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concept: ur f/o saw you being Weird and went "...that one. i want that one."

#sABO #thinking a lot about him recently just because #uhm #sometimes im having internal monologue and go. actually. sabo would like this about me. we could have a very interesting convo on this. we- #yea. yeaaaaa. sabo *grabby hands* sABOOO #all i write is about you

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Wrio: please do not break the law...

N: I won't break the law, I will bend it to my will

#FRUSTRATED I will fight for friends forever #im all happy and then injustice pisses me off #i just go and get sad most of the time BUT if there's change needed Im gonna BXKSBXKNS combust for it #I wonder what Wrio would think about that #this ↑ is a reference to one of his lines where he literally says that btw lmao #all i write is about you #anyway i need to go back to study *looks at the wrio on my wall* let's do this

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wishing all lesbian selfshippers a very happy Lesbian Visibility Week this week!!! ^-^

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your f/o would not care abt any 'abnormal' speech mannerisms you've got btw.

stutter? that's ok, they're more than happy to wait to let you get the words out, it just gives them an extra few seconds to appreciate your voice. Even if you get caught up on the same word a few times or the whole sentence struggles a little, they're not gonna make fun of you. It's you talking, what could ever be 'wrong' with that?

mix up your words? that's totally ok! whether you'd rather try again and say what you actually meant to say or just wanna repeat a few bits so they get the gist, they're not gonna make fun of you. even if you don't notice that you swapped around some words, they've gotten pretty good at deciphering your meaning, time together letting them hone their skills.

forget what you were saying halfway through it? that's totally fine too! whether they give you a few minutes to try and remember or just move past it till something jogs your memory again, they're fine to offer up some ideas on what it might've been about or a new topic to get your mind off of it.

use a lot of 'fluff' in your speech (ie. 'umm,' 'like,' 'uhh,' etc.)? they're not gonna rush the words out of you or interrupt your speech. They're more than happy to give you all the time in the world to talk, no matter how rambly and long-winded it might seem. They like hearing what you have to say and your thoughts are priceless to them.

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How about some positivity to combat all the bullshit stuff happening in my (and probably everyone else’s) life right now?

(Also I don’t really know how to make this all aesthetic and stuff but I think it does not matter bc I don’t wanna detract from my point anyways!!)

SHOUTOUT TO ALL THE SELFSHIPPERS WHO FEEL UNDERAPPRECIATED AND OVERLOOKED!!!

SHOUTOUT TO…

- selfshippers of color (ESPECIALLY black selfshippers, you shouldn’t have to put up with all the bullshit you have to deal with in the selfship community and other fandom spaces and your f/os would NOT stand for it, they would absolutely call anyone out on their racism)!!!

- mixed selfshippers of color as well (your f/os would love learning about all aspects of your heritage)!!

- transmasc selfshippers!!

- transfem selfshippers !!! (You gals also deal with so much bullshit and I want so much better for you and so do your f/os, they will ALWAYS hype you up for being the beautiful woman you are!)

- gay selfshippers!!!

- lesbian selfshippers !!

- bisexual, pansexual and other m-spec selfshipper s!!

- asexual, aromantic and aroace spectrum selfshippers !!!

- intersex selfshippers !!! (I see so little rep for you guys, I hope we can change that!! Your f/os would never ask you invasive questions without your consent and they would always support you against anyone who was weird to you about being intersex!)

- selfshippers whose f/os ‘don’t match’ their real life orientation (your real life identity is NOT invalidated by your attraction to fictional characters)!!

- queer selfshippers who don’t feel like typical and conventional labels fit for them!!

- physically disabled selfshippers!!!

- neurodivergent selfshippers (especially cluster B folks, the hatred I see directed at you is just awful and I desperately want people to stop acting like your flavor of neurodivergence has any effect on your morality. Your f/os wants to learn as much as your willing to share about your neurodivergent self and how to better accommodate you) !!

- selfshippers with intellectual disabilities !!

- selfshippers who don’t feel included in American and Eurocentric imagines, be they about physical features, seasons or cultural aspects!!!

- selfshippers who are ‘older’ (you are NEVER too old to selfship, it makes me so happy to see selfshippers past their 30s bc it reassures me that could be me!) !!

- selfshippers with fem f/os (so few imagines centered around fem f/os.. we need to change that)!!!

- fat selfshippers!!

