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on today’s episode of santi is going to be soft today, we have one mr spencer reid! today’s episode is going to include screaming about the fact that this marriage has survived 1 year of existence, lots of the homemade hot chocolate mix i made a few days ago, and watching disney movies, mainly the little mermaid, sleeping beauty, and rapunzel because i love all three and i know they’re secretly spencer’s favorite.

#santi speaks #of bookworms and coffeeshops #it is so cold in my house it's fluffy blanket time #how how howhow did i end up with this perfect goofball #happy anniversary spence <3

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call me lovestruck

i did this at, like, 11 last night im .... whatever, it's fine. here're the closeups!! ☆︎

#wtf your art style is adorable #and this is cute #like hella cute #other peoples ships n things #the duality of the blue and pink and the kinda chibi anime art style? #chef's kiss amazing #santi rambles

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F/O QUESTIONS - Soft/Domestic Edition

1.) Describe your f/o’s voice. Is it deep and rough, or smooth and sweet? Does it happen to have an accent or a lisp?

2.) What chores is your f/o good at? Maybe folding laundry, or mowing the lawn/gardening? What chores do they do that you usually don’t?

3.) Is your f/o a cuddler, and do they get more cuddlier in private?

4.) What ways does your f/o show their love for you? By surprising you with your favourite snack once in a while, or giving you back massages when you’re in pain?

5.) Who’s more spontaneous? Would your f/o randomly want to go on a midnight drive out in town or would they be the one to complain that they’re tired?

6.) Is your f/o fussy over you if you have any self-destructive behaviours? What are their ways of making you care for yourself?

7.) What’s their signature thing they like to do when annoying you? Putting their cold hands on your skin? Poking you right in your ticklish areas?

8.) What do they usually do to take care of you when you’re ill, and vice versa? (More importantly, do they burn the soup?)

9.) What texts or phonecalls do you expect from them during the day? What do you text them during the day?

10.) What’s their contact name and assigned picture? What do they have for you?

11.) Would they be up for a date inside the animal crossing museum?

12.) Describe their hugs/cuddles.

13.) What would you cook them when you’re trying to surprise them? What gifts would you get them?

14.) Can the two of you act like functioning humans inside a grocery store together or are you both too good at getting off track and making the other laugh?

15.) What’s an inside joke between the two of you?

#greetings people of earth #dec 3 is my one year w spencer #so today will be a loving spencer reid kinda dayyyyyyyyyyyyy #and i thought i'd do a lil domesticity thingy bc Married Life Is Fun tm #santi speaks #send me shit #please i've been in a whack mental state the last month and want to be happy and gushy

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i wanna do a special anniversary thingy tomorrow for me n spence but idk what to do, if i do another generic ask thingy or if i say “wedding related ama” like would that be cool??? would y’all like????

#santi speaks #i need to recover from this blah mood i've been in and y'all make me happy and i forgot that #i won't forget that again

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i’m back, bitches

after an almost month long mental breakdown, i have returned to say MY ANNIVERSARY WITH MY HUBBY IS TMRW AND I HOPE Y’ALL HAVEN’T FORGOTTEN ABOUT ME

#santi speaks #look whos back #i'm not dead

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brain this morning : alright santi you’re gonna write today once you get home from work brain now : hehehe writing who’s she

#santi speaks #santi is also tired of the lack of motivation #brain machine not functional anymore

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Romantic F/O Takeover Questions

A large list of general questions for those who don’t know what to ask people during the takeover! In order to use these, you have to practice ask and reblog karma. It’s only fair that you send somebody an ask before reblogging this from them, and if you see someone reblog it from you, you should send them an ask, too. An ask for an ask, you could say. This way, no one feels left out.

What sorts of things do you associate with your s/o?

What is your love language? What is your s/os?

Do you prefer material gifts such as jewelry, clothes, games, etc., or do you prefer immaterial gifts such as dinner, vacations, trips to the movies or amusement parks? What about your s/o?

Did you know your s/o long before you two became a couple, or was the relationship established relatively quickly after you both met?

Are you okay with PDA? How affectionate are you willing to get in public?

Are you a “actions speak louder than words” type of lover or do you prefer verbal declarations of your thoughts and feelings?

Do you have any big plans for your s/o in the near future? Perhaps any surprises?

