do some inner work to dismantle, as a lot of it comes from a past where THEY felt/feel insecure in their femininity or they felt/feel othered by women

moon north node aspects can be known for their mom or for being a mom. disharmonious aspects(squares/oppositions) can be notorious or infamous for being a "bad mom". can be extremely ridiculed for parenting style

12H stelliums live in quiet. in basements. in small apartments with lots of books and messy papers everywhere. they live in silence. they live in solitude. they live in stillness. they live in seclusion. they live in isolation. they were put on this earth in this lifetime for deep introspection and exploration of singularity.

5H moons are amazing in early childhood education. talk about thinking on your feet. it's basically like "hmm it would be fun to dip some yarn in some paint and drag it on the paper... oh and these 3 year olds happen to be here"

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allmyloveandyours · 1 year

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Astrology Observations #2!!!

Hi I'm back with more assumptions and thoughts (i got a lot of them). These are all opinions! Take what resonates! Also I'm not a professional, tell me if I got something wrong :D

Venus in Gemini/Air signs are not flaky (Idk I see a lot of people say this). They're surprisingly loyal, although they may be loyal to people who embody air style qualities rather than them exuding it themselves when it comes to love.

Jupiter opposite Ascendant in your chart can point to a very eccentric person, but they also may have trouble seeing how they actually are, and can have a negative self view, especially with "harsh" (Neptune, Pluto, maybe Mars) planets in 12th house.

Saturn in 11th house can point to achieving your goals later in life/after your Saturn return. With heavy air in the chart, you could've been a wild child.

Cancer Mars natives remind me a lot of car salesmen. They kinda can convince you to buy anything they want, especially if Lilith is in 2nd or 10th house. They can convince you to do anything.

Your close friends may have similar Lilith/your Lilith's get along. Everyone I've been extremely close to also have an Aries Lilith, or something that Lilith would get along with it. Kinda just a fun observation but still. Has anyone else noticed this?

Wherever Neptune is in your chart can tell you where people project onto you, or where you're forgotten the most. For example, Neptune in 4th may have people putting you into positions of Cancer like roles (caring, and supportive), or thinking you have a more than fine family life when you don't, as that area is where you essentially become a mirror.

South Node in Synastry is the coolest thing ever tbh. That's something you immediately feel in your soul. Especially South Node conjunct Mercury. That's your sibling right there. Blood or not.

Celebrities you adore may have the same moon sign/element you.

Singers with Venus in Taurus or Libra have the prettiest voices. Their lyrics either very poetic and powerful of they primary sound expensive or talk a sing a lot about luxuries.

Venus conjunction Midheaven will always be remembered as pretty. ALWAYS. Life and death.

Any planets in 8th house could show what people obsess about over you. For example, Pluto in 8th could have people obsess over your transformations, or try their best to expose you to more taboo things. Whatever the planet rules over normally, it can add a bit of a forceful or darker theme to it. It isn't always intense but it's always interesting when you notice it.

I've been thinking of Placidus vs Whole Sign, since my astrologers use both those, and one of them said that Placidus is more mental and Whole Sign is the world around you, and I have a lil bit of a theory:

Placidus - mental, friends, fans/what people see in you

Whole Sign - first impression, vibes you give off, the house system you look at for results.

They're both accurate, but Whole sign has always been the most accurate when it comes to external results like solar returns and such, and Placidus is kinda how people treat me if that makes sense?

Just a theory I don't know too too much about the difference of their (someone explain maybe plz I'm begging use small words)

Virgo in Lilith could face people nitpicking them for the littlest of things. The house can tell who's doing it/what it's about. Like In 9th people could try to pick at how you study/be classmates, elements of your spiritually/people of the same faith, and attempt to wear you down.

Aspects to your natal Juno can show your "turn ons" and icks when it comes to finding the one. Juno trine Moon could mean you like someone who's open with emotions and can be vulnerable, but square Moon could mean you're not a fan of sappy or dotting people.

Squares in Synastry are my favorite to look at, especially with longer terms relationships. Anything aspects to the ascendant can tell how they first met (in my experience). My favorite scenario was a married couple who met when the husband crashed a friend of the wife's bday party. Squares in sun, Venus, Mars, and Saturn. The wife later said that he stood out like nobody's business, but she liked that 🥺

Juno in Synastry is also something I like looking at with family members. Having a relatives jump conjunct a personal planet is such a warming thing. Like Juno conjunct Moon can mean they're emotionally invested in your well being, or conjunct Jupiter means they may go out of their way to help further education or world view. It's really sweet.

