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Harry's helped so many publicly & if it weren't for Louis... he'd probably be the one to help me feel safe. But Louis didn't wave a flag while prancing around on stage... instead he saw me trying to hide a LGBT+ pin I had on after being talked bad about on a night out & he sat besides me & I swear these words are tattooed on right on my skin where my heart beats... they'll stick w/ me forever but he said "Be proud, love. You're strong & part of such a beautiful & strong community... be proud" +

+I didn’t know who he was at the time yet god I just hugged him and cried to his chest. He held me then pulled back and said “Love wins, always. These fuckers will eventually know, yeah love?” I just remember nodding and thanking him for helping me and he said “we’ve got to always be strong. Always.” He left soon after that after making sure I was safe. A girl sitting next to me told me who he was. I came out to everyone i love the next day. Became a fan ever since. I’m just a boy who’s so in+

+ love with Louis. He’s helped me become who I am. This happened only a couple of months ago. Maybe he thought I was a fan and even tho I wasn’t back then I’m the biggest now. & I’ll be front stage and central when he starts touring waving the flag MY MOMMA bought me and wearing the pin I consider by biggest treasure. Shirtless with my tattoo being out. Because I am proud. I am strong. And I owe it all to LOUIS WILLIAM TOMLINSON. ❤️

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Honestly that would be my dream life, but no, uni has to start again tomorrow

why can’t i stay in bed all day reading books and listening to music while creating fake scenarios in my head like there isn’t a law against it so wtf

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i’ve started replacing “i want to die” with “i feel overwhelmed” in my internal monologue, which is usually more accurate and more productive

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WHAT IS HAPPENING IN TURKEY

I’m extremely enraged right now. Turkish government withdrew from İstanbul Convention today, putting women’s lives at more risk than ever!

I’m only asking you tumblr users to help us to get our voices heard

Making #istanbulsozlesmesiyasatir and #aklinizdanbilegecirmeyin is one way to spread our voices on Twitter

In the past social media is actually effective in forcing government to do something

Another way is that signing this, there is Turkish, English, French and Italian versions explaining the situation

https://www.change.org/p/sign-to-support-women-in-turkey-who-ask-the-proper-implementation-of-laws-to-protect-women%09

PLEASE REBLOG THIS SO MORE PEOPLE CAN SEE

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I find it funny that nowadays your one of the few people who still think they do a shit job with Harry or don’t know how to handle him right. All I read are the same essays how perfect they are for him

They never have been, they have big connections because Irving Azoff is a legend, so they get big gigs because of that and because Harry has a lot of star power and everyone wants him to do stuff. They are lucky he is in high demand and people want him because he is harry styles(tm) but at the same time they are incapable of handling all these opportunity and use his potential in the right way. If he was an indie artist, he’d be ruined with a team like that to be honest. I think the interests here lie on how much Harry can make them earn with his famous persona, he is now the big name they can flaunt around the industry and that’s all they care about. He works with a too small group of people who are always the same and say the same things over and over again, no attention is placed on his persona ever, it’s always either gossip and stunts or associations with people who have the same team or no association at all. He doesn’t do anything mainstream because they want to show him as ‘too good for this and that’, he doesn’t wear any clothes that are not gucci because of this one deal (which considering how handsome he is and how much people want to work with him, its kinda stupid he’s that tied to one brand at this point of his career but alas), he doesn’t collaborate with other artists that are not lizzo or stevie nicks ( i mean, great names but....we got it the first 20 times, thanks) his social media presence does not exist and when it does is super fake (except for a few glimpse of real harry here and there, see the 1D anniversary post). Probably the act like this so they have more control on him, or because they can’t do better than this or they don’t care as long as he earns money and power for them and their firm, i am not sure. They turned him into this walking advertisement for anyone but himself and everything he does is just publicity for this and that but never himself  and his art (see the grammys, where everyone and their dogs posted about it BUT him basically) and i get this is show business and everyone is an advertisement but it comes to a point when there HAS to be more than that on the table. I did read an interesting post a few years ago, saying his team does this with all the artists and especially harry (which is one of the 3 that actively works in their roster) because the deeper the connection is, the harder it is for him to leave cause he’d find himself ‘alone’ if everyone he had ever worked with is connected to his ‘old’ team. Someone as dynamic and eclectic as Harry is kind of wasted with these limited options his team offers, in my opinion and having a Vogue cover and a Grammy is good but it is not enough in 2021 especially if these amazing gigs are followed by shitty stunts and poor actions that reflects bad on him and his persona all the time. He describes himself as someone that never stays put, that always likes to venture into new fields and try new things and experiment with new stuff so I find it hard to believe he only wants to work with James Corden, Ben Winston and Gucci over and over again, something doesn’t add up here. Another bad thing that makes me fuming is that they want to make him an ‘American’ star so bad they forget harry is not even American. Bottom line is that he has a lot of opportunities and stuff thanks to his multiple talents and it’s infuriating to see it wasted because his team doesn’t know how to handle them and always turns them into sloppy jobs and bad stunts. 

