#women can do whatever they want forever

[generalherasyndulla]

Discovered a sonadow wiki that makes me literally embarrassed to be a sonadow shiper

#sonadow #sonic the hedgehog #shadow the hedgehog #amy the hedgehog #It's one thing to like a ship #but to have a whole conspiracy that's anti-a prominent female character is very unhinged #and honestly kinda misogynistic #don't even get me started on some of the evidence on other pages just kinda being “they sure are next to each other” #which again I like Sonadow but what the fuck is this #I'm losing my fucking mind #I support Amy Rose's takeover as the new mascot of Sega I think #women can do whatever they want forever #I'm mostly sure it's a joke but there's a part of me that fears this might be legit

[2001xp]

when i hear about women committing crimes im like yasss queen when i hear about men committing crimes im like ugh thats so typical i hope he rots in jail

#🌀 #women can do whatever they want forever

[antimony-medusa]

btw if I see anyone being negative about baghera's lore choices I will look at you so so so sadly and wipe a tear from my eye. being weird and infantilizing about it gets you admission to my highly-curated block list. she gets to do whatever she wants forever.

#I am gripping you by the collar and hissing 'please be normal about women and men interacting' btw #let stories be told with conflict in them and messy interactions #hnnnng I am stopping myself from ranting but just like #consider if a) you would feel the need to commentate publicly if a dude did it #b) if twitter is possibly sending death threats about it #Tallulah also gets to do whatever she wants forever #we can contain multitudes #qsmp #baghera jones #philza

[butchviking]

if someone said some shit like "i love being butch i love that i dont have to shave or wear makeup or conform to femininity" and someone was like "um. you don't have to be butch to do any of that" and they were like "yeah but you will be punished for nonconformity as a woman so its freeing to me to have an identity that reminds me i dont have to be what im expected to be and i can have a community that accepts me for that" i think radblr would be like yeah fair enough.

so explain why i always see this with some snarky comments attached

#like shut uuuuup theyre AGREEING WITH YOU why are u being an ass ! #its probably time for me to stop thinking and go to bed. and i will. #but i just. cant drive home enough that we're the same people. #the first time i realised it was ok for me not to shave was sharing a room w a nb female friend and noticing they had unshaved pits #and i thought 'thats so cool. theyre allowed to do that bc theyre nb' and then i thought 'omg wait IM nb. im allowed to do that!!' #was it a revolutionary acceptance that all women can do whatever they want forever? no. #was it a realisation that i as a female human being could break gendered norms and still have a community that accepted me? yes!!!! #that matters that matters oh my god that matters!

[grasslandgirl]

if anyone deserves to bl*w up this sch**l it’s YOU, Hazel. 🫶🏻🫶🏻

#women’s wrongs etc #she can do whatever she wants forever #bottoms 2023 #getting fully KICKED in the SKULL???? DEATH TI EVERYONE

[kotoneshiomiofficial]

do tme people realize that transmasc and transfem are words to describe someone's transition. like no actually you can't be transmasc and transfem at the same time because that's not what those words mean! it doesn't mean being masculine or feminine while transgender, it's not about how you express your gender, it's about transitioning to that gender or close to it. like thats why they exist, to describe trans people who are transitioning but don't fit 100% into trans man or woman. okay? it's not about presenting masc or fem

#raven.txt #we need less 'do whatever you want forever' and more 'just because you can doesn't mean you should' #and also maybe show trans women some fucking respect? #like i saw this from someone who was literally on T. i guess taking testosterone hrt is transfem now.

[ghouljams]

Cross attends a military ball and Swan asks her to dance (this is months after he issues a proper apology). He asks to kiss her near the end of the song and she punches him so hard his nose breaks. Nothing of value was damaged that day

I can absolutely see Soap choking on his drink in the corner, carefully coughing to cover his laughter when Price glares at him.

"Nothing of value damaged" I'm dying, get his ass.

#ghoul speaks #cross can punch whoever she wants i stand by her #me handing Cross a card that says “you can do whatever you want forever” #i simply support women's wrongs #unhinged women support grouo

[blissfali]

It's pretty wild to see, of all people who could try to gatekeep a word, a self described nonbinary person is trying to say who can be a lesbian. Dude people exclude YOU!! Why are you valid and they aren't???

RIGHTTT Like aimsey is very transmasc leaning so to turn around and say that someone elses definition of lesbianism isnt valid is crazy to me. Bisexual people can be lesbians. straight men can be lesbians. straight women can be lesbians. We can all be lesbian if you believe hard enough and thats the beauty of it!!!! there is no right or wrong way!!!

