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looking for LA models, pretty girls bring your wigs💕

#lahairstylist #wiginstall #laceenthusiast #modelswanted #hair model

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Cidade de Deus, 2002 dir. by Fernando Meirelles & Kátia Lund

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LEARN TO TAKE PICS LIKE LORI

Pro Tip: To take your pics to a more polished level, study runway models and their red carpet pics/ video glimpses.

RULE #1 : STOP STANDING STILL

Master the skill of being still…enough to pause and pose for a clear shot while being in a steady motion enough for the photographer to take a variety of pics in a matter of seconds. View the visuals below as an example:

Make sure you move enough. Feet. Hips. Chin Up. Chin Down. Turn to the side. Let me break it down how I learned:

One Leg Linda

This is a reliable pose for a charity event pic and to poke your leg out of a sexy slit dress.

Stand Straight

Arch Back

Straighten Chin & Shoulders

Step One Leg Out

Step Back- No Legs Out

Step (Other) One Leg Out

Step Back- No Legs Out

Remember how we mentioned moving in motion? Now that you’re back standing straight, you’re going to move into your next pose:

Side Step Sally

There’s a couple of different ways to jazz this pose up. Repeat the same process as above, however stepping slightly to the left AND right.

RAZZLE DAZZLE IDEAS

Step OUT and then to the SIDE, as Lori is doing in the black pic

Step OUT, angle your foot to show the side of your heel and FLEX your calf and POINT your toes. Former Stripper tip!

Point your HEAD and FOOT (of the leg out) as if you were posing facing forward for three different individuals were photographing you. It allows you to capture multiple angles of your face profile, body shape and outfit.

Pro Tip: Have your photographer (your date, bf, etc.) step to their right and left (or move the camera) before you break a pose, capturing THREE DIFFERENT ANGLES of ONE pose.

See “One Leg Linda” for a visual example.

Hip n’ Heels

This is my favorite because you can capture your Facebook family friendly pics while getting your sexy “you see this booty” pics for the gram.

Prepare to move in a North-South-East-West motion.

Straighten Back

Place Hand on Hip

Cross your preferred foot over the other (as Lori is doing in the first pic)

Move Chin in a Traffic Light Motion every 2 seconds (Red, Yellow, Green) to capture front facing pics.

Turn your HEAD to the left

Turn your HEAD to the right

Uncross Feet

Repeat 6& 7

Look Back (At It) as Lori is doing in the pic to the right while moving chin in traffic light motion.

Pose as if you’re a socialite who has to prepare to be photographed by paparazzi.

Until next time baddies 🧿💕🕯💅🏾

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Shontelle, Impossible, 2010

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“I used to dislike being sensitive. I thought it made me weak. But take away that single trait, and you take away the very essence of who I am. You take away my conscience, my ability to empathize, my intuition, my creativity, my deep appreciation for the little things, my vivid inner life, my deep awareness of others’ pain, and my passion for it all.”

— Unknown

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“She didn’t need to be saved. She needed to be found and appreciated for exactly who she was.”

— j. iron word

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Janet Jackson, Doesn’t Really Matter, 2000

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SZA for Complex

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｡ﾟﾟ･｡･ﾟﾟ｡ ﾟ. October will bring blessings.

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“patience can persuade a prince, and soft speech can break bones.”

patience is a virtue alright.

I’ve always prided myself in being a “people person”. Being empathetic, a good listener, and patient have always been things I felt I excelled in.

With that being said, I have much room for growth! Yay~

Reminders:

When you feel like someone isn’t considering your feelings, express and articulate exactly what you are feeling and why. Communication and vulnerability are key to being an authentic individual. Creating an open dialogue will not only aid you in being heard, but reassure the other person they are also being heard.

No matter how well you think a person may know you, we are always discovering new things about the people around us. Think about how you even notice new things about yourself. Every experience you share with your people is a learning and teachable moment. We are all just learning each other.

Think about all the things you’ve done or have dealt with today that no one will know about. Now imagine the same for every person you encounter. A lack of curiosity and overall altruism in how we interact with each other robs us of invaluable relationships.

title:proverbs 25:15

#feminine journey #black femininity #patience #communication skills #soft black women #soft skills #altruism #active listening

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dats my type

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POV: a spoiled baby girl

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“I hope you do yourself the favor of focusing your energy on the people who love to love you. The ones that make you feel worthy just by how they look at you or how often they remind you of your greatness. I hope you direct your attention towards those that show up for you today.” -Gaialect

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i never should’ve cut my hair🫣

i’m trying to remind myself, HEALTH over LENGTH! plus it wasn’t even that long as you can see.

i just feel a lot of pressure to have longer hair, wear wigs, etc. in order to be seen as feminine.

but my femininity is in my spirit, in my skin, every inch of my body. my femininity is in how i love myself and others, in my softness, in my true identity.

after realizing that, i don’t mind having shorter hair, i still feel beautiful and sexy🧏🏽‍♀️