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Fans are only pretending the grammys aren't shit because harry got nominated this year. They can be shit and rigged and unfair and you can still think Harry deserves the nominations and awards, those things can co-exist. You can be happy for Harry and mad on Zayn's behalf but I know that's hard for some racist larries

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Finished it! Dionysus from the Hades game. I love him.

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This is so important!

I’d like to add this: We don’t know H&L personally, we don’t know anything about the dynamics of their relationships and, quite frankly, it’s non of our business.

In my opinion, us larries are here to support L&H and their relationship and make them feel seen, heard and loved. That’s it. To too many people, however, Larry seems to be merely some form of entertainment, something to make up conspiracies about or create their own narrative around. We don’t know everything and we don’t need to know everything.

And while fan fiction are fun to read and write and it’s okay to have personal preferences, one has to differentiate between the CHARACTERS and the real people behind them. Some people don’t seem to be able to do this, or don’t realise/ ignore how invasive and appropriate it is to not only make assumptions, but have very fixed opinions about a real relationship.

To end this, if you truly love and support H&L, you love and support them for who and what they are, whatever that may be. And not only for what you want them to be..

Do you think there a reason why some larries are so against the idea that harry might be trans or more so not identify as a cis male? I've seen post where it is almost seen as though if harry were to not identify as a cis male then it would discredit Louis and harry's relationship, im a newer "Larrie" and just have not seen anything that would suggest Louis not being supportive of harry in anyway he felt to present (sorry if that wording is poorly). Why is it one or the other?

Very easy answer: 

They are transphobic. 

Like...that’s ultimately all it really boils down to 90 percent of the time. 

I think for some people, like it’s just straight up transphobia served cold.

 For others, they have developed a weird parasocial relationship with the concept of the pairing. And that parasocial relationship, for them, has a specific narrative, the narrative being that its TWO GAY MEN. 

The fact that it is a gay, cis man relationship, is an essential component for them, whether it’s because they are actually fetishising gay men, or it’s because they’ve just been here a long time and can’t alter their narrative at all. 

But I think a large portion of this part of the fan base are cis women, and some of them, whether they realise it or not, are to some extent fetishising the ‘mlm’ aspect of real life relationship they are supporting, to a point that’s unhealthy. And that literally leads them to have transphobic reactions when that is challenged. I think it’s totally possible to support them healthily, but there are people in this fan base who treat Louis as a self insert, there are people who really cling onto the ‘two gay men’ aspect etc. And that clinging not only promotes transphobia but it can also be really biphobic (like, people who claim anyone is 100 percent certainly gay and don’t leave room for the idea that they could be bi or pan). 

Sometimes I think people treat an irl couple like they are a fictional ship (even when outside of fan fiction), and like should exist to cater to their preferences and sexual desires and hit certain story beats etc. And the reality is...cis people...whether they will admit it or not....often don’t want trans people in their OTPs...do they? 

There are also people for whom it’s probably just never crossed their mind and so they are having to take a moment or two to get used to the idea that Harry may not be exactly who they think he is, but they are different to the above because ultimately, they are open to him being whoever. 

As I’ve said before, we don’t know his gender so all we have to do is leave room for the idea that it could be one of many things. But some people completely flip their shit at the idea of...literally just admitting you don’t know and letting him tell you...because it alters their personal headcanon. Whether their headcanon be that Harry is a big masculine man or Louis is tiny baby boy or it's two homosexuals against the world etc. 

