christwi

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#“why would i be on the side of a self destructive alcoholic” - bloberta 2005

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if someone abuses you, no matter what they say or do, you are not the problem. you are not at fault. you cannot deserve abuse. the way they treat you is a reflection of themself more than it will ever be a reflection on you. you are the victim and the survivor. you got this. keep your head up and remember there are plenty of people in this world who care about you. you just need to find them, and let them in. ♡

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The version of you right now is deserving of love. Not you two years ago when you had more of your shit together, or the five years later version where you’ll surely be thriving. The version of you right now. The one that might just be okay, or is really struggling, or is bored and unproductive. That version deserves love. Having trouble accepting this is fine, but actively denying it is not. Your value is intrinsic, and finding confidence in that is mandatory.

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I hate him, amen 👍 🙏

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I'm aroace. Always have been, always will be. And you know what ticks me off the most about it? It's the sentiment from allo people, that tell aces/aros/aroaces that the love they feel "must be platonic!" Or that if the have sex or date they aren't a real ace/aro/aroace.

This is wrong. It is wrong now, it was wrong then, and it will always b wrong.

Aros are defined as people without any romantic ATTRACTION. They can date, fall in love, or maybe they never will, and they find happiness in that.

Aces are defined as people without any sexual ATTRACTION. They can fuck, fuck around, make dirty jokes, or maybe they never have sex, or are uncomfortable with even the idea being brought up.

Ik this, because I'm aroace, and I'm in a poly relationship. I love my two partners, my boyfriend AND my girlfriend, but you wanna know what? I was never romantically or sexually attracted to them. I, oh so simply, just fell in love with them. I trust them completely, and I love them more than myself.

If I was not in love with them, I would not be in a relationship with them. It's as simple as that. I am not allo, I find no meaning in pretending to be attracted to someone. I've dated before, although it was more from societal pressures than any feelings, and that is why I'm so certain.

I never got a crush phase, never got the butterflies in my stomach or the fantasys about someone I was not close too.

Many aros/aces/aroaces will probably never want or find such relationships with a person. And that's okay, but it does not mean all are like that. People under the A-umbrella are 1000% valid, regardless of their wants/needs to have or not to have a relationship.

The Acespectum is always one of the hardest things to figure out if you are, because it is impossible to teach what the absence of something feels like. So, if you think you are, take it slow. Figure it out at your own pace, and don't be afraid of someone else's anger that you may not fit what they think you should be. In the end it's your choice, your wants, your needs, and your life.

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Honestly I woke up and chose to draw ponies, a side note that I haven't drew a single horse let alone any pony since 7th grade and I'm like year 3 collage ʕ •ᴥ•ʔ

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you guys ever think about how the people who traumatized you are just living their lives now and theyre fine without you and you want so badly for karma to kick them in the ass but they'll always think they were in the right to hurt you like that and dont take your pain seriously

#chris saying words sometimes #kinda vent #sorry

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#I LOVE HTEM

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"aroace people are emotionless" "aroace people are cold" i don't know where that notion came from. i love passionately, obsessively, almost clingily, just not romantically. i love my friends, i love my family, i love my cats. what makes you think i can't love?

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#this is me wanting to show my music taste to my cousin when she hands me her phone to play spotify #like damn why is it all sad shit i promise im mentally stable

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happy lesbian visibility week!! <3 ugh i absolutely adore the idea of these two together, and cant believe this is my first moral orel fanart!

#SO CUTE #oh the background is so gorgeous too how do you do it

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Graffiti seen in a public bathroom in Calgary, Alberta

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Important and urgent, reblog please 😞

Today, a family's home near us was bombed. We have 3,000 dollars left to be able to cover our travel expenses. Help us evacuate before it is too late. Thank you.

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one big happy family

#LOVE THEM

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Ermm i hav artblock but paper orel and bloberta in health 🗣️🗣️🗣️😋

#theyre so :) :3