Mars can show where you come off too strong. Mars in 2nd could show you come off too strong when it comes to making money or showing off personally skills. 12th could be you fighting the urge to come off too strong and giving off a ":|" vibe instead.

Ok that's it correct me on stuff if you feel like it idk I like talking to ppl about this stuff

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latenightbreezeinheaven · 2 years

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Synastry aspects with my unforgettable and beloved ex (Personal Experience) *Part-1* 💝👩🏻‍❤️‍👨🏻

I’ve been feeling quite nostalgic about the memories I had with my first ex in these days. I normally don’t reveal my feelings this because I’m worried that I wouldn’t be able to control myself and things would go worse as I tend to be impulsive when I really want something. However, I checked our synastry chart last night as I couldn’t sleep and I saw some lovey-dovey aspects as well as heartbreak aspects so let’s dive into it!🤿

His sun conjuncts my moon

💗This is a traditional soulmate aspect and I also think he’s my soulmate. We broke up because we were too young and our parents forced us to. Also, it was because he was moving to another city. If it had not been like that, I’m pretty sure that we would still be together to this day. He has also told me that he felt that we’re soulmates. I felt very comfortable with him most of the times and he just got me. He understood my feelings and I also could tell his feelings just by looking at him. Our energies also sometimes were mixed up. If he was sad, I was sad too and we were not even in the same place at those times. It was like magic. He was like the Ying to my Yang and Romeo to my Juliet. Even though we don’t have mercury aspects, our conversations were always going with the flow and there was not a single time when we had nothing to say. We were friends and also lovers.👫🏻

His moon conjuncts my Venus

💗This is also very warm and sweet, especially in Cancer. We both were romantic but needless to say, as I have a Venus in 12th house, I made more romantic gestures for him than he did for me. Whenever we were together, we stared at each other while holding hands and we smiled and giggled. It was like a scene from a typical high school romance movie. I loved to hold his hands so much. I felt very safe when I held his hands. I used to hug him from behind and from the front and at those times, I just felt like I was at home even though I was at school where I hated the most. I used to rub his cheeks while holding his hands from the other hand when he cried. I felt appreciated with him and we loved each other’s presence. Lovey-dovey for sure!👀

My moon conjuncts his mars

💗This is known as a “baby making” aspect in synastry from my knowledge. And even though we didn’t have sex and he didn’t even touch my private parts and neither did I, I always felt this electric connection flowing in my body whenever he touched my arms and thighs. My blood boiled suddenly and it was special. I felt like he could be the father of my children lmao😭😂. And I also loved staring at him and brushing off his hair when he slept. He was like a cheerleader for me too. He supported me emotionally and I supported him to take actions to achieve his goals. I was prone to anxiety attacks so I had difficulties in studying but he uplifted me and I also helped him learn by studying with him together. The connection between us felt so traditional though. Most of the time, I loved switching gender roles (not in bed). For instance, I didn’t want to become a housewife who stays at home and takes care of children. But with him, I just wanted to marry him, stay at home, nurture him and our children, cook for them and do typical housewife duties.👰🏻‍♀️

His venus trines my mars

💗That also indicates a sexual attraction but his Venus was in Leo and I am allergic to guys with Venus in Leo. I just don’t get along with them normally because they irritate me. They want someone who they can show off to public and I don’t know his intentions towards me but urgh idk I don’t like Venus Leo men (I love girls though). At this point, I think I played as a masculine role and he was in feminine mood because I kissed him first. Yes you saw it. He wasn’t making any moves so I wasn’t patient anymore and I just kissed him and he was soo surprised because in our country, girls don’t normally kiss first. He told me that it turned him on more but in a romantic way and not sexually.😃

My moon conjuncts his Jupiter

💗We were bubbly together. I laughed with him a lot and our relationship was teemed with giggles and crazy laughs. I enjoyed his company and he enjoyed mine too. I felt expanded intellectually when I was with him and I was willing to do everything together with him such as traveling and trying out adventurous activities. I provided him to open up his feelings but he never fully did.🤷🏻‍♀️

My sun squares his mars

💗We rarely fought during our relationship but there was one fight that I can never forget. At that time, he teased me about a trivial matter and I was so serious about it because I was on a period and I lashed out my anger at him. He didn’t get it and he never retreated and went on teasing me so I didn’t talk to him for 3 days even though he was sitting beside me in the class for all those days. He tried so hard to make me talk to him but I kinda insulted his mom and his exes and then, he fought me back (he was a momma boy, he still is). Our argument was intense and explosive. My mars Aries shot his ass off with non-stop cursing words and he also said that I was selfish and etc. The fight ended with the help of mutual friends but during the argument, it was like two tigers fighting for a piece of beef.🐯

His sun sextiles my Venus

💗I have to admit it. I liked him first and I kind of flirted with him. He flirted me back and we got together. From the first time I saw him, I had this lil crush on him like he was my type even though he didn’t meet my expectations. I adored him the way he was. I just felt so positive about him and he told me he felt it too.

