#which like! cool! being bi is cool!

[dollhousemary]

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#vent-ish stuff? not quite that level but y'know. #uh. so i've just been increasingly thinking that i'm actually bi and not a lesbian lately #which like! cool! being bi is cool! #but also i've identified as a lesbian and change is SCARY and i feel a little silly because i always talk about it so much #and like i've been so sure for so long #it just makes me feel like i don't really know myself that well you know? #also this is kinda dumb but i'd miss the lesbian flag so much 😭 #eughghghgh i don't knowwww #edit: whoop that was supposed to say 'i've identified as a lesbian for so long'

[weirdmageddon]

sorry for liking davejade in 2023 btw its in a cool way though

#hs #davejade #like that one person said bi4bi cool silly girl and her lame ass court jester bf who enjoy each others company a lot #“its boring” well not everything has to be conflict sometimes it can be two people really vibing #and being good foils to each other and just sort of being like a lock and key #i dont dislike davekat but i felt like they bickered too much which is Funny dont get me wrong #but i like davejade for different reasons #in that i feel like dave is at his most heartfelt with her #bc jade doesnt do anything to warrant snarkiness. she doesnt make him uncomfortable and that earns his trust like a lot #ppl say its boring cause its a mf ship and they dont get them like i do #and my answer to that as an agender person is who the fuck cares #i hate ppl dismissing mf ships out of hand like…hey bi ppl exist. and even if they were straight they still got a good dynamic #of care and interest towards each other #hes not her knight in shining armor bffr. she has uhhh fucking GUN #they are Equals #jade slaps the shit outta people on more than one occasion lol #they infodump to EACH OTHER and they both listen #remember when jade wanted to infodump to john about physics remember that #dave would eat that up like oh damn that so dope and tie it back to time or whatever. special relativity #since space and time are fundamentally related #sorry im running on fumes rn i didnt sleep last night #ALSO THEY HAVE MATCHING ALCHEMIZED OUTFITS #jade’s dead shuffle dress and dave’s four aces suited both use a midnight crew poster as ingredients #i should draw them together in that mspa style #maybe theyre not even romantic. who said ships had to be. its short for relationship #well theres multiple kinds of relationships. what if they were queerplatonic

[cringengl]

Idk if this is an unpopular opinion or not, but I honestly do enjoy byler tumblr discourse. Like yeah I do want to see your opinions on Will with a gun, byler being smokers, who was right in the rink o mania argument and whether Will would be a swiftie. I think it's really cool when people use paragraphs of well written contextual info to support their argument and encourage me to rethink my views on a character, relationship or scene. However, discourse is only good if you remain kind and respectful about it, insulting the other side just isn't a good or helpful thing to do (unless they're being problematic or smth idk).

#i am sick of gay mike vs bi mike discourse tho #everyones gone over all tbe good talking points like 1000 times so its just people being rude to each other which isnt cool at all #but yeah i personally enjoy discourse as long as it's constructive #byler #byler tumblr #lemme know what u guys think

[kindaorangey]

im a firm egg pilgrim believer and also that if scollace were to ever be a thing they would Never be endgame. which works out pretty nicely

#scott pilgrim #thunder rambles #the timeline is ramona is trans woman and after months of being with her scott starts to question his own identity #less like 'what if im trans' or 'what if im bi' and more just 'what if i could be queer in literally any way' #which hasnt occurred to him in any conceivable way #and he experiements with ramona and then they decide to have an open relationship and maybe #maybe! #during this time scott hooks up with wallace #and maybe theyve kissed once or twice while drunk before this in college but w/e #and they have a thing for a month or two and its nice but not all that serious and actually it does more to bring scott and wallace together #as friends #than it does anything else #because scott is gradually more and more open about the way hes been questioning #and also in general because this is post-canon scott is a better person in general and sure wallace was awre of this theoretically #but now hes seeing it firsthand and they become the closest and most genuinely friends theyve been in ages #and then they kinda stop hooking up and then a while later scott's egg cracks #and its like the umbrella academy car meme. what if ur egg was slowly cracking and the overlap between ur experimentation #with ur identity and the egg fully cracking finally allowed u to mess around with ur cool gay roommate #for a limited period of time before your identities no longer line up for that anymore #anyway yea also ramona realises shes kinda nonbinary and has a sort of transgender 2: electric boogaloo moment #gives all her leftover estrogen to scott😭😭or something

[shojoboy]

Being Bisexual is sooo cool we can be any gender and be attracted to any gender any amount, we lovvvvve women and nonbinary people and men and even if we only ever date or fuck one of those we are still Bisexual. We aren't "half straight, half gay", because that's not how sexuality works. Sometimes it feels like we don't have our own community but tbh that's because, the Gay community? We in there. The Lesbian community? We in there. Trans community??? We in there!!!!!!!!!!!! Yippee!!!!!

