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to everyone who thinks their trauma responses are an over reaction because their traumatic experience was mild compared to other people’s:
The people who had the “worse” trauma also think they’re overreacting to a mild issue. The sole survivors of plane crashes, abused children, people sold into slavery and Vietnam draftees also think they’re overreacting. there are even people who survived *Auschwitz* who think they’re being overly dramatic. These people are even TOLD they’re over reacting by third parties. Everyone thinks their trauma wasn’t that bad and they’re making it all up. Trust me, if symptoms are there, it was real trauma and it was severe. You are not over reacting.
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Distract Yourself
Some more alternatives to self harm:
A Nintendo Gamecube/Wii emulator for PC
A Gameboy Advance emulator for Android with instructions on setuphere
French Toast Roll Ups recipe (with strawberries and nutella, though worth trying chocolate bits and melted chocolate maybe???)
Bacon And Egg Toast Cups recipe
An application that allows you to write with words!
A list of pretty awesome songs
One of Jack And Dean’s best YouTube videos
Eggless Cookie Dough recipe
Boggle The Owl
BRAWNDO THE THIRST MUTILATOR
Supernatural episodes (adblock is recommended)
Torchwood episodes (adblock is recommended)
Doctor Who episodes (adblock is recommended)
Gravity Falls episodes (adblock is recommended)
Helpful websites:
best learning website ever
can’t remember the name of a song?
check the trust level of any website
consult this site before choosing a seat for your next flight
find the name to the song
is this website down for me or everyone?
Less confusing view of the world time zones
need a random number for a contest?
never hit a dead end with a broken link
self defense tips(x)
survival tips
upload anything from your iPhone etc. to your laptop
wanna know how stuff works?
watch movies/draw/everything??? with your online friends
How To: 
how to improve your self-esteem
how to look busy at work/school
how to love yourself
how to pull an all nighted but do well on your exam
how to study well
how to survive College
how to write an essay
Life Tips:
life tips
life tips for college
life tips for lazy people
99 life hacks to make your life easier
playlists // don’t be down / happy, happy, happy / cheer up!! / feeling down? / upbeat / for when you’re feeling sad.. / be happy! / songs to listen to when you are feeling sad. / anxiety/panic attacks / dashboard session /nostalgic. / it’s okay, not be okay. / anxiety’s lullaby / don’t be sad / songs that make you feel better / hey man, it’ll be okay. / note to self. / forget about it / baby don’t cut 
cheering up // emergency compliment!! / paying for people’s groceries /random acts of kindness caught on film / free hugs experiment / tipping servers $200 / little acts of kindness / 27 videos that will make you happy /givesmehope / textpost blog!! / the everything post / repeat after me. / feel like you lost something? / you are not alone. / just listen to this / cute yahoo answers / nail art tuts / bad x-factor auditions / need a hug?  / you can do anything 
cool stuff // music thing / how to lucid dream!! / teach yourself guitar (wow)/ learn a new language / creepy websites / the color game / make a mind palace / explore the world / make a temporary tattoo! / musical sea creature // babies experiencing things / 7 day positive challenge / if you forgot how beautiful the world is / draw a nebula / watch documentaries /sugar cookies recipe / 100 things to do / anasomnia / kawaii emotions /100+ games / make your own font
depression // how to love yourself / alternatives to self harm / what am i feeling? / if you feel like crap / dealing with depression / let go of your past./ what is depression? / depression & cutting/things to do instead of cutting/ alternatives to self harm / the cure to sadness! (in under 3 minutes) /things to do when you’re sad  / feel good 101: depression/ stop cutting, create instead
anxiety/stress // soundrown / build stuff with sand / rainymood / chill out /zen garden / managing stress / social anxiety tips / PTSD forums / anti-anxiety masterpost / a place to think / calming manatee / the dawn room /100,000 stars / types of anxiety disorders / anxiety attack tips / anti-anxiety foods / using a thought diary / panic attacks & anxiety /
eating disorders // bloating in recovery  / why you must eat / what is ED recovery? / learning to love your body / how to eat a fear food / helping someone with an eating disorder / 281 reasons to recover /