My north node squares his moon

💗I have seen in a post on tumblr (I don’t remember the original author sorry) that those people whose personal planets make square aspect to your north node may drag you down or delay you in some way. In other words, they may be the reason for delays and restrictions to get to your life purpose. His moon squares my north node and I had to process our break up for about a year because of his feelings and mine. I don’t know how to explain this but I felt emotionally stuck with him like I could not escape from my own emotions and I felt that he was the one responsible for it.

My Lilith conjuncts his Venus

💗It’s really interesting to see this pattern going on with me because there are 3 guys that I can never forget in my life and two of them have their Venus conjunct my Lilith. I’ve read countless posts about Lilith contacts and I still don’t clearly get who is more obsessed with who but I’m pretty sure I was the one more obsessed with both of them. I couldn’t let go of them even after a long time. This guy and I broke up 3 years ago and look at me, I’m still here, writing a post about the synastry between him and I😭😂. Plus, I felt that I could show my Lilith side to him without worrying about being judged. So if any of you have experiences with Lilith conjunct venus, please share yours freely because I’m so curious!!😩

His Lilith conjuncts my mercury

💗He was obsessed with the way I talked. He told me to talk more with him about various topics because he felt good hearing my voice. I find this funny because my word usages are not even attractive and my voice is also not hot but he said he loved it. He didn’t like it too when I talked to other people, even to my older cousin brother. Pretty bit of a tiny red flag but I was so in love with him so I was blind at that time.😪

My Chiron opposes his Venus

💗This is also a same pattern because I was always heartbroken by guys who had their Venus in aspect with my chiron (not only opposition). People say that Venus conjunction chiron is a marriage aspect and it’s very healing but I got major traumas from a guy whose Venus conjunct my chiron so hmm umm excuse me!? Back to my ex, his Venus is in opposition with my chiron and it was not healing at all. AT ALL. He traumatized me. His parents traumatized me. His friends traumatized me. Honestly, it’s very complicated to explain but the reason why I got bullied and slut-shamed at school is because of him. But those experiences made me stronger and more mature. It brought me to where I am right now and that’s why I don’t regret it. It hurt me so much though. Like a sword in my heart.😔

His Saturn conjuncts my ascendant

💗So, I don’t have much to say about this aspect but I felt insecure with him at some times. Especially when it came to my daily activities and my appearance. I felt that I wasn’t pretty enough and I felt ashamed to mention what I did in my daily life. But this is not very personal because most guys from my class had their Saturn conjunct my ascendant as Saturn moves not so fast and those guys were at the same age with me. In a way, I felt insecure about my appearance with people who were at the same age with me.

His moon conjuncts my ascendant

💗I’m not very sure about this because I don’t know his birth time and the moon can differ from 1-10 degrees forward or backward depending on the birth time. But his moon is at 15 degrees (without birth time) and my ascendant is at 21 degrees, so it conjuncts as of now. I felt at ease with him as I mentioned earlier but I’m going to talk more about this aspect in my later post because his moon is in my 12th house and I have a lot to say about that. Even creepy and paranormal stuffs.🥶

His chiron conjuncts my descendant

💗I searched it up on Google and I saw that the chiron person is destined to give the descendant person a lesson in whatever ways and that is absolutely true. He brought lessons into my life and I’m really grateful for those and interestingly, back in those days, most guys in my class also had their chiron conjunct my descendant and they also brought me lessons and lessons and lessons. The whole class didn’t speak to me FYI. And also the whole school. That’s okay now because I realized that being alone doesn’t mean feeling lonely and you can feel lonely even though you’re going out with friends if you’re not in the right circle.

Anyways, I had to write this out because my heart was crying out for him so much and the only thing I can do at this time is writing this and recalling some sweet memories we shared. I have a love-hate relationship with him and currently, I miss him so much and wanna talk to him but I can’t. I wanna g we back with him kinda but as my friend said, there was a reason why I broke up with him and why I blocked him on social media so I shouldn’t go back.

This is the end of this post and remember these are not facts. These are just my personal experiences so take them with a pinch of salt!! Thank you for reading to the end and have a nice day!❤️

•There is gonna be a part-2 for the synastry with this ex and I will be mentioning about house overlays in that post but mainly about moon in 12th house so stay tuned!✨

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kubrickscube · 1 year

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Least favourite synastry aspects?

