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When your f/o doesn’t have a love interest:

#i don't think any of mine have love interests? #maybe kylo? #hahaha no of course he didn't that would have been bad writing

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someone in the tag: I platonically ship with [character I have as romantic f/o]!

me, sobbing tears of joy: friends? you’re friends with them? they’re your friends and you hang out with them because you think they’re cool?

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Uhhh i decided i'd take part in the takeover even idk if it's still happening but for the next three days Ren, Itaru, and Lapin will be taking over this ask blog~

You can find out more about them on my carrd. foxlove.carrd.co~

#f/o #self shipping community #self shipping #event: takeover

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Romantic F/O Takeover Questions

A large list of general questions for those who don’t know what to ask people during the takeover! In order to use these, you have to practice ask and reblog karma. It’s only fair that you send somebody an ask before reblogging this from them, and if you see someone reblog it from you, you should send them an ask, too. An ask for an ask, you could say. This way, no one feels left out.

What sorts of things do you associate with your s/o?

What is your love language? What is your s/os?

Do you prefer material gifts such as jewelry, clothes, games, etc., or do you prefer immaterial gifts such as dinner, vacations, trips to the movies or amusement parks? What about your s/o?

Did you know your s/o long before you two became a couple, or was the relationship established relatively quickly after you both met?

Are you okay with PDA? How affectionate are you willing to get in public?

Are you a “actions speak louder than words” type of lover or do you prefer verbal declarations of your thoughts and feelings?

Do you have any big plans for your s/o in the near future? Perhaps any surprises?

What is your contact name in your s/o’s phone? What is their contact name in your phone?

Are you open about you relationship or do you prefer to keep it private, perhaps even hiding it from most people around you?

Have you met your s/o’s family? (If so, how did they react to meeting you, and how do they feel about you now?) Have you met theirs? (Likewise, if so, how did they react to meeting them and how do they feel about them now?)

What do you want out of the future with your s/o? Do you want marriage, a family, a houseful of dogs? Or do you not think that far ahead and prefer to focus entirely on the here and now? Do you know if they have any thoughts like this?

What is your preferred method of flirting? Are you physical, do you use cheesy but harmless pick-up lines, or are you heavy-handed in your approach? How do they react to being flirted with? If you don’t flirt with them, how else do you (or did you) show them you were interested in them?

What’s a typical conversation like between you and your s/o? Do you both joke around with each other and have inside jokes? Do you swap memes at ungodly hours of the night? Do you get philosophical with each other? Or are you both more likely to quietly communicate with each other, such as with looks and touches?

What is the most creative date you both have ever been on? If you haven’t had the chance to go on any dates yet, what’s the most creative idea you can think of?

Have any of your habits rubbed off on your s/o? For example, have they adopted some of your speech patterns into their daily conversations, or perhaps you have a habit of moving your hands a certain way that they unknowingly have started to mimic? Anything like that. Have they influenced you in a similar fashion?

How open are you with your s/o? Do you tell them everything, or do you still have your own secrets?

Do you both have any inside jokes?

What’s the silliest thing you’ve ever had a disagreement on? Were you aware at the time that it was silly, or do you only realize that now when thinking back on it?

Would you let your s/o wear your clothes, if they could? Would they let you wear theirs if their clothes fit?

What’s the most romantic thing you can remember having done for them? What’s the most romantic thing they’ve done for you?

How romantic would you say you are? Do you do a lot of romantic things for your s/o, or do find that you’re more reserved with your affections—not because you love them less, but because it’s just your personality or you’re too busy to do much else (or whatever your reasoning may be). What about your s/o?

Have you developed any new hobbies thanks to your s/o’s influence? If so, what were they? What about the other way around?

What is something you and your s/o can never seem to agree on? (For example: sweet food vs. spicy food, pineapple on pizza, what shows you get to record, etc.)

Is your current s/o your first relationship? What about your first love? Are you their first relationship? What about their first love?

Have you both said “I love you” yet or are you still waiting for the right moment?

How do you tell your s/o you love them without using those three words? How do you show them?

What are some pet names/nicknames you use for your s/o? Which one is their favorite? What names do they use for you, and which one is your favorite?

What’s something you love about your s/o that isn’t typically complimented or observed? For example, the way they wear their hair, how they act when they are excited, little idle animations they do when they aren’t paying attention, etc.

What do you and your s/o do while stuck at home together? Are you both stir-crazy or are you both in your elements? What do you do to pass the time?

Can you cook? Have you ever cooked for your s/o? How did it go? Would you do it again?

Do you share any interests? If so, what are they? If not, what sorts of things do you both do together?

Is there anything you’ve ever wanted to tell your s/o but could never find the courage to do so? If so, what is it?

Do you prefer to go out for dates or to stay in? Do you both take turns planning dates, or is it a cooperative planning process for each date? Any thoughts on spontaneous dates?

Who’s the taller one in the relationship? What is your height difference? If it’s significant, is there any way to accomodate for it, or does one of you have to suffer through back/shoulder pain when you lean down for kisses?

Would you ever go on a group date (double date and beyond) with your s/o and either their friends or your friends? Have you ever gone on one before?

