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sleepixgstars · 3 hours

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I'm so very passionate about childwelfare, kids, parenting, and all that shit because, like, my parents had four (4) kids. four children.

I'm the 3rd. second to last. they had two kids before me, 6 and 4 years older than me. and yet somehow, some-fucking-how, they still had no fucking clue how to parent me or my younger brother.

idk how the fuck they were parenting my older siblings, but they fucked me up and I don't think my lil bro is much better off. these people had four children and somehow managed to not get better at parenting by the time 3 of them were in college.

I have a shit ton of issues because of my parents, especially my mama. because they decided to just, start having kids, without considering some Very Fucking Important things.

Kids are, shocker, PEOPLE. they are tiny humans who grow up to be *gasp* BIG HUMANS. kids aren't robots or dogs, you can't program them or train them, they will grow and eventually, they will be able to think for themselves and God be with ye if you think you're gonna be able to train a teenager to agree with you forever.

here's the thing:

if you can't bare even the thought of your kids possibly being trans, gay, disabled, neurodivergent, etc. then you should not be a fucking parent. period. if you can't put your kids' mental/physical wellbeing before your fucking hobbies, religion, or whatever the fuck, then you should not be a fucking parent. if you rely on your older kid(s) to parent your younger kid(s), you should not be a fucking parent. if you can't even handle the simple idea of your kid disagreeing with you, your religion, your political beliefs, or your idea of how they should behave, you shouldn't be a parent. if you think the solution to behavioral issues is physical punishment, yelling or screaming at them, or withholding food from them, you should not be a fuckign parent.

no kid should go through that shit and you think that it's no big deal or some shit like that, then you don't deserve to be a parent. fuck you for thinking that you can just do whatever you want because they're your kid. children are human fucking beings and deserve to be treated with respect.

if you can't respect kids as their own independent persons, who may disagree with you, who may not be what you want them to be, who may have different opinions and beliefs than you, who may identify as something you disagree with or dislike, then you should. not. be. a. fucking. parent.

end of fucking story.

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sleepixgstars · 3 hours

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They are drinking and telling stories about their crazy adventures

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sleepixgstars · 2 days

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when your grammar accidentally transfers

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sleepixgstars · 2 days

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a stud in black leather on a black motorcycle just revved their engine at me and thank god I tore my demonic uterus out ages ago because I think that would have finally knocked me up

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sleepixgstars · 3 days

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really stubborn self-sacrifical idiot guy who is desperate for love and thinks that they need to please everyone all the time and that they need to earn love from others but give their own freely and abundantly while also trying to heal others' wounds and trauma without taking the time to bandage their own, despite the blood trailing on the floor and making things worse for everyone x

tramatized guy who has had so much bad shit happen to them that they don't believe that they deserve love, but they want it so badly it hurts and they will push you away to protect themself even though they want nothing more than to be held and they have trust issues but they want to trust you and they have all of these larger than life beliefs that have led to them having a slight martyrdom complex and now they believe that if they don't die doing something grand, serving some grand purpose, then they will have lived a useless life

apparently it's. my favorite ship dynamic?

re-reading one if my favorite fics of all time and uh oh. I am seeing some... parallels. to my Real Life Romantic Relationship. to my Actual Partner whom I am In Love With and am Dating.

I'm fucked. I'm so fucked, yall. was this subconscious or do I have a type? is reality reflecting art or was art predicting reality?! am I going mad!? is this real??? or is it just fantasy!?? caught in a landslide no escape from reality open your eyes look up to the skies and see!?!?!?!?!?!?!? I'm just a poor boy I nee-

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sleepixgstars · 3 days

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re-reading one if my favorite fics of all time and uh oh. I am seeing some... parallels. to my Real Life Romantic Relationship. to my Actual Partner whom I am In Love With and am Dating.

I'm fucked. I'm so fucked, yall. was this subconscious or do I have a type? is reality reflecting art or was art predicting reality?! am I going mad!? is this real??? or is it just fantasy!?? caught in a landslide no escape from reality open your eyes look up to the skies and see!?!?!?!?!?!?!? I'm just a poor boy I nee-

#sorry for loredumping about myself #but this is just #uh oh #oh no #fanfic #vs #my actual human life #1 v 1

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sleepixgstars · 4 days

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hey

2016 was 8 years ago

that is all

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sleepixgstars · 7 days

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(unique-ish) Cheap/Easy Date Ideas

as your local broke-ass bitch, i thought i'd present y'all with my personal list of go-to dates when you're low on time, money, energy, or whatever. feel free to add on your own ideas/suggestions!!!

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Photography date; go to a park/downtown/place you haven’t been before/somewhere you’ve been a date before to and take pictures of the scenery, each other, yourself, etc. Afterwards, turn the photos into collages/wallpapers/etc. and trade them.

Painting date; get cheap painting supplies from Dollar Tree and paint portraits of each other/the same bob ross tutorial/scenery/etc. and trade pictures at the end.

Spa date; get (cheap) face masks/hair masks/etc. and spend the evening pampering each other/watching movies/chilling.

Hair date; spend a few hours cutting/dying your hair together. That’s it.