I'm gonna answer this one since I decided to be lazy today.

A bit of a warning though: Just because I said the downsides of having these placements with others doesn't mean that there will be only one outcome. You have to consider how mature that person is (or everything about them), as well as their other placements natally.

Sun (or any personal planets) conjunct North Node: Not the worst (believe me) but it can be annoying sometimes. Some say it is a soulmate synastry placement. I say it's more of a "calm down" personified.

When my husband and I had our synastry chart read by another astrologer, said astrologer mentioned our Sun conjunct NN placement, he then explained it to my husband. After that, the fucker smugly looked at me and jokingly said "You love me so much you searched for me in this lifetime." No shit, of course, I do.

Venus-Pluto: I love seeing this on natal charts, not so much on synastry charts. I should listen to others because I'm becoming obsessive? Nah, I'll give my left toe for this one even though I am romanticizing every interaction that we have.

Sun-Sun negative aspects: Amazing, but it will hurt.

Sun conjunct Moon: Again, it is amazing ONLY when the Sun person is of a pure heart. You don't know how strong the hold is of the Sun person to the Moon person.

Mars in 4th House: Mars person is possessive in the worst aspect of life possible. It is destructive if the Mars person doesn't have their life together. I wouldn't wish this on my enemy.

Mercury-Mercury negative aspects: I have this with my sisters (2 of them have their suns both in a fixed sign but are really a Capricorn in disguise and one who is also a Cardinal dominant) and it is not a good time. We get along from time to time, but arguing is the norm for us.

gist of Mercury square Mercury.

Sun conjunct Venus: Want to bring out the worst in you? Try this synastry placement. Don't get me wrong, this is a beautiful aspect to have, it's just that it will bring out one's insecurities in the long run with this placement. One might even feel as if they are a trophy wife/husband.

Chiron any: LOL.

Moon opposite Mars: Why is this aspect even a thing in the first place?

Neptune any that has negative aspects: You're not Matt Murdock, and even he knows when there's danger. I can only do 10 because, at the end of the day, it's all about how you see each and every aspect and placement listed here. Whether you agree with me or not, it's up to you. Thanks for the ask!

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catmarlowastrology · 8 months

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🌙 Analysing Lana del Rey's Moon in Leo

Lana's configuration embodies a constant dance between her adventurous spirit, personal values, relationships, and a quest for knowledge.

Lana's emotional landscape, depicted by her Moon in Leo in the 9th house, revolves around a hunger for grand experiences linked to travel, higher learning, or philosophy. This placement speaks to a dramatic and passionate approach to understanding life's bigger questions.

That being said, her Moon's opposition to a retrograde Jupiter in Aquarius in the 3rd house hints at tensions between this grand vision and day-to-day communication or learning; there are moments where she feels her expansive feelings are being limited or misunderstood.

Squares to Venus in Taurus in the 6th house, the Taurus Descendant, Scorpio Ascendant, and Taurus North Node emphasize challenges in balancing her desire for grand experiences with routine matters, partnerships, and her destined path in relationships. These aspects can lead Lana to occasionally feel confined or misunderstood, especially in close relationships and everyday activities.

But there's a hint of unpredictability and potential financial opportunities, as her Moon trines a retrograde Uranus in Sagittarius in the 2nd house, suggesting unique ways of earning or valuing resources.

The sextile to Chiron in Gemini in the 7th shows that through partnerships, Lana has opportunities for deep healing, especially when it comes to merging her larger-than-life emotions with effective communication.

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moonsquaremars · 9 months

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what in the actual fuck.

i thought i had met the one. no, for real this time. i say that every time i meet a guy. i swear.

my chart

his

he was chubby, just my type, and we did the same drugs. grew up in the same part of town. he had a house and a job. bingo.

i ask if he knows his moon sign, he responds that he doesn’t know what it’s currently in. i had to ask him to repeat himself because of how disbelief i was in. i coulda melted there on the floor.

later he shows me his printed out natal chart and i examine it on his bed.

unfortunately i do our synastry chart and he only had one key aspect. most of my exes usually have more than one. first red flag, i ignore.

keep telling myself maybe he only has one because he’s the one key for me. even though the key aspect was a bad one.

he’s a cancer sun like me. my lilith is also in cancer and supposedly that means you attract the darker aspects of that sign. that would line up. his moon is in gemini, mine is in virgo. kinda at odds there. he constantly wanted to argue. like to the point where it didn’t make sense. like pulling arguments out of thin air and kept running out of ideas.

