proship-strawberry · a day ago
❤️ nobody deserves to be traumatized (no exceptions) ❤️
🧡 your trauma is still valid if you ignored the red flags (no exceptions) 🧡
💚 your trauma is still valid even if it wasn't 'as bad' compare to other people's trauma (no exceptions) 💚
💙 your trauma is still valid even if it was non-contact (no exceptions) 💙
💜 people who have been traumatized deserve the help, healing, and happiness they need (no exceptions) 💜
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you can't always have a soft heart after being scarred or traumatized, and that's okay. you can have a cold messy heart as well, you're on your right to be confused and broken for a while. you don't need to know what kind of heart you wanna have or what kind of person you wanna be. take your time to figure that out and heal.
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terusberanjak · 2 days ago
Sebab Allah Mempermudah Urusannya
Bila kau iri kepada seseorang yang sepertinya segala urusannya jarang menemukan kesulitan, bahkan ketika dalam keadaan tak berdayapun banyak orang yang menyayanginya tanpa pamrih, maka irilah pada kebaikannya. Sebab barangkali banyak sekali orang itu memudahkan urusan orang lain karena Allah. Sebab barangkali di setiap penghasilan kerja yang ia terima, ia menunaikan hak Allah terlebih dahulu di banding keinginan dirinya. Sebab ia tak pernah merasa takut kehabisan harta saat ia membantu orang lain dengan harta yang Allah titipkan kepadanya. Dan untuk hal-hal itu begitu tersembunyi. Engkau tak pernah mengetahuinya.
Sayang, bila iri yang tumbuh di hatimu itu ialah iri yang membawamu pada rasa tak bersyukur, maka tahan ia kuat-kuat. Jangan sampai iri itu memeluk hatimu begitu erat sehingga engkau tak mampu melihat hikmah yang Allah sebenarnya ingin engkau melihatnya. Bila ingin iri, maka irilah pada amal-amal tersembunyi orang yang saat ini kau iri kepadanya. Iri yang mampu mendorongmu untuk semakin mendekat kepada Allah, iri yang semakin membuatmu terus memperbaiki diri.
Dari Abu Hurairah ra, Nabi Shallalluhu Alaihi Wasallam, bersabda: “Barang siapa yang melepaskan satu kesusahan seorang mukmin, pasti Allah akan melepaskan darinya satu kesusahan pada hari kiamat. Barang siapa yang menjadikan mudah urusan orang lain, pasti Allah akan memudahkannya di dunia dan di akhirat. Barang siapa yang menutupi aib seorang muslim, pasti Allah akan menutupi aibnya di dunia dan di akhirat. Allah senantiasa menolong hamba Nya selama hamba Nya itu suka menolong saudaranya”. (HR Muslim)
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soulflowrss · 2 days ago
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deenbot · 2 days ago
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rraaaarrl · 14 hours ago
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Good evening, please enjoy this compilation of a young Victor Von Doom grifting the racist wealthy Latverian nobles who harassed his Roma community! ❤️
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ladyaprillark · a day ago
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This is your reminder.
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queenmoriarty · 2 days ago
i have put lil bowls of water all over the house and will hide lil treats everywhere so that my dogs can drink enough on these extremely warm days and have something nice to look for and distract them
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lover-suggestion · 2 months ago
It's gonna work out. It's gonna work out. It's gonna work out.
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quailkeeperr · 4 months ago
I dont know who needs to hear this but if your hobby starts to not be fun, put it down. It's a hobby, not a full time job or something, don't burn yourself out on something that should be entertaining. Physically can't bring yourself to draw? Put it down. Bored with a crochet project? Put it down. Dropped stitches while knitting and filled with rage? Put it down. It'll come back to you
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softdaisie · a month ago
write that book. publish that blog. apply for that job. dye your hair. cut your bangs. pick up that hobby that you’ve always wanted to try. wear that outfit that you loved but were too afraid to put on in public. life is way too short. be whoever you want to be, and do whatever you want. stop waiting for the right moment, because there will never be one. sometimes you just gotta say fuck it, and do it! live your life the way you want, and don’t ask for anyone’s approval.
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writethatdown · 4 months ago
this is your reminder to start slow and gradually lean into consistency rather than to change your entire routine one fine day. it's okay to start wherever and whenever you feel ready. please don't compare yourself to the highlight reel of people on social media. i promise it's never too late to work on your goals. you don't have to make a drastic change just because it's a new year. time is a social construct and i want nothing more than for you to truly enjoy life at present without worrying too much about the future. you are completely able to achieve goals you have set for yourself, but take it step by step. please avoid burnout and please take rest. wishing you all the best!!
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terusberanjak · 4 hours ago
Bolehkah Aku?
Bolehkah aku meringkukkan badanku dan menyembunyikan wajahku di kedua telapak tanganku kemudian menangis? Sebab aku tak ingin ada orang yang tau aku sedang menahan sesuatu yang ada di kepala.
Ingin kuhempaskan semuanya. Ingin kulempar begitu saja agar seketika pundakku ringan dan kepalaku tak lagi penat, tapi aku tau semuanya akan meringan bila aku memutuskan untuk melaluinya dan tak berhenti di sini. Melalui semuanya dengan lapang dan penuh percaya kepada Allah. Tapi untuk menjadi lapang ternyata tak semudah kata. Lantas bolehkah aku menangis sejenak sebelum kembali berjuang? Menangis semauku tanpa ada yang menilai sisi lemahku.
Banyak pertanyaan berulang menggema di kepalaku walau aku sudah tau jawabannya apa. Kenapa harus aku? Tersebab Allah ingin aku belajar banyak hal. Allah tengah melapangkan hatiku dan membuat aku mengerti sepenuhnya kalau aku sungguh-sungguh lemah tanpa Allah. Aku tau Allah tau kadar kemampuan setiap hamba-Nya. Tapi bolehkah aku menepi sejenak dan istirahat sebentar sebelum kembali berjuang? Sungguh diri ini lemah ya Allah. Maka kuatkan aku dengan Kuasa-Mu.
Sekali lagi bolehkah aku bersembunyi dari banyak orang dan memilih sendiri terlebih dahulu?
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sunshineysprinkles · 8 months ago
idk who needs to hear this today, but don't go lurking on ex friends and partners. nothing you see or read will make you feel better there. all you're doing is hurting your own feelings. leave them in the past and do your best to move on with your own life, to make what you have now happier rather than dwelling on things that used to be (:
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deenbot · 2 days ago
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slfcare · 2 months ago
You are not weak for feeling the weight of everything that you are carrying.
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hekate-writes · 6 months ago
"This reminded me of you" is such a tender sentence. Oh to have impacted someone so much that they find bits of your soul and hold the memory of you in things and places when you're not around.
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chibird · a month ago
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Please don’t feel bad for resting when your body or soul needs it! 💛
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nothingbutloveforyou · a month ago
you can already be proud of yourself. you don’t need to achieve anything, look a certain way or become this person you have in mind to be proud of who you are. your existence is already something to be proud of
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kodigriffinofficial20 · 8 months ago
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Me trying to remind myself that I’m not going to be a terrible writer forever.
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