They/he/it transmasc enby | queer and proud đłď¸âđ 21 | Probably draws (icon by me) art blog is @cryptiid-bones , this is just for dumb reblogs | I block empty blogs with default icons | Top interests rn: _Boisvert, horror (esp movies atm), The Magnus Archives (season 4 so far) Hollow Knight, cryptids/monsters, and bugs
Iâm really tired of only seeing posts for trauma survivors who have managed to stay kind. not all of us can. not all of us can do that and still cope.
shoutout to my fellow trauma survivors who expect the worst, who are unfriendly, who have learned not to be vulnerable because people have used vulnerability to hurt you, who are quick to bare teeth, who are jaded and exhausted, who learned to compartmentalize and shut to things away and not feel, who are called bitter and disappoint people who expect us to be model survivors.
we are no less valuable or human than anyone else.
Ok, God, I am fucking wheezing, I got trained to work with mice today since Iâll need them for some experiments and the guy who trained me was like, âYeah ok so if thereâs a day where you just absolutely cannot get your mice to cooperate you can always do thisâ and picks up this cone-shaped bag and just put the mouse face-first into it and shows it to me and I lose my shit because deadass it was a piping-bag of mouse. Like, the whole mouse was pressed into this cone, fur and ears and feet all pressed up against the plastic, tail sticking up absurdly out of the top of the thing. It was so unimaginably fucking funny but like the mouse was perfectly ok with it, thereâs a hole for air at the bottom so she could breathe and all but it was genuinely the most absurd thing I have witnessed in months
online harassment campaigns are genuinely terrifying and part of why they're terrifying is that they make you feel like you're going insaneâespecially if they're false, frame you maliciously on purpose or blow things wayy out of proportionâbecause like. asides from it feeling really fucking bad due to the aforementioned tide of toxic sludge coming your way all at once, you genuinely start to doubt your perception of reality because surely this isn't... right? surely people can tell this isn't real/there's no way this kind of reaction is warranted or deserved, right?
if any of your friends ever go through that the single most helpful thing you can do is reach out to them & be like "jesus christ these people are nuts, are you okay?" PLEASE do, even privately if you're afraid of being dragged in. they'll never thank you enough, it's a literal life raft for their sanity
you came back wrong and i am racked with guilt because i cannot bear to see you like this and i should have let you rest. i loved you so much that i defied death itself but i do not think either of us are happy
furries are at least 2.25x more likely to have been diagnosed with a form of autism, are on average 50-100% more likely to have experienced bullying unrelated to being a furry growing up than their peers, only 10% identify as heterosexual, and 50% of furries are found to experience some form of disability
i'm just really tired of seeing people in 2023 still acting like there's no possible connection to be made with seeing furries as disgusting sex perverts who deserve to be ostracized and bullied or made fun of when 9 out of 10 of us are queer
The absolute worst shit of any discourse over an identity being inherently worse than another is when someone from that identity agrees and closes themselves inside an echo chamber dedicated to shitting on people like them and they just keep repeating how it's real that they are awful.
Lately it's happening so much with transmascs. so many young transmascs are seeing words from radical feminists saying how men are inherently evil and how only women can ever be oppressed and somehow they eat this information right up, going to great lengths to protect people who want them dead.
And as a trans woman this is absolutely dreadful.
You are not helping anyone by saying how you do not matter. You are not helping anyone by saying you do not suffer. You are not helping anyone by denying yourself.
I will mark you as unsafe for me for now. But I wish you good luck.