all his personal planets are in cancer. mine are in gemini. his moon is in libra 7th house, my uranus is in 7th house. i have a tattoo of uranus glyph on my ring finger because it’s my favorite planet for what it represents in astrology. supposedly moon in 7th makes needy for like constant social interaction and having people around. also adds up. he has a lot of friends, and he’d use that to hurt me.

he had pluto in 11th house. i have mars, mercury, and venus there. i really feel like he livened me up. helped me see a light and grow comfortable in my skin and environment. pluto is power and i definitely felt empowered.

my sun is in 12th house, his was in 8th. compatible houses. we talked about spirits and the occult. he told me he had seen a demon one time. it made me fall for him harder. i have a vacant 8th house so it really piqued my interest. i thought it was cute, sexy. an 8th house sun.

he had outer planets in the 12th house, and a bunch in his 1st and 2nd. i have a vacant 1st house. not my favorite house to be honest. could explain why he’s such a dick and ok with hurting others. i feel like first house is a self centered house.

2nd house, i have my moon there. another placement that makes sense. i thought i could make a home with him. i loved his home. i wanted to learn everything about him and spend years with him. i looked at him and saw a husband.

but it got so sour so fast. he wouldn’t let up. it makes me think he was sabotaging it, us. for reasons unknown. maybe he’s just a bpd narcissist and there’s no sense to make. maybe it’s cuz his ex died and his mother is also deceased. i have no clue. maybe it’s just because he’s a big ol bottom.

but i really thought he was the one. i hate that so much of his chart made sense, but i’ve felt like this before about someone. it really hurts having to constantly let go.

we also had north node and chiron conjunct. i thought that was interesting because not a lot of people have that placement ? or maybe they do ? but his were located in gemini in the 7th house. mine are located in libra in the 3rd house. isn’t that so ironic? it’s like it’s mirrored.

he was also born in 1984 which was so sexy to me because george orwell. but he is kinda small minded and i feel diminished my shine in some ways. im just so upset. this doesn’t make any sense to me.

if you’ve read this and have any observations or insight, i’d love to hear it.

#moon in 7th #7th house #synastry #12th house #8th house #2nd house #1st house #astrology blog #astrology #moon in gemini #moon in virgo #sun in cancer #lilith #11th house stellium #11th house #chiron #north node #conjunction #uranus opposite venus

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ariesphysics · 11 months

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0° Aquarius Risings

The people listed here are have A-AA Rodden rating.

The source, as always, my beloved Astrodatabank.

Press 'Keep Reading' to view. It has 30 people so I just kept it this way.

ALOJZY ADAMCZYK, Polish resistance fighter

North Node in 1st house (Pisces)

Ascendant square Saturn, 1°

Ascendant trine Chiron, 3°

CONRAD AIKEN, American writer and poet

Ascendant sextile Moon, 2°

Ascendant opposite Mars, 1°

Ascendant quincunx Lilith, 0°

ALEJANDRA BAIGORRIA, Peruvian businesswoman, TV personality, and racing driver

Ascendant opposite Venus, 1°

IRELAND BALDWIN, American fashion model

Ascendant square Sun, 0°

Ascendant sextile Mars, 2º

Ascendant conjunct Uranus (12H), 3°

Ascendant sextile Pluto, 1°

MARIO BAVA, Italian filmmaker, "Master of Italian Horror"

Uranus in 1st house

Jupiter in 1st house

North Node in 1st house (Pisces)

Ascendant opposite Neptune, 2°

Ascendant square Lilith, 3°

BÉRÉNIC BEJO, French-Argentine actress

Ascendant sextile Moon, 2°

Ascendant square Uranus, 3°

Ascendant square Chiron, 2°

Ascendant square Lilith, 2°

JAIMARIE BJORGE, American actress and stuntwoman

Moon in 1st house

JUDY BLUMBERG, American ice skater

Ascendant sextile Saturn, 3°

Ascendant square Neptune, 2°

Ascendant sextile North Node, 2°

Ascendant conjunct Lilith, 1°

BROOKS BOLLINGER, American football quarterback

Ascendant sextile Mercury, 3°

BORIS III of Bulgaria, Tsar of Bulgaria 1918-1943

Sun conjunct Mercury in 1st house

Venus in 1st house (Pisces)

Ascendant sextile Moon, 3°

ELMER BORLONGAN, Filipino contemporary figurative expressionism painter

Ascendant sextile Moon, 1°

Ascendant conjunct Venus, 0°

Ascendant opposite Jupiter, 1°

Ascendant sextile Lilith, 1°

BRUNOZOR, Brazilian social media personality

Ascendant conjunct Uranus, 3°

Ascendant trine Mars, 1°

Ascendant sextile Saturn, 1°

Ascendant trine North Node, 3°

Ascendant square Chiron, 0°

JÉRÔME HENRI CARREIN, second-to-last convicted criminal to be executed by guillotine in France

