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it’s okay to look back and realize you were in the wrong. it’s more than okay to realize you could’ve been more honest, more courageous, more empathetic. we can’t change the past or fix everything with a single apology towards ourselves or other people, but we can learn to make new choices that better suit our beliefs & values, choices that reflect our growth. keep moving forward, keep working on you. in case no one has told you today: i’m proud of your progress, proud of the person you are becoming. 

#reminder #resilience

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Pay attention to what makes you feel on edge. If you’re feeling angry try to stop and assess what is triggering that anger. It doesn’t have to make sense. Is the sound of shoes squeaking on the floor grating? Is the way someone is asking you for something upsetting even if the ask isn’t? Understanding what is bothering us is the first step to diffusing our anger.

#reminder

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Atarashii Gakko! | Photographed by Seiya Fujii for EYESCREAM Magazine

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[A white fortune cookie paper with blue text. Front: Doing what you like is freedom. Liking what you do is happiness. Lucky Numbers 9, 31, 21, 1, 8, 48 Back: Cherry, Chinese text (yīng) (táo)]

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tokidoki x Hello Kitty and Friends Blind Box (tokidoki)

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Mitarashi dango（みたらし団子）

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This might suck to hear, but if you're a people pleaser that is motivated by praise and avoids disagreements, you are easy to manipulate.

When I was in therapy after surviving years of domestic violence, my therapist had to tell me that my personality was primed for abuse and we needed to work on that so I would be better equipped to see the red flags and respond appropriately in the future.

I'm still working on this, and it's been 8 years. If you tell someone how you want to be treated, what behaviors you don't tolerate in your life, what you're looking for in that relationship, and they react negatively, don't compromise yourself. Just move on.

This one's for all the praise-kink girlies: differentiate, self-actualize, stay sexy

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(via ひみつのみつあみタイツの画像 | くまっこくらぶ まなぴょん)

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💿 Jee Won Park (ig: zeewipark)

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Kikuo - KIKUOWORLD (2011)

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꧁★꧂

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they are friends

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Some more “what’s in my bag” posts from flickr. We have always been the same…..

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