Bookstore date; go to a bookstore/library, pick out a book you think they might like and trade. read the books there or take them home, up to you!

Skill-Trade date; teach each other the basics of a skill/trade you know (sewing, baking, jewelry-making, sculpting, tinkering, coding, whittling, etc.)

Donation date; go through your things together and create a pile of give-away stuff to take to a donation shop/thrift store nearby

Thrifting date; go to a thrift store and try and build the most outrageous/cutest/silliest/etc. Outfits you can for each other and then do a mini fashion show in the changing rooms.

Chores date; pick a chore/task that needs to get done and work together to complete it; if you’re more of a competitive couple, pick two similarly difficult/time-consuming tasks and challenge each other to finish first.

Petstore date; go to a pet store, if possible, try and go to one that lets you pet the animals! Spend some time indulging in pet therapy <3

Dream Travel date; sit down and plan your wildest fantasy trip to anywhere in the world; look up flights, places to go see, etc. Set a budget or don’t, it’s up to you!

Writing date; Take turns writing a story, one sentence at a time! paper and pencil or via something like google docs, it doesn't matter - chaos will naturally ensue.

Picnic date; Simple but effective; grab some snacks and some water, a blanket or tablecloth, and some art supplies/books/etc. and find a park or rooftop to spend a few hours at!

Grocery date; go to the grocery store together; challenge each other to stay on a specific budget or find specific items, or just shop as usual and enjoy each others’ company!

Presentation date; make powerpoints about your interests/hot takes/each other/etc. and present them!

Learning date; pick a subject/topic/person/event/etc. and challenge each other to become the Expert on that topic; set a time limit and quiz each other afterwards!

Sewing date; pick a simple sewing project (pillow, pincushion, etc.) and either work together to make one item, or each of you make your own and you trade them!

Language date; pick a language to start learning together and start learning some basic phrases in that language to use with each other

#sorry for loredumping about myself #posts to show my partner #date ideas #couples

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sleepixgstars · 8 days

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Just a bunch of useful websites

12ft – Hate paywalls? Try this site out.

My Fridge Food – No idea what to make? Tell this site what ingredients you have on hand and it will give you recipes to cook.

Project Gutenberg – Always ends up on these type of lists and for very good reason. All works that are copyright free in one place.

Ninite – New PC? Install all of your programs in one go with no bloat or unnecessary crap.

Unchecky – Tired of software trying to install additional unwanted programs? This will stop it completely by unchecking the necessary boxes when you install.

Sci-Hub – Research papers galore! Check here before shelling out money. And if it’s not here, try the next link in our list.

LibGen – Lots of free PDFs relate primarily to the sciences.

Zotero – A free and easy to use program to collect, organize, cite and share research.

Car Complaints – Buying a used car? Check out what other owners of the same model have to say about it first.

CamelCamelCamel – Check the historical prices of items on Amazon and set alerts for when prices drop.

Have I Been Pawned – Still the king when it comes to checking if your online accounts have been released in a data breach. Also able to sign up for email alerts if you’ve ever a victim of a breach.

Radio Garden – Think Google Earth but wherever you zoom, you get the radio station of that place.

Just The Recipe – Paste in the url and get just the recipe as a result. No life story or adverts.

Tineye – An Amazing reverse image search tool.

My 90s TV – Simulates 90’s TV using YouTube videos. Also has My80sTV, My70sTV, My60sTV and for the younger ones out there, My00sTV. Lose yourself in nostalgia.

Foto Forensics – Free image analysis tools.

Old Games Download – A repository of games from the 90’s and early 2000’s. Get your fix of nostalgia here.

Online OCR – Convert pictures of text into actual text and output it in the format you need.

Remove Background – An amazingly quick and accurate way to remove backgrounds from your pictures.

Twoseven – Allows you to sync videos from providers such as Netflix, Youtube, Disney+ etc and watch them with your friends. Ad free and also has the ability to do real time video and text chat.

Terms of Service, Didn’t Read – Get a quick summary of Terms of service plus a privacy rating.

Coolors – Struggling to get a good combination of colors? This site will generate color palettes for you.

This To That – Need to glue two things together? This’ll help.

Photopea – A free online alternative to Adobe Photoshop. Does everything in your browser.

BitWarden – Free open source password manager.

Atlas Obscura – Travelling to a new place? Find out the hidden treasures you should go to with Atlas Obscura.

ID Ransomware – Ever get ransomware on your computer? Use this to see if the virus infecting your pc has been cracked yet or not. Potentially saving you money. You can also sign up for email notifications if your particular problem hasn’t been cracked yet.

Way Back Machine – The Internet Archive is a non-profit library of millions of free books, movies, software, music, websites and loads more.

Rome2Rio – Directions from anywhere to anywhere by bus, train, plane, car and ferry.

Splitter – Seperate different audio tracks audio. Allowing you to split out music from the words for example.

myNoise – Gives you beautiful noises to match your mood. Increase your productivity, calm down and need help sleeping? All here for you.

DeepL – Best language translation tool on the web.

Forvo – Alternatively, if you need to hear a local speaking a word, this is the site for you.

#saved for later #neat

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