#bisexual #happy pride month i figured i get to make at least one bi post #as a bi person i still feel very shunted to the side sometimes lol #like it still feels...esp for women (because patriarchy world) that sayong your bi means you're saying that you like Men the most lol #altho on the reverse i think plenty of bi men r also treated like staright dudes ''trying to be cool'' which has it;s own origins #and also like. if ur lesbian or gay that comes with a Community and a history and everything and being Bi is like. oh you're there too lol? #even tho Bi people have ALWAYS been in both the Gay and Lesbian communities! it's just more obvious nowadays because in the past... #being openly ANYTHING was hard and obviously it was easier for cis bisexuals to like. pretend to be straight. or if they couldnt... #they could pretend to be gay or lesbian! like we had to be somewhere #and not everybody has the strength and fortitude to b openly Bi when both straights and queers will give you shit for it #anyway. #everything Gay or Lesbian is also Bi you are not missing out by being Bisexual. you can call yourself butch and femme you #can be a bear or a twink you can worship femininity worship masculinity do drag go to lesbian bars ETC #and to the youngsters who feel like they have to call themselves Pansexual because they r nonbinary or date trans people: you do not #Bi people are ALSO in the trans community! WE'RE EVERYWHERE #BI WORLD NO ESCAPE #YIPPEEEE!!!!!!!!!!! #-_- #pol

[yardsards]

s1 luz was at least a little bit gay for willow i will not be told otherwise

idk if it was a full on crush but it was at least one of those types of nebulous not-quite-romantic not-quite-platonic "hahaha, unless..." type friendships that a lot of queer teens have, u know the ones

#girl was just walkin around sayin shit like ''you're right! my friend IS very cute!'' #which can be just regular platonic bc luz is friendly like that but in this case i feel like it's A Little Bit Gay #eliot posts #toh #the owl house #luz noceda #willow park #just. remembering why i liked willuz/willumity so much. #i kinda headcanon willow as grey-aro and polyam (this literally came to me in a dream) #and i feel like her ideal relationship IS a kind of ambiguous sorta-but-not-quite-romantic sort of dealio #tho i also like the headcanons that she's just plain bi or pan or lesbian in this context too #bc again that sort of ambiguous friendship seems to be VERY common among queer teen friend groups (and not just aspec queers) #like it was A Thing between some of my high school friends and many other queer ppl i've talked to have said similar lmao #tho i also find the headcanon that she's 100% aroace and also uninterested in any relationships outside if friendship to be v fun #just like. basically everyone falling in love w her but her being totally uninterested #but being her friend is so Delightful that none of em rlly have any complaints there #like that scene in carmilla where dani turns down kirsch and says she just sees him as a friend and he gets really excited like #''yes! i am in the friend zone! she sees me as a friend!!! she's so cool i am excited to be her friend!'' #willow taking after canon aroace icon lilith ''constantly turning down suitors but keeping their gifts'' clawthorne #my sister is just straight but this one time when she was in hs a guy asked her out w a massive tub of cheese puff balls #(she was obsessed w those things) #and she turned him down but kept the cheese puffs and ate them for like a solid month

[haunted-catboy]

stupid stupid drama, but I really hate when people call me "girlie" & "baby girl", particularly strangers. like Don't. I don't give a singular fuck how "gender neutrally" you mean it. You don't fucking know me like that.

#they also called me stupid & that I was asking to be insulted & that I'm ''playing the victim'' which okay cool go fuck yourself. #all this because I said "hey maybe you're doing a panphobia & being reductive.'' blow me. #anyway they're probably teenagers or overly-online young adults I should get over it just like #ugh. waste of my time!!! #idk why I assumed bi/panphobes would actually care about being casually transphobic lmfao. But I Digress.