What do your friends think of your s/o? Have they met them? What do your s/o’s friends think of you, and have you met them too?

#owo #ohhhh~ #i should do this... #otp: pinky promise #otp: the luckiest pull #rfp: holiday heretics

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tag your self ship

#rfp: holiday heretics #otp: pinky promise #this me when i'm bein goofy

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There’s nothing that can compare to that look your F/O gives you when they’re listening to you talk about something you’re passionate about. They rest their chin on their hand, head slightly tilted, listening intently with a smile.

They love seeing how invested you are in your interests, but not just that: they love who you are.

#=w= #otp: pinky promise #otp: the luckiest pull #rfp: risky business #rfp: holiday heretics #ffp: fairytale beginnings #ffp: do you believe in magic #i'm not adding kylo or harry bc harry would sometimes enjoy it and sometimes tell me to shut up and #idk i don't think kylo would show any look on his face even if he was enjoying it

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loving the “all my F/Os hanging out together” idea if only because they’re ALL just DEATH GLARING at All Might, the only protagonist in the room. 

#this is hysterical #i feel like this is what my list was like with asra and muriel #everyone: we love dating piper #asra and muriel: we love dating piper and each other #everyone but vincent; annabelle; and lando: *awkward staring* #annabelle: how is THAT what's weird to you #vincent: yeah GO HOME

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A special shout-out to all of the questioning selfshippers. The ones that aren't quite sure of their gender and/or sexuality. The ones that are experimenting with labels. The ones that are stressed trying to figure out who they are. The ones that aren't so stressed. The ones that turn out to not be queer

It's ok to not know. Take all the time you need to feel comfortable. Your f/os will be here, with you, through it all. They'll use whatever labels and pronouns you experiment with if you want them to. They want you to be happy too!

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wait hold on i have the best idea hold on

#otp: pinky promise #my house with ren: #just a wall of dvds; many unlabeled #the type of landscape painting you find in a hotel; was it taken from one? who knows #a metal ring in the wall; if you ask what the fuck it's for ren will pull out a flower from a vase and place it in the hole and grin #otp: the luckiest pull #my house with itaru: #a full on shelf for the amount of shoes in the entryway #a number of coat hangers with coats hanging from them in the entryway as well #what looks suspiciously like a fake cockatiel with a bowtie that suddenly starts talking to you #the others live on spaceships or don't live with me

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I now have my s/i for itaru and muku up on my bio. I also made ship tags!!!

Ren [#otp: pinky promise]

Kylo [#otp: season of the witch]

Itaru [#otp: the luckiest pull]

Lando [#rfp: risky business]

Lapin [#rfp: holiday heretics]

Harry [#rfp: crazy on you]

Muku [#ffp: fairytale beginnings]

Primsy [#ffp: do you believe in magic]

I also have been thinking of making dynamic tags for certain f/os. Mainly i really liked the tag [#otp: ssr submissive] for itaru but 🙊 that's a bit intense hehe.

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My f/o when I’m in a bad mood <3

#this is too stinkin cute #this is me and ren #i also made ship tags finally #otp: pinky promise

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F/O, stroking S/I’s head: You’re so adorable.

S/I, half asleep: I could kick your ass right now.

F/O, looking at S/I with heart eyes: I know

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tbh i feel too scared most of the time to talk about my ships. im a pro-shipper + age up F/Os which is the exact reason why im scared cause people will have your head as soon as they know this [ for the most part ] in this community. its terrifying and its making me feel like I need to drop all my f/os and just stop. and it hurts even thinking that.. - 🔪💗🩸

I really wish this community would just come together over liking weird characters. It’s already so hard to be able to talk about that offline, why do we have so much infighting over something as trivial as wanting to kiss 2D characters? 

#im not really pro or anti but this x___x #sometimes if the character is really young like 13 and under i get a little weirded out even if they're aged up #but like when i'm consuming media i tend to feel the same age as the characters bc they aren't like #physical ppl in front of me #and this is esp true for characters i grew up with as a kid #e___e idk why some characters feel like 'this is a child' to me and others feel the same age but #that's how i've been feeling on this issue the more i'm in the community

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a softer one, but i'm stuck here thinking a lot about your fave being just super gentle and careful with you because you used the safeword last time. they're really scared to hurt you again, and it takes them a bit to get anywhere near their normal level of enthusiasm. it's almost maddening, but at least they care ;w; ~🔊

#YES

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>__> ok so itaru is definitely an f/o now too... sakyo MAYBE but i still don’t know

which is weird bc these are the two i did not like at the beginning

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Foxglove || they/them || Adult

This blog has kink, dark themes, and sexual content on it. 18+ only. Please ask if you need anything tagged! [#no more scurvy] is my tag for sexual content.

For a full list of my F/O’s please check out my carrd @ foxlove.carrd.co!

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i’m working on my bio again lmao mainly bc i’m dropping a bunch of f/o’s bc they don’t really interest me much anymore? which sucks but :( some of them i haven’t consumed the media they’re from in like. a year or more.

current list rn:

Ren, Kylo Ren, Lando, Lapin, Harry, Leia, Goofy, Primsy, and Muku (who is new)

i might get rid of lapin, too? but i’m attached to my s/i for him and still want to write that fic.