I’m tying you all up for your own safety but I swear if even ONE (1) of you enjoys it my asexual ass is giving up and going home
its been brought to my attention that some of you think horny prison would be a good idea because a lot of horny people in one place may lead to awful things especially in the presence of handcuffs galore and the affortmented Ghoulettes with Whips. youre all going to horny solitary how do you like THAT
Like really though, where the FUCK are all the ace communities???
All other letters on the lgbt+ spectrum are represented at my local community centre. WHERE IS THE A???? HELLO?????? I WOULD LIKE TO MEET OTHER ACE PEOPLE IN MY AREA?????
Also! Tell your friends not to lie either! One time I took a wild mix of stuff at a party and blacked out. Some stuff happened and the EMT’s were called. My friends were honest about what they gave me so I didn’t have to do an endless amount of blood tests and got out of the hospital pretty quickly. Then they took me home and gave me a cool rock to keep until the worst hangover of my life wore off. Be a good friend. Tell the truth to EMT’s. Bring your friend a rock.
Please reblog if you know anyone who might take party drugs.
ALSO! This isn’t exclusive to relationships with age gaps. Any time your partner uses your maturity as a reason to try to control or parent you, that’s abuse. Your partner should encourage you to be your best self, not shame and intimidate you into being what they want you to be. You shouldn’t be having to constantly prove your worth to someone who claims to care about you.
Gather round kids while I explain this manipulation tactic that men perpetually try to use and why it’s bullshit.
If someone is openly showing interest in you by making disparaging or disappointed comments about your age, they’re trying to put you on the defensive. This guy wants me to try to quell his discomfort, to bring up that I’m only a month shy of 20, etc. - he wants me to try to prove myself to him, that I’m mature and adult enough for a man like him.
His goal is to establish a power imbalance right off the bat. If we were to date, I would constantly be on the defensive, constantly striving to be an equal, constantly trying to prove my “adult” credentials. Anything he says or does or wants from this point on that I object to would just be seen as a strike against my age, proof that he was right and that I’m not mature enough for him. This is how SO MANY men pressure younger individuals (primarily women and girls) into situations and relationships they aren’t comfortable with. If he truly thought I was too young for him, he wouldn’t have messaged me. This is a very calculated move, and it’s fucking gross.
Adult relationships with age gaps are completely fine, but only if all parties view each other as equals. If someone is trying to set you up in a way that ensures that’s never a possibility, run far away.