[caluupin]

I'm finally AR60,, nice

#caluutalks #took 2.5 years #nice nice #also! sorry for being so dead 😅😅 I'm currently busy w/ final exam season rn #after this semester's over (in around 2-3 weeks) I'll definitely be drawing n doing personal projects more #back on topic-ish: #lantern rite was fun. #well at first i was a bit against xianyun doing the whole reuniting thing with Ga-Ming and his dad #but it turned out better and not in the direction that I initually thought #plus the hugging scene was pretty wholesome #i think its the first time that we get a hugging animation without it being in a cutscene. which I think is cool #who knows? maybe hoyo will be using the hell out of this animation like the crying one #not complaining tho #anyways I'll be back to work n stuff of the sort now so.. yeah bi

[peachxxxmoon]

lord this boy and the way he sat me down on his bed after the easter festivities, lifted my skirts, and kissed all up and down my legs just to eat me out like a starving man has got me weak

#and then he has the audacity to fuck me so gently afterwards #i felt like a maiden after a fancy party stowing away with my lover #we had to leave so we didn't finish but when we got back to my place it was time for part 2 #and it was extremely cool #he made me come with his tongue and then slid in and went 'oh my god' #nsft #nsft tumblr #nsft txt #bi wlm #oh and don't forget the post sex cuddle which was so divine #love being tangled up and comfy and safe #it's like my favorite thing

[wilsonpussyindulgence]

if the firefighters kiss on that show yall are watching, i will actually tune in

#which is crazy because aren’t you seven seasons in? fuck #however - again knowing nothing about the show - #it would be a whole new level of discourse if they made one of those characters bi and the other one was just like ‘’cool! i’m Straight’’ #and then they just ended the show #that would be the second funniest thing they could do #the first being ‘’pulling november 5th AGAIN’’

[cruelsister-moved2]

I actually think that these claims that making fun of men is biphobic because bi women sometimes like men or even misogynistic (because I guess liking men is inherently part of being a woman) are actually themselves biphobic and misogynistic. the men a woman dates/likes are not an extension of her, and her personhood is not vested within them. there are unsettling implications here about women's agency in the process of who to date. I resent the assumption that having a mockable (and potentially genuinely awful) boyfriend is an unavoidable part of being a woman and therefore a protected characteristic???

#i should've saved that post I made a while ago #the one about how all women are potential lesbians #feels relevant to that bc any negative sentiments towards men #are only accepted in the context of [what is taken as] an acknowledgement of the inevitability of giving them power over you anyway #which is itself deeply misogynistic+the idea that being attracted to men means u endorse their hegemony is like not a cool position to take #towards bi women. or straight women for that matter #bc i always have to say it:im not saying ur friends being horrible to ur partner for no reason is fine #but I don't think that happens as often as tumblr wants u to think #and if it does. there's probably a reason they hate him!! #but im saying the way it's framed is just so misogynistic

[libraryleopard]

YA coming-of-age/romance novel

At the start of her senior year of high school, a girl finds herself torn between the guy she's had a crush on for ages and the girl she had an unexpected summer fling with who turns up at school without a warning

Dual timeline split between the summer and the school year

Bisexual, Jewish main character; Syrian American, Jewish, bisexual love interest; F/F and F/M romances

#this book is kinda like grease but queer and i have to say that makes the plot of grease make way more sense so there's that #very quick/readable book #pretty much all of the conflict does rely on miscommunication which is a bit frustrating though #also some other reviews mentioned it but the way that the ethnicities of some side characters were introduced felt a bit token-y #or like a checklist i guess? #liked that this book showcased different experiences of being bi #also this is a small thing but why is the protagonist unaware of the word 'partner' as a gender-neutral alternative to gf/bf… #it was fun reading a book set in the outer banks since i went there over spring break though #cool for the summer #dahlia adler #2023 reads #books #lulu speaks #lulu reads #lulu reads cool for the summer

[bunnyb34r]

What's funny is that given the chance to go to like anime cons, I will GLADLY jump on the opportunity (as long as it's one day), but god forbid a friend spontaneously wants to go catch a movie

And at cons (when I used to go) I'm very extroverted and like a golden retriever I wanna meet and befriend EVERYBODY! but I wont go to family partys or work friends get togethers

#my thing is that if it's strangers ill never see again (or likely will never see again) im free to unmask and be ME so i act #genuinely and let myself live but i hesitate telling my extended family ANYTHING or do anything genuine (by that i mean #genuinely ME. im not like backhanded complimenting them sgdgdgg i only do that to Ryan bc i hate him and he wont #take the fucking hint) like i dont want them to know im bi even though 2 of my cousins are lesbians and one is married to a woman #(one if not both of them might be trans though but no ones come out) and like only my mom knows ab me being nonbinary (which she #doesnt really GET but thats okay shes like um as long as youre happy) and it's not even like theres any relatives left that would give me #shit if i came out but still... and like i struggle even letting them know how disabled i am despite us all having chronic illnesses #anyway id be mortified to see someone i know at a con not bc im embarrassed but bc i dont want them to know ME ME #my uncle did think my link cosplay that i made when i was 13 was really cool though sgdgdgd #one time [relative coworker] was telling our coworker ab Bean and how i make him outfits and i was standing there mortified sgdgdggdgd #Truly the mortifying ordeal of being known #marquilla

