The idea that men assault women bc “society didn’t teach them about enthusiastic consent” is insane. You’re a useless fucking idiot if you genuinely believe that. Men are not the victims of the sex crimes they commit. They know what they’re doing
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Seeing a woman in a suit: 😍
Seeing that she's wearing heels: 😔
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The stereotype that women are afraid of blood is downright weird. I mean, okay, if you're talking about someone else's blood, I will agree that there is a slight "ick" factor due to germs and whatnot, but even my own??? What the actual hell?! And, even then, I won't be fainting at the sight of it, or something; it's just blood, for goodness sake! I mean what do these dumb moids think women do every month???
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when self identified trans gay men write long tumblr posts about how yaoi fangirls are homophobic and fetishize homosexuality
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something about the femme fatale aesthetic really bothers me. i get that people are gonna do what they’re gonna do and i can’t stop them, but it feels very off. telling women that they can gain power over men and “become his worst nightmare” by like, using your appearance and sexuality to lure him into some sort of trap? like girl. he knows. he is getting exactly what he wants. i feel the same way when i hear women talk about “using a man for his money.” like go off, do your thing, but don’t act like you’re doing something revolutionary. i promise you, he knows damn well it’s a transaction, and you are the product. sugarcoating that transaction does not change its nature.
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just because your curls arent defined doesn’t mean that your hair is “unkept”, “ugly” or that you’re having a “bad hair day”
your natural hair is beautiful no matter what
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A man in Singapore has sued a woman who rejected him for $3m, claiming that she caused emotional “trauma” to his life.
The man, Mr K. Kawshigan, filed his lawsuit against Ms Nora Tan after she told him she wasn’t interested in a romantic relationship with him, according to Singapore-based newspaper The Straits Times.
The publication reported that Kawshigan filed two lawusuits against her, including a $3 million High Court claim that alleged the woman caused “damage to his stellar reputation” and “trauma, depression and impacts” to his life.
He claimed that due to the remarks she made, he lost earnings from his business partnerships and had to pay high costs for therapy in order to overcome his trauma.
The second lawsuit was a $22,000 magistrate’s court claim in which Kawshigan alleged that Tan had breached their agreement about working on their relationship.
The $22,000 claim was struck out earlier this month by State Courts deputy registrar Lewis Tan, who expressed that Kawshigan’s claim was “manifestly groundless and without foundation,” per The Straits Times.
His judgment was published earlier this week, in which he said: “Considered in totality, I find that the present action was intentionally initiated by the claimant with the ulterior motive of vexing or oppressing the defendant by requiring her to defend various claims that fundamentally stem from the same factual matrix in different forums.”
“This court will not be an accessory to his calculated attempt to compel engagement from the defendant who, after years of massaging the claimant’s unhappiness, has finally decided to stand up to his threats rather than cower and give in to his demands,” he added.
The magazine noted that Kawshigan and Tan first met in 2016 and then became friends. In September 2020, their friendship changed, with Tan regarding her peer as a “friend” while Kawshigan considered her his “closest friend”.
Tan then told him that she needed to distance herself from the friendship and encouraged him to be “self-reliant”. That following month, Kawshigan sent her a letter and threatened to file a lawsuit with a claim for “monetary damages arising from negligent infliction of emotional distress and possible defamation,” as reported by Straits Times.
Although Tan tried to have a conversation, Kawshigan told her she either had to meet his demands or face “irrevocable” damage to her professional reputation. Kawshigan’s counsellor also reached out to Tan and asked her to be a part of his sessions, which he agreed to.
However, a year and a half later, she stopped going to the sessions. She started her harassment proceedings against him in April 2022.
The magazine went on to note that after multiple conversations, Tam cut contact with Kawshigan in May of that year because she realised that he couldn’t respect her request for boundaries.
Kawshigan filed his $3m claim against her in July before filing his $22,000 claim in August. Tan has applied to strike out the $3m claim, with a pre-trial hearing set for 9 February, according to Straits Times.
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