- selfshippers with not ‘conventionally attractive’ features like acne, moles, stretch marks, self harm scars, etc (these are NOT ugly features but even if they were, you are still a person deserving of respect and kindness)!!!

- tall selfshippers who don’t feel included in most self insert imagines where the f/o is taller than the reader insert!!

- PLEASE PLEASE ADD MORE IN THE REBLOGS!!! If I forgot and didn’t include you or someone you care about, please reblog with that addition!! I want to see ALL of the amazing people the selfship community is comprised of!!!

PROSHIP/COMSHIP/‘NEUTRAL’ DNI

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honestly, if we’re mutuals, consider me on your taglist. i want to see everything my mutuals make. if you don’t have a taglist but you want someone to see something, send it to me !!

same for ask games — if you reblog / post an ask game and you want questions for it, just dm me your post! you don’t even have to say anything. i’ll bombard you with asks any time !!

i simply want to engage with all my mutuals. i want to be your cheerleaders, i want to hear about your ships, i want it all. i promise i’ll never find it awkward if you just message me any time. even if you just wanna chat or gush ♡

#this !!

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platonic f/o i give little forehead kiss before bed oh i love you mwah goodnight my dearest friend (´▽`)

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You've been around each other for so long, your native languages have rubbed off on each other that you both can speak to each other so casually in it now.

(Originally meant for r! and qpr! but of course it applies to everyone)

Proship dni

#A DREAM

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me: *thinking about obey me characters almost every night because I want to get out of here*

obey me:

IN THE SAME TEN PULLS

WHAT

AND THIS WAS IN MY LAST TEN PULLS

I can only thank them

#n is talking

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Your f/o will do anything to ensure you feel safe. Their actions and words give you a stable sense of tranquility, comfort, and security. They want nothing more than to make sure you feel alright around them. And if it takes you time to open up, they won't judge you at all. They understand that it can be hard to be vulnerable or trust, and they won't rush or push you into anything you aren't ready to say or do with/around them. They respect your feelings, and their firm stance on that will remain, regardless of circumstance.

#:((💚💚

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Get in loser (my bed) we're going (to take a nap)

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Yes, that unapproachable and/or grumpy character DOES have a soft spot for you (i promise)

#Cyno🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 #AND WRIO🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 #I slightly infodump Wrio once (1) and he's smiling at me with with ↑ playing in his mind #all i write is about you

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You can unmask around your F/O. They love your special interests.

They love your hyperfixations.

They love your joyful stimming, its fucking contagious to them.

They'll be here for you when you don't have spoons.

They'll be here for you when you're having a meltdown.

Your F/Os love you, platonic, romantic, queerplatonic. They love you, and they know you love them. You don't have to say it back. They just want you to be you, comfortably.

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I-

#I #I am not- #I feel like if I held him I would cry HDKDNKSS TOO MANY FEELINGS AND WHY DOES HE LOOK THAT CUTE #I- #the beloved omg #all i write is about you

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Having a comfort character is so weird

Like, oh they're 'not real'?

Well I love them as an entire being who I trust with every ounce of my personhood and soul on such a level that they resonate within me a frequency of comfort and peace unparalleled to anyone who has ever walked this Earth ever

also if I don't see a picture in them within the next twenty minutes I'm going to scream and Become Evil

#this is about obey me btw #yes every single obey me character thank you

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I just wanted to say something... As a reminder for everyone and myself included.

If you're trying to work on a big, main project, like a painting, novel, costume, or something that requires a lot of your time and energy, it's okay to take your time with it. There's no rush. It's okay to work on small side projects in the meantime.

I know for me, I'm trying to write and work on a couple books I want to actually publish one day. But all I can manage to write right now are my little self-ship fics. And sometimes those don't even get finished or written in for weeks. Sometimes I just need to remind myself thats okay.

If all you can manage are the small things, that's okay. Especially if those small things make you happy and don't take all your energy to do. Fuck what anyone else says. It makes you happy, it's enough.

Have a good day/night ☺️

#same same same !!

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Send this to your favorite blogs! Remember your f/os love you! 💛 We all need some love and positivity 🫶✨

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I've been inactive, but seeing your posts and reblogs always brightens my day 🫂

aAA Slep!!!!! sorry I took this long to answer, life's been wild and im trying to get through it, but I appreciate the message a lot and it's been very nice to see it 🥺🥺🥺🥺 Im also really happy to know about you and see your posts no matter if you stay inactive for some time !! it's always lovely to have you back friend 🫂🫂

#ask #asks