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„I don’t regret you but sometimes I wish I had walked away at the start and left things at hello.”

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“How a person reacts to your sadness says a lot about how long they’re going to be in your life.”

— Unknown

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“No matter how much you miss a toxic person, please don’t contact them. It’s not worth it. You’ll just be sad again. You deserve nothing but happiness, and it is not them. You don’t ever need to feel drained or exhausted over someone. Real love will find you.”

— Unknown

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Some times I just feel ruined.. I miss the way I used to feel about love.. I miss the way I used to feel. I miss the desire I used to have.. Now things just end up feeling hollow..

#sad #empty #lonely #personal

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I used to really love Christmas morning.. it’s the third Christmas without being with the family that I thought was my family forever.. idk why this one feels even harder than the last two.. I miss the warmth.. I’m trying to appreciate what I do have now.. but it’s just not the same.. I really felt at home..😔

And.. not only am I not there.. someone else is there in my place.. And I doubt he even appreciates what he really has right now..

#sad #broken hearted #loss #pain #I miss you all

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Cause you won't hate someone as much as someone you've once loved before.

k.b. // love turning into hate is so painful

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“Somewhere, far down, there was an itch in his heart, but he made it a point not to scratch it. He was afraid of what might come leaking out.”

— Markus Zusak

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we may not talk, but I still care

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“You ask everybody you know: How long does it usually take to get over it? There are many formulas. One year for every year you dated. Two years for every year you dated. It'€™s just a matter of will power: The day you decide it’s over, it’s over. You never get over it.”

— Junot Díaz, This Is How You Lose Her (via thebookquotes)

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#life advice #surviving breakups #heartbreak

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“As long as you look for someone else to validate who you are by seeking their approval, you are setting yourself up for disaster. You have to be whole and complete in yourself. No one can give you that. You have to know who you are - what others say is irrelevant.”

— Nic Sheff

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“Time is a delicate, fragile gift you can’t reuse, give away, or borrow those you love, love well today for they may not be here tomorrow”

— Time is a Gift

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I used to think loving people more than myself made me a good person but in reality, it made me a very sad person. I had to start all over with myself and teach myself what I deserved. Soft reminder that you don’t have to wait for people to care about you the way you wish they would and that goes for friends/relationships/family etc.

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One of the great thing about cheaters is the karma they get. When a relationship starts from infidelity it’s sure to end with it. I’m just so glad I don’t have to deal with that mess anymore. Life is so much calmer when you don’t have someone with narcissistic personality disorder in it anymore.. Now to just sit back and watch it implode.

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