asking for help // telling people how you’re feeling / how do i tell someone when im afraid? /  how to ask for help / anxiety forums / 
movies, documentaries, tv // action movies / disney movies / scary movies/ movies for angsty teens / my mad, fat diary / mean girls / blue is the warmest color / submarine / teen wolf / the vampire diaries / pretty little liars/ american horror story / bob’s burgers / the mindy project / ultimate teen movie masterpost / hannah montana / sherlock / american beauty 
ART:
colour
the psychology of color
how to mix skin tones
color harmony
a ton of colour palettes
how to contour/highlight
colour meanings
how to colour
how to draw…
how to draw hoods
how to draw boobs in shirts
how to draw hair
how to draw faces
another face tutorial
how to draw hands
how to draw mouths
how to draw expressions
more expressions
cargsdoodle’s body tutorial
how to draw arms
how to avoid same facing
how to draw clothing folds
references
drawing references
hairstyle references
eye references
a ton of clothing references
ear references
kneeling/sitting references
kissing references
downloads
adobe creative suite 2 free download
sai brush downloads
sai brushes
alternative to photoshop
photoshop for free
mypaint drawing program
a ton of free art programs
other
pixel art: a beginner’s guide
an AWESOME tutorial masterpost
my art tag
glitch effect tutorial
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The world is a beautiful place.
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stop!!! letting!!! famous!!! men!!! get!!! away!!! with!!! abuse!!! against!!! women!!!
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I don’t feel strong enough but I always am
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has anyone else noticed there’s a very specific way women interrupt each other in conversation that’s quite distinct from the way men interrupt women in conversation? like, women seem to interject a lot more– not as a silencing tactic, but to show their enthusiasm or agreement, cause they perceive a conversation as kind of collaborative, organic exercise. but i feel like men get really annoyed if you excitedly interject when they’re saying something (most specifically in a debate/discussion context) because they perceive conversation as something combative or competitive and see an interjection as a threat or a challenge. i’ve also noticed men dismiss women’s way of talking as being sort of incomprehensible and nonsensical because of this habit we have of seeming to butt in or finish each others sentences excitably. 
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            !!!!!!!!PLEASE HELP TO SPREAD THIS!!!!!!
Gay men in Russia are being rounded up and put into concentration camps.  I’m so beyond upset and I’m asking you to help spread this information in hopes that it will bring this disgustingly horrible situation more media attention and put additional pressure on Russia to investigate these camps and shut them down.
There is a petition to stop the persecution here and the Russian LGBT Network has a donation page here (it looks pretty legit to me and is associated with a Facebook page with 12,000+ followers, but if anyone can find more information confirming the validity of it that would be beyond appreciated.)
These men are all the way across the world but they’re part of my community and they need our help. They don’t have the same luxuries (basic human rights) that we do and they are in desperate need for us to help speak up for them. 
You can read the full article here or google the topic for more information. Please.
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The hype for this dope “Life Begins After Coffee” design from Heavy Heart Clothing Co. is unreal! Pick yourself up one once they go live from www.heavyheartclothingco.com! Use the code “ILLICITBEHAVIOUR15” to save yourself 15% off anything in store. ig: @heavyheartclothingco
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lol last year this girl i went to middle school with came into my work and we were talking and she asked me if i still talk to my ex. i said no she was like why not??? i said he was abusive so, and she goes "oh but still, we all grew up together" and some other bullshit about staying friends. just now i saw on my facebook feed that she posted a picture with him like lol i told you what he is girl be careful he might try to manipulate or sexually assault you lmao
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The reason I will never forget you, she said, is that you were the one who made me forget myself and for that I can never forgive you.
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