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Wanna play with his hair and then somehow end up playing with his dick
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Suicide is illegal because it's illegal to destroy government property. Thats also the reason government officials are allowed to get away with assault most of the time. Because the government is allowed to do whatever with government property that they choose.
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If you reblog this post before 4/2/20 then I will tell you what major arcana tarot card you remind me of based off your blog 😊✨💫
(Thank you @thestoneforests for inspiring me!)
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11. There isnt any magical cure to an eating disorder. You cant go to the hospital and gain weight and BAM suddenly you dont have an eating disorder and eat anything you want forever with no worry. It's a battle, and relapses happen.
12. Not everyone with an eating disorder is anorexic. There are tons of eating disorders and not everyone of them involves restricting.
ED MYTHBUSTING
Eating disorders are NOT contagious! Stop treating them like they are.
Thin celebrities aren’t the reason people have eating disorders
The invention of size 0 and 00 are not the cause of eating disorders—and they aren’t unrealistic sizes, some people are just small and need those sizes.
That whole idea that we look in the mirror and see a big fat person when we actually look like skeletons?? Wrong. I’m sure some people do have that experience, but it’s not universal. My eyes are fine, I can see my body just fine, it’s about feelings—not about what my body actually looks like.
Not everyone with an ED is super skeletal skinny, or white, or female, or able-bodied, or teenaged. Just like everyone else, we come in all shapes, sizes, colors, ages, etc. We aren’t all skeletal, white, teenage girls 🤷🏽♀️
For some reason, in all the fiction I’ve seen about EDs, the girl with the ED has divorced parents with whom she has a rocky relationship? Needless to say (I hope) some of us have good relationships with our parents, some of us have parents who aren’t divorced, etc etc. This one feels particularly harmful though, because it kind of implies that it’s the parents’ fault that their child has an eating disorder because they got divorced....
People with anorexia DO actually eat. Sometimes, we even eat normal, balanced, sufficient meals. Which leads me to...
Not all days are bad days. I have an eating disorder, but some days I feel totally fine and normal. Just like any other mental illness...it’s not constant uninterrupted anguish.
“Diet culture” is not The Cause™️ of eating disorders, but it may contribute to feelings of shame about food and the body.
Eating disorders are “about” a person’s relationship with food and their body...but they aren’t really ABOUT a persons relationship with food and their body. For some people, it’s about control, or shame, or gender dysphoria, or fear of adulthood, or purity. For some people it’s about a fear of abandonment, fearing that people will leave you and not take care of you unless you’re sick.
Feel free to comment on this post. Are their any ED myths I missed that really bug you? Am I wrong?? Let me know!
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tumblr flagged a post of a girl eating berries so fruit is for whores now reblog if youre a fruit eating whore
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A Girl
You see this girl as your friend and her smile as she laughs with you is part of your life for years. Then suddenly one day it just appears that you look into her eyes and see this brown pool of happiness and joy. When she cries all you want to do is protect her and make her smile again. You kiss her and then your whole life revolves around her. You love her so much that you focus most of your energy on her, and how to make her happy.
She has mental health problems and you help her through it. You keep her from relapsing and you help her with any problems she may face. Then suddenly you wake up and realize that she keeps you from your friends, and gets upset anytime they get to see you and she doesn't. You still are a happy couple and she’s doing amazingly but you feel...lonely. She cries anytime you’re separated and you have to force her to leave, to the point where you get in trouble. Anytime you see someone else she cries and gets upset if you don’t talk to her the whole time.
But that's okay, right? She’s allowed to be upset and want you all to herself, right? You still see this amazing girl you need to protect and keep happy at all costs, but everyone around you sees somebody toxic. She’s so overly possessive and clingy that you feel as if you’re fucking up any time you aren’t focusing on her.
You relapse due to feeling lonely like you have no support. Because every close friend you have is gone. She’s pushed all of them away. You stopped focusing on anyone but her. You feel absolutely destroyed, but she’s happy. You finally tell her that you’re unhappy and YOU’RE the bad guy.
It’s been a month later now, and it’s kind of fixed. You have a few close friends that aren’t her again. But she’s beginning to get upset when you’re with somebody else. And it feels like, somehow, she’s disappearing from your life while also suffocating you. You love her too much to leave her. But you also don’t want to be hurt again. So you stay, somehow knowing you’ll get bad again.
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