#ask to tag #I am rambling so much But tbh idc #If you want to identify as a lesbian and you dont like women please be my guest #i LOVE when queer identities contradict themselves its my favorite thing #it emphasizes the fact that all these labels at the end of the day are just suggestions and not the rule #you can do whatever you want forever

[bunnihearted]

📓🕯️🐇🖤pt.2

#only 30 tags lol i ran out... so furthermore #we only get one life. im gonna try as much as i can to enjoy the little moments. nd to not give up on myself nd my life #i will die one day anyway. why rush it. i'll enjoy as many books and as many walks and songs and tv shows as possible #if i get a loan nd have more money i wanna bleach my hair nd dye my hair green #and later this year i think i might change my name #it was the name i wanted to change to from the beginning. but i was in such a bad headspace i just picked eden at random #i do kinda like it now nd im attached to it but i more feel like this other name actually is me. my birth name nd my current name dont feel #really right. so maybe. i havent decided yet. like i rlly dont know. im also attached to this name for some other reason. like it's who i am #to a person i rlly like and if i change... will i be anything to them? i cant put it into words but that makes me hesitate #but it's unhealthy to stay attached to someone i cant truly have even if i want to. so i mean. idk im just weird abt it #but i do kinda wanna change my name (to embla. my mom wanted to give me that name but my dad was like nooo >.<) i am not 100% sure tho so #when i've been getting used to going to school nd working out at the gym. nd after my surgery nd i have more energy #i will try to face my avpd and try apps for making friends. there r two apps where u can find new girl friends!! maybe i can try that #also like i've never tried apps but i think maaaaaybe i can use bumble to try to find friends and women to date. potentially. idk..... #rn it's hard for me to think in those terms bc. i mean i am hung up on someone!!!! i cant evwn imagine dating or being intimate w anyone els #sometimes i feel like.. they're the only person i've ever felt like it'd even be possible. who i'd event want to do that w #not only physically but emotionally. so ig it's even harder to let go bc im so scared i will never feel like that w anyone else #but i rlly need to try to make the most of whatever life i have. the world will collapse soon anyway #that makes me even more sad that i cant be w who i wanna be w nd do what i wanna do but #all pain will all be completely descimated eventually. it's not forever bc life isnt forever #i've just never felt this before. like i want smth to be real so bad but if it happened once surely it can happen again? right? #i wont spend my life alone without intimacy and love and comfort nd support nd understanding right???? :o hope not #im still so sad nd exhausted rn. nothing in my life is working nd theres no repreive nd no help #it gets sooo hard to endure everything sometimes when everything just keeps piling up and gets so heavy it feels like im drowning #nd atm i dont feel like i have any anchor. nothing that keeps me grounded nd im just floating away nd im constantly being overwhelmed by my #feelings nd emotions. im like a stupid little kid who dont understand how to handle what im feeling. or make rational decisions #i feel so ... stupid and useless. i dont know what im doing. i have no idea. i have no compass. its so scary

[cambriancutie]

i think even if you only draw one thing its good to learn how to draw other things, expand your horizon

#ala. if you only draw skinny characters you can benefit to learn how to draw fat people #or if you only draw men you can benefit from learning how to draw women. you get it #but in the end. art is always about you. you can do whatever you want forever #just my 2cents

[honeysucklethornsandalligtrhorns]

if you’re a girl and you don’t shave your legs i love you. same for those shaved girlies. i love women.

#this applies to cis and trans women by the way #you can do whatever you want forever #body positivity #🌫️

[biracy]

Cannot find my older post about it (tbh I didn't try very hard) but honestly I am so tired of people trying to pretend like there's any sort of consistency to "cis women getting a nose job is evil and NOT feminist. However all transsexual surgery is Holy Holy Holy". It's truly not surprising how often people end up reblogging from like, actual tradcaths about "modern women ruining their natural feminine beauty" or whatever. I've said this all before so I don't wanna repeat myself but obviously this does not mean "you cannot critique what drives people (cis or trans) to get 'plastic surgery'" or "women's choices exist in a vacuum" (although I would roll back some of the extreme performative hatred for women who make The Bad Not Feminist Choices), but it DOES mean "stop pretending like there's any sort of actual distinction between Cis Plastic Surgery (bad) and Trans 'Gender-Affirming' Surgery (good) that does not fully rely on the medicalization of being transgender" and it ALSO means "stop pretending to care about bodily autonomy when what you really mean is 'people can do things with their bodies I think are cool and good, but not things that I don't like. Those things should literally be banned, that's how we will save women'"

#i've Definitely said this before but bodily autonomy is not just the tumblr leftist transSEXual commune smoking and getting abortions or w/e #it's also all the things you don't like. it's also all the things you think are frivolous. it's also all the things you think are harmful #idk toooo many terfs have come into my notes to tell me that transgender surgery is equivalent to eating disorders #or 'transracial' plastic surgery or Literal Self-Mutilation or whatever that i'm done pretending #i'm not going to do the Noooo it's different! this is Medically Necessary surgery to treat the mental illness that makes me trans <3 #thing i'm Done. there is no definitive line between 'cosmetic surgery' and 'gender-affirming surgery' #and if it's either have both or have neither i think it's pretty obvious which one we should choose #open mick night #gender #idk you familiarize yourself with enough anti-trans anti-drug anti-kink and etc talking points and all this starts to #leave a bad taste in your mouth lol #when i say you can do WHATEVER you want forever i do mean it. even if the things are harmful or politically reductive or whatever #you can Leftist Critique it but you cannot even for one second start to fall into the 'and this is why women should Not Be Allowed To-' tra #bc as always. what's ur reasoning? you find it morally wrong? what other medical procedures do people find morally wrong? regarding women?

