✨👻👽🧛🏻🧙🏻♀️🥀⛓️⚰️🔪✨Spooky shit and cute shit and mental health shit, but like at the same time.Adult woman blogging about CPTSD and chronic illness and neurodivergence and probably some other stuff.I wish I had claws.
again and again i am reminded that you can only have what was meant for you, there is no point mourning over what could have been, there is only what is and what will be.
Hello miss supreme vampire witch queen mam, I was wondering if you could recommend me some gothy comics like Jthm, lenore, or even 30 Days of night?
Gothy comic recommendations? I am assuming that you’ve read all of The Sandman, right? RIGHT? Don’t make your Auntie Jilli summon the butler with the smelling salts.
Other comics of gothy interest, off the top of my head:
The Crow (again, obvious, but some people haven’t read it.)
Gloomcookie
Courtney Crumrin
Cursed Pirate Girl
The mangas for Vampire Kisses
The two miniseries of the Death comics: Death: The High Cost of Living and Death: The Time of Your Life
Books of Magic (the original 4 issue run.)
The Witching Hour (nothing to do with the Anne Rice novel.)
… and now I’m drawing a blank. Suggestions from the rest of you?
It's a lot healthier to go for a daily walk than to sign up for a gym membership you won't be using because you hate that kind of exercise. It's a lot healthier to eat a frozen meal than to skip a meal because you were too tired to cook something healthy. It's a lot healthier to take a quick shower than to procrastinate an elaborate routine for days. Don't aim so high that you won't be hitting anything!
If you know what you'd have to do to solve a problem, but you just don't want to do it, your main problem isn't the problem itself. Your problem is figuring out how to get yourself to do the solution.
If your problem is not eating enough vegetables, the problem you should be solving is "how do I make vegetables stop being yucky". If your problem is not getting enough exercise, the problem you should be solving is "how do I make exercise stop sucking ass". You're not supposed to just be doing things that are awful and suck all the time forever, you're supposed to figure out how to make it stop being so awful all the time.
I used to hate wearing sunscreen because it's sticky and slimy and disgusting and it feels bad and it smells bad, so I neglected to wear it even if I needed to. Then I found one that isn't like that, and doesn't smell and feel gross. Problem solved.
There is no correct way to live that's just supposed to suck and feel bad all the time. You're allowed to figure out how to make it not suck so bad.
I’m just going to keep trying with no expectation of getting it right the first time, or doing everything perfectly. It’s better to “half-ass” something and get it done than to be petrified by the fear of being flawed and never getting through. It’s better to just…try.