What is your contact name in your s/o’s phone? What is their contact name in your phone?

Are you open about you relationship or do you prefer to keep it private, perhaps even hiding it from most people around you?

Have you met your s/o’s family? (If so, how did they react to meeting you, and how do they feel about you now?) Have you met theirs? (Likewise, if so, how did they react to meeting them and how do they feel about them now?)

What do you want out of the future with your s/o? Do you want marriage, a family, a houseful of dogs? Or do you not think that far ahead and prefer to focus entirely on the here and now? Do you know if they have any thoughts like this?

What is your preferred method of flirting? Are you physical, do you use cheesy but harmless pick-up lines, or are you heavy-handed in your approach? How do they react to being flirted with? If you don’t flirt with them, how else do you (or did you) show them you were interested in them?

What’s a typical conversation like between you and your s/o? Do you both joke around with each other and have inside jokes? Do you swap memes at ungodly hours of the night? Do you get philosophical with each other? Or are you both more likely to quietly communicate with each other, such as with looks and touches?

What is the most creative date you both have ever been on? If you haven’t had the chance to go on any dates yet, what’s the most creative idea you can think of?

Have any of your habits rubbed off on your s/o? For example, have they adopted some of your speech patterns into their daily conversations, or perhaps you have a habit of moving your hands a certain way that they unknowingly have started to mimic? Anything like that. Have they influenced you in a similar fashion?

How open are you with your s/o? Do you tell them everything, or do you still have your own secrets?

Do you both have any inside jokes?

What’s the silliest thing you’ve ever had a disagreement on? Were you aware at the time that it was silly, or do you only realize that now when thinking back on it?

Would you let your s/o wear your clothes, if they could? Would they let you wear theirs if their clothes fit?

What’s the most romantic thing you can remember having done for them? What’s the most romantic thing they’ve done for you?

How romantic would you say you are? Do you do a lot of romantic things for your s/o, or do find that you’re more reserved with your affections—not because you love them less, but because it’s just your personality or you’re too busy to do much else (or whatever your reasoning may be). What about your s/o?

Have you developed any new hobbies thanks to your s/o’s influence? If so, what were they? What about the other way around?

What is something you and your s/o can never seem to agree on? (For example: sweet food vs. spicy food, pineapple on pizza, what shows you get to record, etc.)

Is your current s/o your first relationship? What about your first love? Are you their first relationship? What about their first love?

Have you both said “I love you” yet or are you still waiting for the right moment?

How do you tell your s/o you love them without using those three words? How do you show them?

What are some pet names/nicknames you use for your s/o? Which one is their favorite? What names do they use for you, and which one is your favorite?

What’s something you love about your s/o that isn’t typically complimented or observed? For example, the way they wear their hair, how they act when they are excited, little idle animations they do when they aren’t paying attention, etc.

What do you and your s/o do while stuck at home together? Are you both stir-crazy or are you both in your elements? What do you do to pass the time?

Can you cook? Have you ever cooked for your s/o? How did it go? Would you do it again?

Do you share any interests? If so, what are they? If not, what sorts of things do you both do together?

Is there anything you’ve ever wanted to tell your s/o but could never find the courage to do so? If so, what is it?

Do you prefer to go out for dates or to stay in? Do you both take turns planning dates, or is it a cooperative planning process for each date? Any thoughts on spontaneous dates?

Who’s the taller one in the relationship? What is your height difference? If it’s significant, is there any way to accomodate for it, or does one of you have to suffer through back/shoulder pain when you lean down for kisses?

Would you ever go on a group date (double date and beyond) with your s/o and either their friends or your friends? Have you ever gone on one before?

What do your friends think of your s/o? Have they met them? What do your s/o’s friends think of you, and have you met them too?

#inhales deeply #PLEASE #I'm doing that f/ovember thing this can count as it #bls y'all santi is bored #send me shit #I'm still feeling kind of ew and asks would make my day just like they always do

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S/I: My partner is too tall for me to kiss them on the lips, what should I do?

Platonic F/O: Punch them in the stomach. Then, when they double over in pain, kiss them.

Platonic F/O: Tackle them.

Platonic F/O: Kick them in the shin.

Romantic F/O: NO TO ALL OF THOSE, JUST ASK ME TO LEAN DOWN!