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Please help ! 💖

Hi guys. I would normally never do something like this, but this is my cat Hedwig and he was very ill and unfortunately last night at 3am he passed away. He was only 4 and he was my everything.

I would like to get him cremated so that I can always have him with me. The problem is, they won't do anything until I have the money. I do not want him where he is and I desperately need help. I know not everyone has the same opinion on these things but it would mean a lot to me if you could reblog and share this post.

The price for the cremation is $400 CAD, and any little bit helps. If you would like to contribute, private message me for my PayPal. Please don't feel obligated, but if you CAN help, I would really, really appreciate it and I would owe you all my life xx

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I feel like right now @lovemylarents @babyhoney-28, @onlythebravestan, @kaybutlarry @fearlessmoon09 any the rest of our GC is just annoyed as myself with stan twitter right now. For those that have never dealt with stan twitter we recommend NEVER going over there. Even on the larrie side it is toxic, and filled with people who are either hypocrites or gatekeepers. Currently some larries were mad at those who didn't post a ss of Louis new playlist. I liked it and streamed it sorry didn't know I had to post a ss of proof to prove my love for Louis? In general their are some not just anti but larries who get annoyed at accs like ours that mostly talk about larry and the stunts and essentially think we don't care about their careers which is absolutely bullshit! Now I can't directly speak on my GC behalf directly but from the time I have gotten to know them I can say they probably are similar to me.

[Side note this rant also applies to toxic people here] I made a larry stan acc and then a larry tumblr acc to talk about larry related things with other larries. No one I know irl is into L&H let alone knows about larry so ONLINE is where I went to talk about it when I found out there was spaces on these sites to talk about it. Me constantly talking about larry on larry accs does not mean I don't give af about their careers or them as people! I do most of my support irl even getting 5 of my irls to steam their music and become a fan!

When 1D was a thing I bought their albums, bought their merch, streamed their music, watched their interviews, [never got to go to a tour sadly] but did everything else I could to support them! When 1D went on break I supported them bc I knew they needed it. When they started putting out solo music and it became pretty clear 1D was not going to return as a group I supported them! When L&H specifically became solo artists again I bought their albums, bought their merch, became a top 5% streamer, watched interviews, and [this time happily] bought tickets to their tours. Why tf would I do all that if I didn't care about them as people or their careers? I've been supporting these boys for almost a decade don't give me that crap that bc I talk about larry online I don't support their careers or them as people!

I was HAPPY when I saw H was getting the recognition he deserved and wasn't being over looked as just some boybander! I was concerned when it seemed like H might be over worked by his management the way 1D were so I don't want H to feel like he has to put out another album now. I was UNHAPPY when it became clear they were still pushing the womanizer image and forcing these PR stunts on to H because they don't see his talent alone can sell records. I care about H more then anyone will ever know.

I was UNHAPPY when it became clear L old label was trying to sabotage L solo career bc they don't like him and are scared of what he is capable of. I was UNHAPPY when it radio stations said they wanted to but were not allowed to play Louis music. I was UNHAPPY when it became clear Louis was suppose to put out his album and tour back in 2018 but they didn't allow him to. I am HAPPY Louis might finally be able to get the recognition H gets that he also deserves bc all the boys are super talented! I was HAPPY and proud of Louis when he finally released his debut album and it went number in almost 100 countries and then when he left Syco it went back up to number 1 GO LOUIS!

I care about BOTH Louis and Harry as people and I care about their careers but my accs are to talk about larry with other larries bc I don't have anyone to talk to about this irl on top of the fact part of caring for them and their careers is realizing people around them are forcibly closeting them and believe they won't sell as many records if they were an out couple which is complete bullshit so I will talk about it!

The people I have meet online to talk about 1D and larry with have brought me more joy and uplifted me more then most irls ever did. I was a very unhappy and sad person before I found a place to talk about the two people I love more then anyone. It hurts to hear people say I don't actually care about them bc of what my posts/tweets are about. I'm tired of feeling like I have to say or do certain things to prove I care about L&H as much as others.

