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History of Step

What is Stepping?

What is Step?

Stepping or step dancing is “a percussive dance in which the participant’s body is used to produce complex rhythms and sounds through a mixture of footsteps, spoken word, and hand-claps,” writes the African American Registry.

Step has its origins in Africa, as dancing has been a large part of traditional African culture for centuries.

Calling Step a "bizarre silent dance without music" has to be one of the wilder antiblack racist descriptions I've ever heard of stepping lmao. Anyway if you see the video, it's step!!! They're stepping!! It's a Black American form of dance!!

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When I was younger and researching the autism diagnosis criteria and symptoms, I thought “oh I couldn’t POSSIBLY be autistic.” Because when I read “takes everything literally” I thought it literally meant EVERYTHING and I was like “I don’t take EVERYTHING literally, just most things!” And I just realized the other day that it didn’t actually mean EVERYTHING and that was an overstatement.

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You will never forget the name Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn after this

Watch the full episode on Dropout

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#orv #han sooyoung #braincell.reblog #sure i'll reblog that

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@ the people who think all nbs are teenagers

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I have never seen bigger dick energy in my entire life!! Holy fuck this woman is queen shit!!

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Gojo not taking care of brats more

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hohoho i think i figured out a theme to satirize in my novel

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This was the last episode of the first season of The Twilight Zone and they never dared to do anything as fucking funny as this again.

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i made some evil aromantic flags

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Since the OP made their post unrebloggable (and blocked me. Both actions they are well in with their right to do)

I'm going to make my response it's own post because I think the point is important

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As someone who is autistic and has BPD and CPTSD and loads of trauma yes you sometimes need to change how you interact with others to keep people around

When I was 13 I hit the few friends I had when I was angry

I had to change that in order to keep those friendships

When I was in my early 20s if I was losing an disagreement with my husband I would threaten to kill myself. My husband told me it hurt him and was cruel and manipulative behaviour, because it was.

So I worked hard to change that to keep my relationship

It's easy to say "I shouldn't have to change for others" and that's true to an extent. You shouldn't change your interests or passions or dim your light. And you should have space to be imperfect and flawed and not have to pretend your ugly bits aren't real. But if something you are doing it causing other people harm you kinda need to change that.

That's called "living in a society"

People adapt to each other and make space for each other in their lives. You adapt to them and they adapt to you

You start being more diligent about throwing away the empty toilet roll because it really bothers them. They start warning you before they run the blender because you hate loud noises

I stopped threatening to kill myself because I was mad I was losing an argument and my husband stopped being so vocally judgemental amount media he personally dislikes

There is a certain type of person who heard the phrase "your emotions are valid" and took that to mean "my emotional reactions and my behaviour are always objectively correct because my emotions are valid and if you have an emotional response or react to what I'm doing negatively then you are wrong and you can't be hurt because my emotions are valid"

And that's a recipe for disaster

Your emotions are valid to feel. They are how you feel and there are reasons you feel the way you do

However, your reactions and behaviour are something you can learn to control and can be irrational

We live in a society and we as people change each other as we interact and that isn't necessarily a bad thing

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I seriously can’t sympathize with the anti pov. Like. The alternative to weirdos jacking off to fake kids or wt.v. isn’t “no weirdos being into kids” its real children being harmed. And one of these things is objectively worse. For actually what do they want to happen ?

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#braincell.reblog #i give less of a fuck whether the person who likes sexual lolisho is attracted to children vs whether it stops them from harming children #sexual lolisho can very much be seen as distasteful and/or gross. but is objectively harming not a single person #so if thats a coping mechanism used to not act on a paraphilia where acting on it will always cause harm? i consider that a net good #really all the pearlclutching about pedophiles liking lolisho type things just comes from not being able to distinguish between #what is 'gross' and what is genuinely harmful #obligatory this is said by a csa survivor who isnt a pedophile yada yada

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