[arthur-kingsmen]

complaining about my ex not in a “i miss him” way but “im still working out how much he gaslighted me over 3 years so yall r gonna have to hear me parse this a bit more”

#talking abt ex number 4. i cannot stress how much i dont miss him #and like. i knew he didnt love me at the end but i thought we were still friends #NO IDIOT ‼️ HE WAS FUCKING OTHER WOMEN #so when i whine and complain please dont think less of me. i think i have the right to whine a bit. tbh #he snapped the old friend gc and i muted that shit. if its a pic of him im gonna not care. but if its our cat im gonna vomit #i am OKAY tho i calmed myself down and chatted w mom #now im gonna go write fanfiction where a self insert is manhandled by hot men bc i can do whatever i want forever

[arcademgmt]

anyone else feel kind of crazy when people have the least charitable interpretation of a character that they possibly can where they just like. see them as just 100% fully irredeemably evil when that is perhaps contradictory to canon and. more importantly to me at least. So much less interesting than if you gave them some balance

#i can think of at least 4 characters off of the top of my head rn that this applies to. and i have been awake for 24+ hrs #so the ol thinker isn't working very well rn. i could almost certainly think of more if i tried #i think you can do whatever you want forever but man some people are hellbent on being right #and poopooing people who think otherwise #no wait i just thought of another character while i was typing this also most of the ones i thought of were women #and most of the characters i thought of were women. do with this info what you will #anyways sleepy bye time for meee! erm

[theorderofthetriad]

during my terf blocking spree i ran across this little ditty (obvs transphobia cw):

and, like, i've heard this song and dance from terfs a million times before and it's a sentiment that reveals a lot of holes in the terf ideology and exposes their lack of understanding on the subject

but the thing about this sentiment that i feel is very revealing to the special kind of poison that terf ideology spreads is the assumption that one's existence- one's expression of and relation to gender- is or must be a political statement. i didn't start transitioning to make a political statement about gender, i did it because i fucking hated my hip to waist ratio for personal reasons.

it's insane how much terfs have a problem with people just making a normal fucking decision for themselves (like dating a man, or having a baby, or dressing feminine- all things i've seen terfs railing against) because terfs see these decisions as active choices to support the patriarchy, terfs can't comprehend that someone might just do a thing because they want to do that thing, and they're not making a political statement, they're just existing. Trans people especially should not have to have their every thought and action interpreted as a manifesto on gender- we're just living!

and the poison of this is most potent within themselves, they're expecting us to all live and act and be with an inherent political motivation in mind because they are living and acting in accordance to what is politically correct for them to do and not in accordance to what would actually make them happy in their lives. some of them have definitely considered transitioning but wont go through with it because it's a "betrayal" to feminism.

misery is not a virtue but terfs would make you think it is, the way they go about things.

#to quote the ancient tumblr wisdom: you can do whatever you want forever #if your feminism severely limits what women can and can't do it's not feminism it's fascism in a funny hat #santagno

[livvyofthelake]

just saw a tiktok. listen if you’re gonna compare your characters to laurie jo and amy little women you need to really put on your thinking caps with it you cannot just be saying shit this isn’t a game….

#i can’t tell you what they said because well. it’s redacted #but like. i’m not against you comparing my forever girl to jo but o wish you were doing it in a way that didn’t make her out to be the spare #of a love triangle. that’s not what jo is and that’s not what SHE is #and he’s not even anything like laurie in the first place so why would you even say that at all. #ok he’s a little like laurie he’s an only child #but. he is not like laurie in most of the ways that matter #you’re literally only saying this because your mind has created a link between these characters and little women because of timothee #and it’s lame and you aren’t making any sense!!!!! #if anyone there is laurie it’s MY guy. from tenth grade spirit week #oh but that’s illegal to say because he’s not technically an only child i forgot that’s not allowed in this snowflake ass fandom #if you know what i’m saying you should get a prize probably #but no really MY guy would be laurie. the guy YOU said was laurie would be jo. peace and love on planet earth #because the essential truth of laurie and his dynamic with not just jo but all of them is that he yearns for a family #he wants to have people that are tied to him no matter what. he craves that connection that the march girls all had with each other #he didn’t want to marry one of them as much as he wanted to BE one of them. marriage was just how he did it #like. laurie’s defining characteristic is that he is lonely. and he loves jo because she made him not lonely anymore #and none of that has anything to DO with the three people this tiktok said!!!!!!! #but whatever. again this post is like. encrypted. and if you can decode it literally you win a prize for understanding