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01/10/2021

remeber this recip?

well here’s the video

(the man dressed in all black) so louis is the one who’s being pushed by a security guard and in the right is harry.

i love my larents!

well. i’m just🧍🏻‍♀️

imma add the next images right here:

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Can you imagine being so bad at your job that your PR Stunt is such an obvious PR stunt that you now have to pretend that the paparazzi just happened to get onto a non-celebrity private property on the day that Harry and Olivia just happened to hold hands while just happening to wear the brand he reps to a wedding where he just happened to invite her when the groom’s on family didn’t fully get to attend? 

‘WHeRE iS ThE SoUrcE’ Bitch, on your lawn. 

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Saw your thoughts on the stunt in your recent post, I have a sort of unrelated question. Everyone seems to think that bg might be ending because f will go to school soon and they ready slip up plenty as it is and f probably doesn't know/won't be able to keep up the story. Won't the covid situation push back the need to end it? Like I'm not sure what the school situation in LA is but probably not good right?

Hey, thank you for your question!

I’m not American myself so I don’t really know what the school situation is like in LA atm, however considering how dramatic the covid situation there is, it is I could imagine that schools might be/ stay closed.

It is true that the longer the stunt goes on and the older F gets, the more difficult it gets for them to keep up the lie. It seems like they are messing up more and more with the pics they post of him, he looks different in almost every single one. Plus, it is really getting obvious who F is resembling (and it’s definitely not Louis). I am honestly stunned that they keep posting pics of him, despite exposing themselves, they keep ignoring this kids privacy.

Now, I personally think that F isn’t his actual name, which is good for him, because it makes it harder for him to be recognised. And I don’t believe that he knows anything about what’s going on, I think they probably left him out of the stunt entirely. And really, if F is inside of the school, who would go up to him and ask him about Louis? The other kids won’t know, the teachers probably won’t either. And in case a teacher or a parent of other kids do know about the situation, recognise F for who he is and do ask F about Louis, it’s not very likely that they are going to spread that information around, yet alone expose the whole stunt.

So overall, I don’t think F going to school soon is that much of an issue yet, but it will be the older he gets of course.

However with boobiegate, they have an excellent opportunity to go from to end the stunt very soon. It would be stupid, if they do want to end it, not to use it. I don’t know if I want to believe the rumours that L is in LA yet, but there is a possibility that he might be there atm and that we’ll get info about it soon (possibly even pics of him and F). I can only speculate of course, but I believe that they will use the situation to L’s advantage, and there’s multiple ways and narratives they could use that would result in L taking a pat test which comes back negative. With the court date approaching, it is probably only a matter of time until we’ll get a location drop of him in LA (as soon as he is done quarantining).

We’ll have to wait and see what happens, of course, but I want to be optimistic and hope that they make use of this situation and it will all come to an end soon. I hope this somewhat answered your question :)

#louis tomlinson #babygate #end it

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As disappointed and confused as we all are, we can’t blame everything on his team. They are not in total control over him, some things are still on Harry. And it’s important that we call him out on it and be very vocal about it, because maybe then he’ll see it, get it and do better in the future.

He is a role model for our generation and currently he is setting a bad example, which is very dangerous. We all want this pandemic to end and go back to normal to do fun things like seeing Harry on tour, but to archive this EVERYBODY has to act accordingly, especially people like him.

Treat people with kindness also mean treat people with consideration, so Harry, please wear your masks correctly, practice social distancing and stay safe.

Please stop trying to excuse the way H has been behaving throughout this pandemic with theories about him being sabatoged by his management/label, especially when you don't have much to go on. Hold him responsible for once. Despite what stan twitter says, you can be mad, criticise and hold your fave responsible for their inconsiderate behaviour and still be their fan and still support them.

This pandemic is unprecedented, no one expected it. That means there would be nothing in his contract about it, and nothing about him having to not wearing a mask or not wearing a PROPER mask. Yes you can argue image clause BUT that wouldn't fly as its 100p a health and safety risk. No matter how much power they have, thats not something they can loophole, at least in the current state of the world due to the pandemic. Health and safety during a pandemic is pretty black and white, compared to something as intricate as closeting, and if they were forcing him to work and do things in unsafe environments or do things to risk his health, he 100p has a right to deny it and he has a clear cut case to sue them if they retaliate.

