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heyyy i dont get paid until the 3rd and i need to get some food ^_^ if u can spare a little scratch for a weird girl like me itd be so awesome and sweet!! if u send me money all of the stars will smile and look down towards u with respect for the rest of ur entire life?? that sound like a pretty good deal tbh! how about it buddy? :3c

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Local shark needs rent QUICK

(Please note this post is edited from an older.)

Hello, all! My roomate doesn't have rent this pay period, and guess what's due the end of the week? You guessed it: RENT!

I very urgently need $400 by Friday (5/3). If you can't help monetarily, please please please reblog this post.

You can help me out at Payp, Venm @vanyasgd, and Cshap $VanyaSGD

Any and all help is appreciated, especially the reblogging. Thank you!!

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Can someone please please help.

The power will be off 5/1 if I can't pay $426.30.

I'm a black disabled lesbian and my wife is a Trans lesbian. We both work but can't get ahead bc of my medical issues.

It's Lesbian Visibility Week, please show up for multimarginalized lesbians.

pypal: [email protected]

zlle: [email protected]

vnmo: Serena-Manning

cshapp: $sailorsylvie

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hey im broke and temporarily unable to work atm due to hand problems, could i get some money for weed to treat my ptsd symptoms

Paypal.me/violetlk

Venmo: @Vivian-Kessler-1

Cashapp: $viviv6

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Help a Trans Lesbian of Color stay Employed!!!

My girlfriend recently got a job, which is exciting for us but she needs help getting some work clothes/shoes and funds to get to her work trainings. What is most important is getting to her trainings and getting non slip shoes but she wont be getting paid until much later in the month so if you can please help us until we have some stable income!

$160 GOAL!!!!

CA: $sleepyhen

VN: wildwotko

Dm for Paypl

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happy lesbian visibility week. remember that, even in countries were femicide is acknowledged, lesbophobic hate crimes are lumped in with barely a word of note. remember that most people shy away from the word lesbian as if it's a dirty thing, and that it's not interchangeable with the sanitized term of the week. remember that lesbianism is not "restrictive", and that realizing you aren't attracted to men in a world that tells you that is not a possibility is more freeing than you could ever imagine. remember that transness isn't anthetical to lesbianism, but an integral part of it. remember that we're not the mean girl cardboard cutouts that exist in your head but people with varied life experiences and backgrounds just like you. remember to love lesbians even when we're the mean hairy man-hating dykes you hear so much about. remember that our relationships are more than soft kissing hand-holding lukewarmth and deserve to be taken seriously in all their depth. remember that we don't exist for anyone's pleasure but our own. remember that we exist even when you think we don't, or wish we didn't. remember that we'll continue to exist, everywhere, always.

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disabled trans person need help paying for food, necessities + shipping supplies for shop after being homeless for 6 months

hello, my name is equinox, i am severely disabled autistic trans person dealing with schizophrenia, PTSD, arthritis, hypermobile ehlers-danlos syndrome, degenerative disc disease and gastroparesis. i am a wheelchair and cane user. i am recovering and stabilizing after being homeless for 6 months; i just spent 2 full months living in a hotel paying $38/night. i have relocated into my apartment that i was waiting 6 months for due to the subsidized housing program taking forever to calculate my earned income

i just paid $307 for my deposit + prorated rent in order to move in, as well as a $20 electric bill and a $35 bill to get internet set up, which is required for my jewelry business. i also had i also currently need a lot of things in order to make my house livable including a bed and food, and being able to get to the pharmacy for my medications. right now i have no food in my home due to having to spend money on uber XLs to and from my motel and storage unit in order to get the few possessions i have like blankets and personal belongings. i lost a lot of my kitchen supplies when transitioning between staying with friends for a while

i have almost no money on me right now. i will be re-stocking my shop with new items later today, but for now I need help being able to afford my living expenses as well as being able to afford to ship my products out to my customers. thank you to everyone who has helped thus far you have kept me safe for 6 months. you can help me here:

cash app: $glitterGraphix pay pal: glittergraphicnightmare@ gmail .com chime: $Equinoxian venmo: $Equinoxian

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Help out a depressed disabled lesbian 😞

I'm running out of essentials and really need to get some groceries. I hate to do this, but could I please get some help? My chronic pain has been getting worse and I've been really down; I'm not doing very well. Thank you for any help and for also reblogging. Words cannot express my gratitude. 🩵🩷🤍

p/ypal: Saintsilence6

c/shapp: Saintsilence

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one of the more valuable things I’ve learned in life as a survivor of a mentally unstable parent is that it is likely that no one has thought through it as much as you have. 

no, your friend probably has not noticed they cut you off four times in this conversation. 

no, your brother didn’t realize his music was that loud while you were studying. 

no, your bff or S.O. doesn’t remember that you’re on a tight deadline right now.

no, no one else is paying attention to the four power dynamics at play in your friend group right now.  

a habit of abused kids, especially kids with unstable parents, is the tendency to notice every little detail. We magnify small nuances into major things, largely because small nuances quickly became breaking points for parents. Managing moods, reading the room, perceiving danger in the order of words, the shift of body weight….it’s all a natural outgrowth of trying to manage unstable parents from a young age. 

Here’s the thing: most people don’t do that. I’m not saying everyone else is oblivious, I’m saying the over analysis of minor nuances is a habit of abuse. 

I have a rule: I do not respond to subtext. This includes guilt tripping, silent treatments, passive aggressive behavior, etc. I see it. I notice it. I even sometimes have to analyze it and take a deep breath and CHOOSE not to respond. Because whether it’s really there or just me over-reading things that actually don’t mean anything, the habit of lending credence to the part of me that sees danger in the wrong shift of body weight…that’s toxic for me. And dangerous to my relationships. 

The best thing I ever did for myself and my relationships was insist upon frank communication and a categorical denial of subtext. For some people this is a moral stance. For survivors of mentally unstable parents this is a requirement of recovery. 

#save #keep

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Reblog with your score

#I got a 2 🤣 #the sims my beloved #and Pokémon which I haven’t played in forever but still am fond of #I’ve watched girls play several of these tho does that get like half a point each

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(digital, 512px square. To view 1x on desktop: click image; on mobile: idk download it, I guess? Color palette: Oil 6 by Grafxkid)

Traced from a photograph which I took; palettized by hand. I rather enjoy this color palette. Detail at 2x resolution below:

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yeah, people do lie on the internet, however i am so passionate about things that if i lie it will feel like i committed an autistic sin

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i made my own<3

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broke mentally ill tgirl onto my 5th blog now, you may know me as sapphicinsatin

in and out of homelessness, my paypal is here if you can donate, anything at all makes a big difference and is greatly appreciated.

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(digital, 512px square. To view 1x on desktop: click image; on mobile: idk download it, I guess? Color palette: Oil 6 by Grafxkid)

Traced from a photograph which I took; palettized by hand. I rather enjoy this color palette. Detail at 2x resolution below:

#I LOVE THIS #so so gorgeous omg #you are so talented

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Labour is going to win the general election and then say this doesn’t go far enough.