#‘you define your femininity’ and ‘you don’t have to xyz to be a lady’

[vicsera]

how the fuck do i be a woman. video tutorials appreciated

#gender #i’m glad i came out so early bc it meant i was in as many ppl’s faces as possible w it but #now that i’m entering adulthood and entering an era that is WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY more feminine than i have been or have let myself be in the #past. i don’t fucking know how to be a girl. i was born as one but idk how to be one #and i understand ‘not wearing makeup doesn’t make you less of a woman’ and #‘you define your femininity’ and ‘you don’t have to xyz to be a lady’ #but a lot of what i define as femininty in myself is classical ‘this is for GIRLS!!!!’ things #i want to do makeup and dress pretty and do my nails and have long hair and long eyelashes and a soft voice #but idk how to do a lot of that and atp i’m way to embarrassed to ask #i’m 21 almost 22 and (FOR ME PERSONALLY THIS APPLIES TO ME ONLY NO ONE ELSE) #i wish i had figured out how to be my birth gender before hopping to a different one. idk #anyways #sera speaks