Ascendant opposite Venus, 0°

Ascendant sextile Mars, 0°

Ascendant trine Uranus, 2°

Ascendant opposite Pluto, 3°

Ascendant opposite Chiron, 1°

LORD JAMES CLYDE, Scottish High Court Judge

Ascendant opposite Mars, 1°

Ascendant sextile Uranus, 1°

Ascendant sextile Chiron, 1°

CAMERON CROWE, American filmmaker

Ascendant opposite Mercury, 3°

Ascendant square Neptune, 0°

JOSETTE DAYDÉ, French jazz/swing swinger, chansonnière and actress

Venus in 1st house

Uranus in 1st house (Pisces)

JEAN DEMANNEZ, Belgian politician

Mercury in 1st house

Venus in 1st house

Sun in 1st house

Mars in 1st house (Pisces)

Ascendant square North Node, 1°

KIRK DOUGLAS, American actor and filmmaker

Uranus in 1st house

Ascendant opposite Saturn, 1°

Ascendant opposite Lilith, 3°

HENRY EYRING, Mexican theoretical chemist

Venus in 1st house

Sun in 1st house (Pisces)

Ascendant sextile North Node, 3°

MARGAUX FARRELL, American-born Olympic swimmer

North Node in 1st house

Ascendant trine Moon, 1°

Ascendant opposite Jupiter, 1°

Ascendant sextile Lilith, 3°

GABRIELE FERZETTI, Italian actor

Venus in 1st house (Pisces)

VÁCLAV HAVEL, Last president of Czechoslovakia

Saturn in 1st house (Pisces)

Ascendant trine Mercury, 3°

Ascendant opposite Pluto, 2°

Ascendant square Lilith, 0°

CHRISTOF INNERHOFER, Italian alpine ski racer

Venus in 1st house

Mars in 1st house

Ascendant square Pluto, 3°

OVI KOBIR, American politician and former reality TV contestant

Ascendant sextile Mercury, 1°

Ascendant sextile Saturn, 0°

Ascendant conjunct Uranus, 0°

Ascendant sextile Pluto, 2°

RUSH LIMBAUGH, American conversative political commentator

Venus in 1st house

Mars in 1st house

Jupiter in 1st house (Pisces)

Ascendant trine Saturn, 1°

FLORENT MANAUDOU, French competitive swimmer

Ascendant conjunct North Node, 1°

Ascendant sextile Mercury, 1°

MICHAL MILOWICZ, Polish singer and actor

North Node in 1st house (Pisces)

Ascendant sextile Neptune, 2°

PAT NIXON, American First Lady

Ascendant conjunct Uranus, 2°

Moon conjunct Venus in 1st house

STÉPHANE PLAZA, French television personality

North Node in 1st house (Pisces)

Ascendant sextile Neptune, 2°

AMY POEHLER, American comedian

Mars conjunct North Node in 1st house

Ascendant trine Venus, 2°

Ascendant sextile Jupiter, 0°

Ascendant sextile Neptune, 0°

Ascendant trine Pluto, 1°

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littledigest · 2 years

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Astro Observations - Chiron in the Birth Chart (personal experience)

How I'm Experiencing my Chiron Placements and Aspects

Chiron conjunct North Node

Chiron in Libra

Chiron in 2nd House

Sun sesquiquadrate Chiron

Moon trine Chiron

Venus opposite Chiron

Mars sesquiquadrate Chiron

Jupiter square Chiron

Midheaven biquintile Chiron

Other mentions:

Sun square Pluto

Mars square Pluto

Sun, Moon, Mercury in Aquarius

Sun in 7th House

Sun conjunct DC

We're all different so your experience might be different from mine!

Chiron conjunct North Node. NOTE: If you have this, people around your age will have this aspect too in the same sign. This means the house, as well as your overall chart, will be important to understand your Chiron.

In general:

You and people around your age will value being authentic and being able to understand what the public wants, whether or not you are actually successful at being these things. There is an emphasis on being nurturing, being well-rounded and knowledgable, and rising above your station (especially in a justified, honest, and civilized way). Hardships pave the way to rewards. Willingness to know and experience more. Understanding and reconciling yourself as you are now (or were before) and yourself in your best/highest form. Hiccups in life occur when you start acting like someone you are not.

For me personally:

Chiron conjunct North Node feels like I have to expose my vulnerabilities in order to grow or move on/evolve in life. There's something about this aspect that feels humiliating and pitiful.