Yes they can force him to stunt, but they cant force him to not wear a mask. They can force him to work, but they have to follow all the guidelines, also, due to the times, extensive travelling could also be argued as being against health and safety and he could have a case to deny doing it if he wanted.

H was out on the streets on his first italy trip, no mask, no social distancing, just living life like normal. There have been multiple times he's been spotted out with different people, different friends, going for dinner or hanging out, even though your supposed to be sticking with the same bubble (and now just the people you have to see due to the LA lockdown). He travelled to Italy twice a few months apart when they could have done it all at once. He threw a dinner party in Italy during round 1, and he's been seen with either no mask or masks that don't work on numerous occasions. If he really didn't want to, he COULD fight this as its a black and white health and safety claim, if it was the management telling him no masks and no proper precautions. But tbh, they wouldn't do that , they wouldn't tell him he can't take the steps necessary to keep himself safe and healthy (well at least not having the virus) because they still need to make money off of him. He can't work if he's sick and if he gets sick his singing career could be over.

Stop trying to justify his actions just because you love him. I love him too, but I can still see that this behaviour is not okay. La is in a crisis, the least he could do was stunt with a proper fucking mask and keep it on.

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This is a rant.

How Harry has been treating the corona regulations has reached a point where it’s not only very disappointing, but quite frankly unacceptable and inexcusable.

He put out his stay at home charity shirt during the first lockdown, but ever since has been behaving anything but accordingly.

1) while I understand his travels between London and LA, there was no reason for him to travel to Italy. Twice. And while I love the golden video, there really was no reason to shoot it in Italy. A music videos from home, as so many other artists have been able to do, would have been just as good.

2) He shouldn’t be taking part in this movie. He is not an actor, he is not relying on roles, as others might be. Instead of staying at home, staying safe and finding other things to do to spend his time and that would keep him safe, he is out there everyday on set interacting with a bunch of people. His presence has also drawn countless on fans to the set (which is obviously not his fault, but could have been expected). He could be working on his next album for example, as every other singer (For some reason I’m getting the feeling that this current joke of a stunt has been planned for some time though..)

3) All those recent pictures are awful (fake? wedding and stunt pics). They have definitely crossed a line for me. We are almost a year into the pandemic, the numbers of cases are astronomical and here they are acting exactly the way one should 100% not be acting. Those were staged pap pictures, they knew those pictures would be seen and spread around by fans and potentially be used by the media. They chose to have them set up like this: not social distancing, not wearing masks.

It is this kind of behaviour that is the reason we are still in this mess and probably will be for a long time to come. More people will get sick, pass away, loose their jobs and struggle financially as well as mentally. The message of those pics is a big fuck you to everyone struggling.

For many fans, seeing Harry on tour has been one of the few things to look forward to after the end of the pandemic and a huge motivation to follow covid guidelines. Now, the tour has been postponed indefinitely because the pandemic is still not under control. One would think that it would be in Harry’s interest as well to make sure he can start his tour as soon and safely as possible. His actions, however, are not saying so. Which does hurt to see.

Not to forget, Harry keeps risking catching covid, which could, in the worst case, impact his singing. He is acting very irresponsibly, not only towards other people but for his own health and career as well. Harry has always strikes me as someone who takes good care of himself and watches after his own health meticulously. I don’t know what’s changed.

Those pictures were taken for the pr stunt, I am aware. We do not know to what extend he had a say with them, because quite frankly, we don’t know the extend to which he has a say in his promo, stunting and closeting matters at all. Therefore we can’t just blame it on Jeff and his team alone. They will not have given him the mask to wear or told him to take his mask of. And admittedly, he does not appear all that comfortable even being there)

Overall, I’m very disappointed. I hope calling him out reaches his team and will lead to betterment in the future. “Nobody’s perfect, not even Harry Styles,” quote of my sister. I will not demonise him over this, obviously, but at the moment I am really upset. We all want the pandemic to get better, so we all got to work accordingly, celebrities included. I just hope that in the future he’ll know and do better.

#harry styles #harry styles olivia wilde #pr stunt #stunting