#me n sammy ngl #i honestly think that the platonic f/os would be ( in order ) : rowena then dean then cas #or maybe rowena then cas then dean #all i know is rowena is all for punching #i can already see the chaos that would ensue the moment i say it #smoke and daisies

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#side eye emoji at a few people in particular #but i'm like reluctant to add them bc my brain wants to know like yes u belong on this list before they get added #am i the only one that happens to? bc like??????????? #it's great and horrible at the same time #santi speaks

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REBLOG THIS IF ITS OKAY AND YOU'RE COMFORTABLE FOR ANONS TO SEND TO RANDOM LETTERS FROM UR F/O

#is it begging yet? #is it? #santi speaks #ikik i'm not 'popular' enough for this yet plus all my mutuals have like #anime f/os and idk how to anime i've only ever seen like 1 #but ur local disaster can dream

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Reblog this if you want a sudden and magical ask from your f/o(s) to appear in your inbox <3

#bls #what my little heart would do for smth from one of my Babies #especially after the night i had last night #like smth from spencer or sam or vanya especially would make my heart go asdfghjkl

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tonight was a blah blah ew kind of night as far as emotions go so you're out of your mind if you think I am not spending tonight the place I feel safest and most grounded : in a massive bunker, in lebanon kansas, curled up in this man's arms. it's been a loving sam winchester kinda day and it's a loving sam winchester kinda night

#smoke and daisies #maybe it's because my brain somehow registers Sam = safe no matter what #idk I've been thinking of sammy all day and I just Need More #hhhh I need to try to sleep #just his grin and his hair and his arms and HIM #he makes my heart go :D:D:D:D #also it's 12:38 am and I need to try and sleep at some point tonight

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when you cannot find a single good ask meme that fits the moment's Emotion and it's 12:15 am and you really wanna sleep but can't bc Stress and Also This Political Storm and Also Personal Life but u rlly wanna be soft and can only akskajag about ur f/os so many times before you run out if things to akskajag about

#lol what do #like I have root beer it's after midnight and election night is making me have Emotions I didn't wanna feel #basically just a desire to be soft and cuddly specifically w one mr samuel william winchester #I will probably end up deleting all these posts after the election is over bc I feel like that's a main reason for my sudden Upset

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on tonight's episode of it's 10:30 at night and I no longer know whether this is just escapism or actual healthy coping techniques : I wanna talk about Sam Winchester. My ask box is open for my moose man and I wanna be able to just be squishy bc I feel all icky and gross and sad and stuff ( also I decided I wanna do that f/ovember thing so like idk that's a possibility )

#send me shit #it's late and I don't expect any asks #but getting some and getting to be all mushy with Sam might make me feel a little better #because for some reason Sam Winchester makes the world feel a tiny bit more alright #I'll probably delete this tomorrow if I get no asks but I'm upset for a Multitude Of Reasons and just wanna feel better #hhhhhhhhh if this stays around I'll add the smoke and daisies tag

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does anyone else have that one f/o who is always the comfort go-to???

#looking at u mr #samuel william winchester #fuckin moose man I love so very much #he's like one of the few men taller than me bc I'm 5'9'' and moose is just large #also hhh very snuggly like much snuggle #and much snuggle is what I need rn I cannot find that cuddling ask meme I kept seeing #not like I'd get asks anyway it's 10:30 at night #this could honestly go in the smoke and daisies tag but I'll leave it just #santi speaks

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you know you're really upset when not even daydreaming about your f/os makes you feel any better

#I don't wanna put this in my usual santi speaks tag bc I don't wanna have to deal with this bull ever again #if you're a trump supporter please leave my blog #and never come back #my state is leaning red and I now want very deeply to move #I usually try to avoid politics but leaving agent orange in the White House is where I draw the line #I can't even sleep #god I just want to be able to not stress about something please #think happy thoughts santi #happy thoughts

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hhhhh today’s issues make me want to just turn off the tv and be a squish with my f/os and i’ve been spending all day with sam and hhh i just wanna curl up in bed with him and watch shitty documentaries about weird things all night because i can hhhhh

#santi speaks #Soft Santi Hours #but here i am on tumblr reading some self insert fanfics to fulfill my brain gremlin's wishes #almost anyway #like it's close enough to my ideas hhhh