I also have Sun and Mars square Pluto. SO, I have a tendency to have a tight grip on myself, especially when it comes to my emotions and behaviors. I bottle everything up and hide what I feel is a lot of myself. Flaws, insecurities, any part of me that I think is unpleasant or embarrassing is constantly pushed inwards. It's a high-maintenance operation.

As an Aquarius Sun (7th/conjunct DC), Moon (6th), and Mercury (6th), I tend to logic the shit out of all my emotions and thoughts (Aqua/6th), and sometimes, it's like I'm policing myself (square Pluto) on what and how to feel based on how I think other people are experiencing those same emotions (7th).

So these other parts of my chart only make the work for Chiron-North Node even harder to work through. The silver lining is that Chiron overcomes hardships with grace and comes out even better. It's like a more graceful Saturn.

Since I haven't been working to overcome any challenges, my life currently feels so stale and has been that way for years now. It really feels like I'm stuck like Groundhog Day.

More specifically:

I have Chiron in Libra in the 2nd House. Chiron in Libra is what people around my age also have. So, we are probably experiencing our Chiron with regards to relationships, people, balancing two personas/worlds, balancing acts, etc. (any Libra themes)

Chiron in the 2nd House is more specific to me as an individual. This is a placement about issues with self-esteem and self-worth. 2nd House has to do with value and worth. A lot of the time we associate it with money and income, but its meaning reaches beyond that and includes everything and anything related to worth.

Now, if we mix the two together, we get someone feeling low self-worth, especially in the area of relationships. I did not know this until recently, but I place a lot of emphasis and concern on relationships. This does not mean that I LOVE being around people and networking or that I put so much love and effort into my existing relationships. What I mean is that because I don't like being around people too much (100% introvert) and I'm awkward at networking and because I'm so bad at maintaining all my relationships, my mind is constantly on the idea that I'm not doing enough. I'm not doing enough to keep my really great friends (cause honestly, I'm doing the bare minimum). I'm not doing enough to engage with my family. I'm not interested in getting a bf right now. I'm not building more relationships, something that everybody else seems to be doing. And why? Because of my own perception of myself. I often don't feel worthy enough to do a lot of normal ass things. I think, who am I to try and make relationships happen when I'm so boring and detached and I need so much time to myself and [insert all insecurities and shortcomings]

Everything that I just said is supported by the fact that I have a lot of aspects to Chiron, not just to my NN:

Sun sesquiquadrate Chiron - feeling like it's your duty to single yourself out; focusing on other people's wounds instead of your own; losing your ego

Moon trine Chiron - recognizing your wounds but accepting and mothering them; it's okay to be who you are

Venus opposite Chiron [lots of Venusian themes >> Venus/Libra/2nd] - seeking perfection in other people but never getting it; thinking you have to be perfect in order to receive affection or attention

Mars sesquiquadrate Chiron - feeling awkwardness with being who you are; competing with self to be better because you know there's room for improvement

Jupiter square Chiron - life philosophy is based on suffering; feeling like suffering is one of the biggest foundations of life

Midheaven biquintile Chiron - wounds can positively affect career or path and other people; problems can be turned into benefits; want to help others and be a good mentor or role model for them

I think looking at planets that touch both my Chiron and NN would be helpful in knowing how to overcome Chironic themes in my life. These are the only major planets and angles that touch both my Chiron and NN:

Moon: My Moon is trine Chiron and NN. Pain is still there but there is an ease with accepting myself as a whole. Connecting with the more emotionally stable and nurturing figures in my life might help me to see that I am fine, you are fine, we are all fine. Not being too hard on myself. Nurturing myself.

Mars: My Mars is sesquiquadrate Chiron and NN. Although a bit uncomfortable, using that drive to compete with myself will only make me stronger and build assertiveness and grit.

Midheaven: My Midheaven is biquintile Chiron & inconjunct NN. Chironic themes will keep popping up in my life. But hurdles can be turned into benefits when I relate to and help others rather than for material, status, or monetary gains. Being humble, helpful, and in tune with myself is the way.

I hope this helps whoever is also feeling the same way I am.

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seafoamreadings · 2 years

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venus on south node (opposite north node)

exes come back with this conjunction more, in my experience, than they do with the more famous retrograde examples. so if you experience something like this or any situation that tempts you to call someone your twin flame or even your soul mate, consider whether such involvement moves you toward what you want in life or away from it. are you happy or are you just grasping for neurochemistry ?