[deepspaceclawstation]

Apparently I have watched The Birdcage, with my family no less! I'd seen it referred to here but never connected the dots that it was the same movie I'd watched many years ago on tv, probably when I was a teenager.

I don't remember my parents' reaction to it but since I'd seen some of it and no one changed the channel, they were at least engrossed enough to watch? They can be cool about stuff sometimes, they are just very unpredictable about it.

#Rant #Personal #My parents are weird #My dad is sexist as in he believes in gender roles and frowns upon any type of effeminate behaviour in men #but he also believes that all women should be hashtag girlbosses #My mom reads/watches things with queer people all the time (she doesn't actively seek it but she doesn't get scandalised or whatever by it) #And she and my sister once had a conversation in which she said people should accept their queer kids and when my sister raised the #'hypothetical' whether she would do the same....she said yes? #Which.....um. That lady gets antsy when women don't wax their leg hair. Even complete strangers. #She and dad get weird about bra straps showing. You're telling me they are a-okay with their kids being bi?? #Also what about the gender stuff #They are cool about muslims and yesterday my dad even tried to rationalise with his colleague about how they face so many disadvantages #and mom keeps bragging about her multi-religious college friend group #But then they also say things like 'I once went to a muslim colleague's house and it was /clean/. You couldn't even /tell/' #They obviously also are against casteism but then they turn around and spew some brahmin-manufactured religious bullshit #While being kind of meh about religion in general #Like I don't understand this on-the-fence behaviour. They clearly understand oppression. Why still cling to the status quo then? #They understand that women deserve financial freedom. queer people (sexuality based at least) deserve basic rights. #muslims deserve not to be harassed. #Why not take the next step and examine your own biases about these communities then? #I know the answer ofc. It's because they think they are 'progressive' and so they don't have any biases ever #It's frustrating. I want to come out. I'm tired. #But I can't. I can't speak about politics. #I can't even say 'hey. you know my male friend from college who wore a saree to our graduation? I thought he looked rad #and every day I wish I had his bravery' #Ughhhh sorry for this

[samwiselastname]

pretty sure this is the first time since leaving twitter that my dash has erupted into an echobox of the same take ad nauseum every third post and I hope we don't keep doing this, folks

#itd be funny to see if tesblr are also now rallying around 'bullying bi lesbians is cringe' #but I'll never know because of all the blocks and unfollows about me being like an evil manfucker or whatever #that was a cool period in my life that's definitely not getting tweaked rn by the ferocity with which you are all blogging about it #perhaps. if this in fact doesnt. matter you dont need to shadowbox the tenderqueers in your head about it

[oh2e]

I’m so sick of queer stories that aren’t about the queer character but about how everyone else reacts to them. It’s boring! It’s old! Queer people exist news flash!

#we exist and live our lives that don’t revolve around you #it’s time we got to see that #my own post #i know that stories where that happen exist and I know part of my problem is that I read a decent amount of YA #but this goes for films too. there’s so many that are just the people around the queer person reacting to learning #that they’re queer and the person themself spends all their time and energy placating everyone else #that just because they’re queer doesn’t make them different from before and being queer is fine and normal #i know those stories are important and I know they’re especially important when trying to show outsiders that really we’re all people #but GOD i’m sick of them #the main character is always so boring too. they’re gay person clone 1 who is normal and yes at this point it really #does feel like I’m complaining about love simon which is definitely one of that type of story #i think its because I’ve had a taste of what else lies out there that I don’t need to be preached at by cis gay character 1 that gay is oka #cool. is trans okay too? bi? ace? polyam? kink? out of the box unmarketable queer? are we okay too? #and those stories never tackle that. never touch on it. gay cis characters and gender confirming binary trans people only #(i think this may have been a little bit inspired by transamerica which i did enjoy but it did very much feel like trans person preaching #at a cis audience though it wasn't too bad and while its also a bit dated it was okay. there was a scene with a trans social group #and all the people there were actually trans - including a trans man - which i liked)