love-lies-cymes

[love-lies-cymes]

Hpd culture is having a depressive mood swing every time you're even slightly off to the side in a group activity

.

[love-lies-cymes]

HPD culture is kind of wanting hpd to "blow up" on tiktok like autism, bpd, etc because we get like the least attention out of the cluster Bs (ironically), but also not because then we wont be as special...

.

[love-lies-cymes]

how am i genuinely mad at my bsf for hating on music i enjoy. Not that I enjoy it, just disliking the music itself

[love-lies-cymes]

I hate going through cluster B tags sometimes, I don’t need some bitch to tell me I’m “ valid ” . I know that . I also don’t really care whether or not a stranger thinks I’m morally upstanding . . . Now, where are my silly little relatable posts ?

[love-lies-cymes]

Hpd culture is knowing that trauma isnt a competition and knowing that all trauma is valid but needings yours to be worse than everyone elses. I need pity and I need people to feel sorry for me or my trauma wasnt bad enough and i need to get worse

.

[love-lies-cymes]

STFU😭😭

#hpd #tw ableism

[love-lies-cymes]

gonna look up histrionic abuse rq

[love-lies-cymes]

sonic sez

[love-lies-cymes]

Reminder for people with Personality Disorders:

You can be in therapy for years to be able to cope.

You can mask the difficulties you have.

You can cope well with your disorders.

You can function in daily life.

But the day you have a bad day, the day you're so overwhelmed that the mask slips and you simply say one thing, the neurotypicals will use it against you and use it to abuse you.

Abuse is a choice. Abusers make the choice to abuse someone. Not every abuser has a personality disorder. There are plenty of abusers that are Neurotypical. Plenty of neurotypicals will abuse those with PDs due to the stigma and misinformation around them.

Quit using terms like "Narcissistic/Histrionic/Borderline/Anti-Social Abuse"

Quit using "Narcissist" and "Anti-Social" as insults.

Quit justifying abuse towards people with PDs.

Quit armchair diagnosing abusers and assholes with Personality Disorders when you don't know the lived experience of people with them.

Stop fucking appealing to Neurotypicals.

[love-lies-cymes]

But suddenly they know all about hpd when its an excuse to cancel some random musician

how the world feels about cluster b

bpd: need me a bpd girl ahah mood swings hahaha crazy girls with daddy issues

npd: a narcissist is anyone who is mean to me ever and i sense them with my Empath Eyes

aspd: exclusively serial killers and psychopaths, they are so evil and terrible

hpd: what the fuck is that

[love-lies-cymes]

Cluster b culture is “I need something very badly, but I don’t know what. I can’t think of anything that would satisfy me.” like pacing back and forth between the fridge and the pantry, but never being interested in anything. Just stuck in this mind-numbing cycle of closing and re-opening doors, as if doing that enough times will somehow change what you see. It’s that exact feeling, but with life in general.

[love-lies-cymes]

Some of y'all be like "Oh yeah I support Cluster B" until they:

Have debilitating cognitive problems

Are depressed

Have emotions that aren't aesthetically pleasing

Don't know healthy coping mechanisms

Have a different view of social norms

Struggle with relationships

Do actions that for you are "obviously purposefully evil"

Explain the thought process behind their actions, not excuse them

Have trauma that just by existing doesn't invalidate yours but somehow that thought scares you

It's almost like you don't support Cluster B, hm.

[love-lies-cymes]

more of my cluster b memes for you all.

[love-lies-cymes]

As someone who dated an endo "system" who used us and tried to force us to split alters of his interests because he wanted to fuck them, you all suck.

I don't care st this point, you don't give enough of a fuck to do your research and understand how fucking hard it is to cope with actually being a system.

We did not spend years of our life clawing at any sense of identity until our medical recognition just for you lowlife scumbags to claim you just formed a system because you wanted to.

Fuck you. Fuck all of you. I hope you get help, I hope you get over your delusions and accept the fact that you'll never have this horrible disorder because you should be glad that you don't.

It's not fun or quirky, it's miserable and you are the scum of the earth. You and anyone that supports you wholeheartedly.

[love-lies-cymes]

[love-lies-cymes]

hpd stands for hot person disorder. hpd stands for hella pretty disorder. hpd stands for honestly perfect disorder. hpd stands for handsome person disorder

[love-lies-cymes]

So at its core, is it an issue of needing constant attention in general or that attention from a specific person? This blog reminds me of how I similarly wished not that I would be given attention but demanded. It's surely different but similarly miserable.

i need attention in general, like i talk to ppl who i couldnt care less abt just bc theyre there, or i know how amazing i look so i dress up just so i can get compliments from ppl

but also attention from specific ppl (my atps) just hit different, it makes me euphoric

so when i dont get attention either from my atps or otherwise, it gets bad lol

not everyone w hpd has the same experiences or feelings tho i think

but even just this ask makes me happy bc i me specifically made u remember something and feel some type of way

i like being thought abt