#venus on south node #venus conjunct south node #venus opposite north node #venus #north node #south node #lunar nodes #nodal axis #scorpio #taurus #astrology #transits

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alchemylight · 8 months

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Navigating the Celestial Crossroads: Aries Full Moon's Dance with Oppositions and Squares

The cosmos invites us to a celestial dance as the Aries Full Moon graces the night sky. This lunation is charged with complex energies, including an opposition with Pallas Athena in Libra, a square with Vesta in Cancer, and key conjunctions between Venus and Juno in Leo, together with an opposition aspect between Mars in Libra and Chiron in Aries. Let’s explore these celestial configurations in…

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#aries full moon #astrology #chiron conjunct north node #chiron in aries #full moon #full moon 2023 #lunation 2023 #mars #mars conjunct south node #mars in libra #mars opposition chiron #north node in aries #south node in libra #venus #venus conjunct juno in leo #vesta in cancer

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satsangat · 10 months

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There are different interpretation approaches in regards to the Nodal Axis. In my view, and because there is an axis, there is a need to balance the two extremes. It's not true that one needs to let go of all issues related to the South Node and only go towards the North Node.

Instead, the South Node asks for consideration of the wrong doings, weakness and misuse of its energy in order to help us focus on the North Node energy.

South Node in Libra will question, 'are you pleasing the other to a point where your needs are never met'? Does the demand for peace, law and order, completely obliterate your rights as an individual, namely the right to be, to occupy a space and have an identity?

As the karmic Nodes pull in different directions, people are called to use the positive Libra traits of validation, intercession, peacemaking and maybe legal procedures in order to balance the opposing energies. Also, the ability to assert one's own needs, and making commitments to create appropriate partnerships, helps people to join the midway between the two extremes, and achieve a mutual and fair benefit in the exchange.

In this article, I analyse all details of the ingress chart, considering the position of the Nodes rulers as well.

#venus in leo #venus retrograde #north node in aries #south node in libra #astrology #mars in virgo #mars opposite saturn

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plutoswrath · 2 years

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???????? how come after all these years I just realized now that I have a very tight square between my moon and uranus????!?????????????????? It explains so much??????? The insanity?????

#moon opposite saturn and moon square Venus and north node isn’t enough #Uranus needs to fuck me over too #disappointed but not surprised #neptune squares my moon in a degree of 10 so it doesn’t count at least that’s what I want to believe #neptune has a chokehold on all the other planets in my chart already leave my moon alone

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esotericfaery · 5 months

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1. We feel driven to set new goals and get organized about our life paths. This is a good day to talk, send important business e-mails or texts, and also to communicate well with loved ones. It's also ideal for buying, selling and trading. Experiences with new people are also common. We may project, or encounter those who do, a toxic form of ambition, though this is not as pervasive as with other aspects. For those who celebrate Christmas it may be more pronounced, as family clashes over who spent more money on who, and who made the best dish, are common in a general sense.

2. Self discipline, patience, stability and strength of character can be ours. We only need to realize that even when others are unfair to us, we can do something about it. It only takes a little bit of effort to smooth things over.

3. Social occasions can be particularly exciting, yet watch out for those who are flighty. Unusual, yet attractive people may catch the eye, yet be aware that they (or you) are quite likely to be unreliable or lose interest. We encounter those who are emotionally distant, or particularly crass. Though we may feel nervous, there is an air of magnetism. Avoid emotional instability by focusing on the social graces, or the results could be disastrous.

4. Don’t risk physical exhaustion just to prove something to others. Find the line between responsibility and abuse. Widen it, and follow your gut. Don’t yield to criticism. Utilize your own individual creativity, even though you may feel different from others.

5. We generally feel a surge of physical energy and in a harmonious fashion are able to feel supported as we move forwards on this lifetimes path. This momentum is confident and beneficial, if we step outside of our comfort zones, to overcome any obstacles. Something to watch out for is impulsivity and sudden angry energy. Stay focused on the goal.

6. We can easily bring about a harmonious love connection which fits in with our lifes path, or a current romance heats up. Career changes including challenges, can be taken on more easily. Staying aligned with authenticity and our true values gives us a sense of freedom. This energy is easy to utilize for personal growth.

7. Detailed work reaches a new level of efficiency, as we achieve more than usual. Communications and news give us opportunities to change in ways that work well, provided we remain serious and diligent.

[1. Sun conjunct Mercury. Both are in Capricorn. Mercury leaves Capricorn the next day to enter jovial jokester Sagittarius.

2. Sun sextile Saturn

3. Venus opposition Uranus

4. Mars quincunx Uranus

5. North Node trine Mars

6. Lilith trine Moon

7. Mercury sextile Saturn

#astrology #winter solstice #sun conjunct mercury #sun sextile saturn #venus opposition uranus #north node trine mars #lilith trine moon #mercury sextile saturn

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